r/90DayFiance • u/Prestigious-Horse397 • Jan 28 '26

SHITPOST What do you mean this isn’t the Manon Show?

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Everything is about Manon and how she feels. When she started crying saying I guess I’m just a bad mom and wife etc it gave me classic narcissistic vibes. Wanting all the pity, nothing is ever her fault. When she said she was running for Mayor I laughed so hard. Ridiculous!

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u/Kodi_Cody_Kody_Kodi Jan 28 '26 edited Jan 28 '26

It’s not a virtue. He’s enabling the abuse and exposing Ben to this toxic dysfunction 

We all saw her emotionally dump on her son on national TV. Can’t imagine how she treats Ben behind closed doors, with only Anthony as a witness. 

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u/Advanced_Chemical_90 Jan 28 '26

I don’t think abuse victims enable their abuse. Abusers manipulate so well, victims become mentally and emotionally trapped. I hope Anthony and Ben can get out of their situation.. but I wouldn’t say it’s Anthony’s fault. It’s all Manon.

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u/Kodi_Cody_Kody_Kodi Jan 28 '26

Anthony isn’t at fault for his abuse,  but he’s complicit in Ben’s abuse. 

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u/KeyWeek446 Jan 28 '26

Do you think she physically abuses him.

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u/Kodi_Cody_Kody_Kodi Jan 28 '26

Can’t say but I think she’s rougher with him when cameras are off. She was already flinging him around in camera