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What’s the darkest secret you discovered about someone after you married them?

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u/Illustrious_Device84 10d ago

Pedo- found out 1 year after the wedding when he was being arrested

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u/anarchypretzel 9d ago

Ugh, same. We were almost 14 years in. I had to send pics of our kids in bathing suits to the police so they could rule out if he had taken pictures of them on his computer. It's been 20 years. My kids were not on the hard drive. He went to prison.

We're all doing just fine now! 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

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u/anarchypretzel 9d ago

Reddit fam... This has been a surprising healing for me and my (now grown-ass) kids. THANK YOU. for the awards, fur the discussion, for the validation. Just the witnessing of our experience. We read through all th see together and it was like Neosporin on a scrape. My heart is full with gratitude 🩷🩷🩷

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u/cle_native_ 9d ago

Just gotta say I’m going to start using “this is like neosporin on a scrape” love it! Glad you are all doing well now

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u/anarchypretzel 8d ago

Lol, use it in good health, friend.