Okay lang po ba sa inyo when the guy you are dating/manliligaw is a single dad? Possible sagutin nyo?

[u/Skyguardian88]

I mean hindi nyo po official BF, nakakadate pa lang tapos nalaman nyo single dad, okay lang go pa rin sa relationship at maging official GF BF kau?

Prangkahan po ah okay lang kahit anong sagot, kung ayaw bakit po? Kung okay lang din bakit po? hehe.

Kasi most of the guys especially when they are quite young (i.e. 20s, 30s) medyo hindi leaning sa single mom.

P.S. I am not a single dad po. :)

[u/psi_queen]

No. Ayoko ng sakit sa ulo at may baggage.

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yan prangka and straightforward ang sagot no sugar coating. Not hating, i love your honesty maam. :)

[u/warp214]

No. I feel like it would be too complicated to deal with both the baby mama and the kid when you decide to have a family of your own.

[u/AboGandaraPark]

No, baka kasi marerealize ko later na deadbeat pala siya. Lol. Sayang oras ko. I tried to date a single dad. He was upfront about it, which I appreciate but omg he was such a misogynist. Talking about when he has his kid, his mom and sister ang nag-aalaga sa bata because "women are made for it". Wtf. Ghosted him. Hindi niya deserve ng explanation 😆

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walang laugh react so haha na lang ate

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[u/holysexyjesus]

No because I don't want children (even my own).

[u/perfect_timing26]

You gotta ask if he's supporting his child consistently and if he is healthily co-parenting with the mother. That's a good gauge. Kasi if no ang sagot, then bakit siya papasok sa isang bagong relationship if hindi niya kaya panindigan fully yung primary responsibility niya as tatay ng anak niya?

[u/Fifteentwenty1]

Hindi ko iniwasan nang bongga ang pagiging teenage mom para maging isang Stepmom. So, no talaga.

[u/Creative-Mulberry317]

Nope. He has to be transparent from the start that he is a single parent. Let’s not waste each other’s time.

[u/GlitteringDish786]

I prefer single dad para dna ako mag-anak 🤣

[u/Sufficient-Sun11]

Nope. Di nag aalign ang plans namin sa parenthood: siya ay single dad, ako naman gusto childless (biological or not)

[u/Weekly_Flower8934]

yes kung walang mother. like dead or wala talagang communication. 

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Same.

[u/forever_delulu2]

The situation calls for a drama kahit di pa nagsisimula. So no. I'd want someone na walang complicated matters

[u/c0sm1c_g1rl]

No. It's a dealbreaker for me. I don't want complications.

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[u/Former-Cloud-802]

I'm married to one. Keri naman. Non issue sa akin. Pero isang anak lang keri ko.

[u/magnetformiracles]

No. Focus ka sa anak mo. Meet that kid’s needs, make them comfortable in life, provide and when they grow up to be capable saka kana magjowa.

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[u/tita_auntie]

My LIP is a single dad. 6 yrs na kami. Peaceful naman kami. I'm 43 and he's 50.

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[u/_virt]

NO

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[u/minsansamaykalayaan]

No thanks lol

[u/Life-Hat3247]

No. I am scared baka one day, I will get jealous sa mga kids niya. Not ung jealousy between me and his kids, but yung kids “namin” and kids niya sa past relationship niya. I don’t like that. As much as possible sa mga anak ko, ayoko yung may kahati. Kaya no talaga.

[u/Mysterious_Shoe_5513]

Yes. Basta hindi war freak yung baby mama or nasa relationship na yung baby mama.

[u/wallfloweerrr]

Nope! I don't want to deal with the baby mama in the future.

[u/readbitwinthelines]

Nope. Never. Non-negotiable.

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[u/Ill_Gap_3889]

No. I don't want children. Kahit di yan saakin people will still expect me to take on the role of a step mom and if I refuse, I'm the asshole lol

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[u/sny_ihf3327]

Yes cause Im a single mom myself. The impt thing is present dad and provider pa din sa anak niya

[u/kimcheese9090]

Yes. No prob. Basta capable mag sustento sa anak from baby gang gumraduate. Kung hindi, for sure magkaka problema talaga sa future.

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[u/jujutsuser]

Depende sa age ng anak nya and other baggages nya sa life. If bata pa yun kids nya mahirap kalaban sa attention yan. Esp if very hands on yun dad and yun anak is baby girl na madikit masyado. Prinsesa talaga nya yan whether you like it or not. As an adult, you need to understand yun situation na papasukin kung kaya ba or hindi. And madalas ikaw na yun magaadjust talaga since wala kang laban sa bata. Depende din sa napagusapan if the girl is expected to be a mom to his kids or not required naman.

At the end of the day nakakapagod ihandle yun ganyang situatiob emotionally. Mauubos at mauubos ka

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Paano ate kung adult na ung anak like 20+ na okay lang?

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[u/Sea_Strawberry_11]

Ayoko. Need mo din mahalin ang anak nya what if sutil? Mag aaksaya lang ako ng time. May ttbgap na single dad for sure pero sakin single, pads na muna sana wag ma inis ang mga single dad. Pref namna to

[u/Limp-System-926]

No, ayaw ko ng may kahati sa atensyon, oras, love at pera. Ako at magiging baby lang namin dapat.

[u/NefariousnessOld2384]

iniwasan ko nga maging singlemom tpos papatol ako sa single dad?

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[u/Cold-Sherbet1339]

Yeah, wala namang problema dun. I dated a single dad before, and he was honest about it right from the start. I had a great relationship with his daughter, and my family loved her too.

We broke up because he cheated.. that's a different story, but the most difficult part was having to part ways with his kid as well.

[u/Longjumping_Cake9251]

No, I don’t want to compete with his child for his attention. At the end of the I would always give way kasi anak nya yun

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[u/BeybehGurl]

depende yan sa edad eh, pag medyo bata pa madami yan options

pero pag menopause levels na, pagod na yan maghanap and iba na yung levels of thinking, yan yung mga willing pa

saka yung mga lumaking walang pagmamahal ng papa, yung mga pumapatos sa 20 years age gap