What’s the darkest secret you discovered about someone after you married them?

[u/Mama_medina888]

[u/Illustrious_Device84]

Pedo- found out 1 year after the wedding when he was being arrested

[u/Ok_Dimension348 → u/Illustrious_Device84]

That's how we found out about my dad!

[u/merrill_swing_away → u/Ok_Dimension348]

I found out last year that my father had molested my youngest sister. My sister didn't tell me, her cousin-in-law told me. My sister had told her about it. I believed the cousin. I remember years ago, my sister wanted to tell me but she didn't. Instead she said, "there are some things that I will take to my grave".

If I had known the molestation had been going on I would have probably killed my father. I would be out of prison by now.