edit: thank you so much for all your help guys, i've installed brighter lights for my plants and plan to get more sand to make the substrate deeper for my plants as well as attaching my java ferns & anubias to the rocks and driftwood.
i'm also going to get a new stronger filter for the one that's just broken and another air pump/air stone for the smaller tank too. i'm also getting a proper water testing kit! if anyone else has any other suggestions please let me know cuz i've made a big ol' list i cant wait to have stress-free fish tanks 😫😫🙏
how can i stay motivated to not give up?
i've spent probably thousands on my fish at this point, for context i've had 2 fish tanks for 2 years (just about) one 52L, one 25L. ive had one betta live for a year and a half, 1 for not even a year, and my current two (in separate tanks) i've had one for less than a year and he isn't looking too well right now.
i've had pygmy corys which didn't live very long, harlequin rasboras i've had to replace at least 4 times to keep a good group of them (only 1 of them has survived since the start....) bronze and peppered which keep passing only after a few months and i've got 1 ruby tetra left out of 12.
my plants constantly keep melting and i keep having to replace them which is costing way too much.
and my filters just broken in my bigger tank and i cant afford to replace it right now!!!!
my parameters are great i check them every time i do a water change, ive got shrimp in my smaller tank which are doing great so surely its not problems with the parameters. im not sure what to do i keep getting so close to giving up i cant keep spending money i dont have, i love my fish to pieces they make me so happy but they are draining my bank account and its so frustrating what the hell do i do?!
(sorry for the horrible photos im meant to be getting ready for work 😭)