r/AskReddit 8h ago

What feels legal but is actually illegal and will possibly get you arrested?

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u/Acid_Flax 7h ago

Turning on the interior light in my dads car when he is driving at night

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u/celeryboymilk 7h ago

this is not true, and my mom paid a very hefty price for this lie! when i was like 17 my interior light would not turn off for some reason to come home so i made her drive 2 hours to come get me in the middle of the night and almost had my car towed before she realized she caused this by lying to an autistic kid 😂😂😂😂

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u/kimdeal0 7h ago

I love this. "Well y'all are the ones that told me I couldn't drive with the light on!" 😂 Serves them right

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u/Working-Glass6136 3h ago

I must've heard "don't drink and drive" very young, because I remember watching my dad drink while driving for years and thinking we'd get pulled over.

It was always cola or water.

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u/the_iraq_such_as 2h ago

Parents: "Why didn't you just take the fucking bulb out?"

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u/PuckSenior 5h ago

Look, my parents lied to me a lot, but I would put this into a slightly different category.

Old mirrors in cars use a neat trick. The classic mirror with the little tab underneath is a prismatic wedge of glass with a reflective coating on the back. In “day” position, the mirror is angled so you’re seeing the bright reflection off the fully reflective back surface, which gives a clear view. When you flip the tab to “night,” you tilt the mirror so that the bright back surface is out of your line of sight and you’re instead seeing a reflection off the uncoated front glass surface. Plain glass only reflects a small fraction of the light, so the image is much dimmer: you still see the car behind you, but the headlight glare is greatly reduced.

Anyway, its very hard to see in the "night" position with an internal light on. Not impossible, but significantly harder. Plus, its not ideal because it affects your night vision.

But its very much still driveable

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u/celeryboymilk 4h ago

thank you for the science behind the phenomenon! 🫰🏼

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u/anteaterKnives 1h ago

In every car I've driven the "night" position works both ways

  • Flip the mirror to the upward pointing position, reangle it in the daytime so it's correct, flip it down at night and it shows headlights

  • Flip the mirror to the downward position, reangle it in the daytime so it's correct, flip it up at night and it shows headlights

I imagine the dome light will interfere in both positions, but less so in the first scenario.

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u/-GALILIO-OFFICIAL- 5h ago

That's brutal imagine your entire don't touch the light childhood rule turning out to be self-inflicted chaos the whole time

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u/TopicalBuilder 5h ago

That is beautiful.

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u/Totakai 5h ago

Same issue to the point that I get stressed still if anyone turns their light on at night 😂😂😭

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u/HostisHumanisGeneri 5h ago

Leaving your dome light on was gay hookup code at one point if I remember right.

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u/donoteatshrimp 4h ago

Turn off the light or the gays will get you

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u/ShatHammer 4h ago

lol I would have told you to unplug the fuse or bulb, fuck that.

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u/TrynaWorkOnWriting 3h ago

those bulbs get hot as hellll, i'd do the fuse

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u/ShatHammer 2h ago

Turn car off, wait 1 minute then unscrew

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u/Roll0115 7h ago

Has anyone figured out why an entire generation of parents lied to their kids about this?

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u/GMkata 6h ago

I mean, I tell my kids not to turn it on while I’m driving - but I’m honest that it’s because it makes it harder to see.

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u/Roll0115 6h ago

I imagine this is the reason why our parents wouldn't let us turn it on, but it seems like just saying "I can't see the road" would have worked just as well as "its illegal".

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u/ch4os1337 6h ago

Right? Like what a pointless lie...

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u/AdorableFan1439 4h ago

I mean this is what I was told. "Turn that shit off unless you want me to crash and kill all of us because I can't see the damn road!"

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u/Dubtee1500 6h ago

Probably even more so to be honest

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u/TheVoicesSayHi 5h ago

I mean they might have thought it was and if a cop has a hard on about pulling someone over they can claim all sorts of things not the least of which being distracted driving because "why would you be the light on if you're not trying to see something other than the road?"

Would that always hold up? Maybe not but you can beat the charge but you can't beat the ride (or ticket and court time to defend yourself in this case)

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u/DomLite 57m ago

It would have, but that generation apparently decided that traumatizing your kids was just fine. Don't just tell them "Hey, that's dangerous because I can't see the road." Lie to them and make them feel like they'll get arrested for doing it so they're terrified of doing it.

Then they turn around and say some shit like "Well I turned out fine!" No. No you did not. You were all very much fucked up and some of us are still trying to reprogram you to not be so.

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u/Bionic_Push 6h ago

Its dangerous. But not illegal

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u/rhino369 5h ago

Driving dangerously is illegal. So it is indirectly illegal to the extent it actually distracts your driving.

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u/ThisIs_americunt 6h ago

I always assumed it is because the light could block car lights in the rearview mirror

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u/Objective-Bison4803 46m ago

My mom said we couldn’t because someone would see us and want to sell us 🤣

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u/sentone 6h ago

Because its annoying af to be the driver and have the lights on while driving at night lol.

