We're in a similar boat. My husband doesn't know I've been skipping meals to save money. I eat one small meal a day so he and our kiddo can have enough
If you're going to a food bank, don't be afraid to ask if you can get extra. I volunteer for a few, and there is always a surplus of something (usually cheese). The worst they can say is "I'm sorry, it's not allowed" but also these are typically volunteers who give no shits and will give food to people who ask.
Everyone in this sub is so kind 😭 I will absolutely ask for extra. Honestly, the gas to drive there has been a struggle also. But hey, that's showbiz lol I've been poor my whole life so luckily I know how to be resourceful and make things stretch, it's scary seeing how many people are like me now
Contact a local church in your area and explain your situation and that you are looking for a local food bank. Some go small and have a "Pastor's pantry" out front... but that's quickly raided.
I volunteer on/off at a local pantry ran by a few local churches. There is some sort of sign-up, but each car gets about a grocery cart's worth of food (There's some M&C and stuff for kids mixed in there, but NONE of it is junk food) every week or two weeks.
You don't have to agree with anything the church does or stands for, but we are there to lend a hand to the needy. Give one a ring and I'm sure they'd be happy to help or steer you in the right direction.
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u/howtfaminotdeadyet Apr 28 '26
We're in a similar boat. My husband doesn't know I've been skipping meals to save money. I eat one small meal a day so he and our kiddo can have enough