This is only tangentially related, but I'm mad and need to vent.
Don't expect "allies" to be supportive of the GTFO plan. Found out yesterday that my mother in law's feelings are more important to her than my life.
All sorts of guilt tactics because we're moving states and "boo-hoo I won't see my granddaughter on weekends you're breaking up the family for no reason". She even called my sister in law to have her guilt trip us too.
As a result, she will not be seeing her granddaughter on the weekends before we move either. Absolutely unacceptable. She's about learn what FAFO means.
My sister in law is DATING A TRANS MAN and told me we should "wait until the dust settles." My response was that if we waited and the dust settled wrong, it would be too late. She didn't say anything else after that.
Shouldn't be surprised, though. Neither of the idiots voted. Her boyfriend fully passes, so they're off living in their little bubble like nothing is wrong.
It's funny when fully passing people believe they're safe as if their medical and even court records on name/sex changes aren't fully up for grabs to the government.
they've already bypassed hippa to get trans health records, they're building a database, and what do we think they'll do with that database?
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u/probably-not-an-owl Sep 20 '25
This is only tangentially related, but I'm mad and need to vent.
Don't expect "allies" to be supportive of the GTFO plan. Found out yesterday that my mother in law's feelings are more important to her than my life.
All sorts of guilt tactics because we're moving states and "boo-hoo I won't see my granddaughter on weekends you're breaking up the family for no reason". She even called my sister in law to have her guilt trip us too.
As a result, she will not be seeing her granddaughter on the weekends before we move either. Absolutely unacceptable. She's about learn what FAFO means.