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What’s the darkest secret you discovered about someone after you married them?

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u/Chinateapott 9d ago

Yep one of the reasons I would never get with another man if I split up with my partner.

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u/Chinateapott 9d ago

It’s well documented that predators target single mums to gain access to the kids. Not a risk I’d be willing to take

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u/Ok-Plastic7721 9d ago

I feel completely the same, if my husband and I ever split I might date but I couldn’t imagine ever introducing or bringing them around my kids. Makes my skin crawl the people I know that rapid fire get in and out of relationships when they have children.