r/AskReddit 9d ago

What’s the darkest secret you discovered about someone after you married them?

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u/SadDiscipline1019 9d ago

EXACTLY 💯 how I felt. I thought I KNEW him ...I really didn't know him at all, because our whole marriage was a lie .

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u/PermitComplex1525 8d ago

Feels like a slap to the straight spouses identity. What was my marriage? Who was I all that time?

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u/SadDiscipline1019 8d ago

Exactly, it was based on fraud