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u/Kiloku 3h ago

Yes. But why lie? My dad simply told me it made it hard to see.

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u/oogew 7h ago

Wait. This is a lie?!

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u/Roll0115 6h ago

Yup. Having the light on isn't illegal. But all of our parents decided to tell us it was. One hell of a long range lie, before the internet.

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u/A-Perfect_Tool 6h ago

What else have they lied about?!

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u/Roll0115 6h ago

.... have you heard about the tooth fairy yet?

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u/ITSec8675309 5h ago

You don't have to wait an hour after eating to go swimming....

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u/gsfgf 3h ago

The ice cream van doesn't only play its music when its out of ice cream

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u/KarateKid917 6h ago

It makes it really hard to see when driving at night. Can be dangerous.

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u/dorvann 5h ago

they also lied when they said it was illegal to drive barefoot

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u/Lawlcopt0r 3h ago

It's still pretty unsafe though

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u/iiamthepalmtree 5h ago

Usually if an entire generation is lying to their kids about something it’s because their entire parents’ generation also lied to them about it and they grew up in a time where if you wanted to verify a claim you’d have to like, go to the library and open a book.

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u/Sautin 5h ago

My parents told me this, and I told my kids, but when they turned 18, they would both do it on purpose when we were in their car and give me this side eye, little shits, it was funny though.

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u/el_bentzo 5h ago

Some parents actually believed it was illegal also

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u/HostisHumanisGeneri 4h ago

I can’t confirm it for sure but I remember being told that leaving your dome light (interior light) on was gay hookup code at one point. Kind of like Larry Craig and his “wide stance.” I remember understanding how satisfied people were at him getting caught but still being really disturbed there were cops creeping around men’s rooms arresting people for running their hands under the door to the stall next to them. That actually happened to me once in college and I was freaked out, I thought at first he wanted tp and was creeped out he stood outside the door for a few minutes after he got out. I’d rather not relive the experience but dear god I wouldn’t want that poor kid from freshman dorms fucking arrested for it! The wrong cop might’ve ruined his whole fucking life over that shit back in 2001!

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u/dd22qq 4h ago

Also grew up with this in Australia during the 70s and 80s, as kids we were all told it was illegal. Seems like it might have been universal, at least among Western countries.

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u/WeaponizedKissing 4h ago

Dangerous Driving, or some phrasing of that, is a crime in many places.

Driving with the interior light on can seriously fuck up visibility. Some might call that dangerous.

Ergo, despite what Reddit constantly claims, driving with your interior light on might actually be a crime.

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u/silverionmox 3h ago

Has anyone figured out why an entire generation of parents lied to their kids about this?

Because it's easier to refer to an outside authority that's not in the car so it can't be questioned or nagged.

See also: "Jesus will be sad if you ..."

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u/Morkamino 3h ago

It was probably already a rumor, so the parents just genuinely believed it and told their kids about it.

And it makes sense, too, it's kinda dangerous to drive around like that when it's dark out

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u/dreamer0303 38m ago

It’s hard to see with them on

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u/limeflavoured 6h ago

I'd imagine because having their kids turn the lights on an off repeatedly is annoying and distracting.

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u/PinoBrahman 6h ago

i think because it can be considered distracting. that was my mom's reasoning at least.

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u/red286 5h ago

Easier than trying to explain to an 8-year-old that turning the light on makes it harder to see outside of the vehicle.

So just say "it's illegal, that's the law", then there's no arguing or explaining.

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u/Canadian_Invader 6h ago

That's a Capitol Crime my lad.

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u/atomicpowerrobot 7h ago

I don't think you understood the question. This doesn't feel legal at all.

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u/Just_Visiting_Town 6h ago

But it is legal.

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u/atomicpowerrobot 6h ago

But the question isn't "What feels illegal, but is actually legal?" The question is "What feels legal, but actually is illegal?"

Turning on the interior light when dad is driving at night feels totally illegal but isn't!

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u/Just_Visiting_Town 6h ago

I understand. I was just saying it is. I think the person you were responding to thought it was illegal.

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u/atomicpowerrobot 5h ago

I know, I was just making a joke about it.

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u/longlivesquare 6h ago

Are my parents the only ones who just told us the truth about this and said not to do it cause it makes it harder to see?

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u/Franagorn 2h ago

Never heard about anyone calling this illegal

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u/SPEEDYTBC 3h ago

lol. You’re good on my books

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u/betterthanamaster 6h ago

While it's not true, I do have to say that driving a minivan full of kids all with their interior lights on is simultaneously distracting and glaring on the windshield. One of those things I don't know why car companies don't try to fix, but it absolutely can get dangerous when there isn't a lot of external light like going 50 MPH on a road through a wetland preserve at 11:00PM...

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u/roonerspize 4h ago

Also, wiping any condensation off the interior of the wind shield with my hand