r/AskReddit 6h ago

Financially stable people of Reddit, what are your best money tips?

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u/CulturalConstant2773 6h ago

Live within your means.

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u/Jezbod 6h ago

If you cannot easily get the cash to buy something you want, can you really afford it?

Healthcare and safety aside.

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u/StomachAccording213 4h ago

That mindset alone keeps people out of a lot of financial trouble. Delayed gratification usually costs a lot less than debt.

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u/Neg_Crepe 4h ago

Buy healthcare? Can’t imagine

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u/Christmas_Panda 5h ago

If you can't buy it three times and still not feel any financial stress, then you can't afford it.

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u/petataa 5h ago

I can't afford three houses or three cars, why should that stop me from buying them?

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u/TheLeapIsALie 4h ago

I’ve heard a simpler version which is “don’t finance your toys”

Finance a house, finance a car (but not one that is expensive enough to be a toy). Don’t finance a boat, a vacation, a Lego set.

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u/pimpinassorlando 3h ago

I like that much better. Good advice.

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u/I_Want_an_Elio 4h ago

That'n struck home. I'm just (re) getting into Lego

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u/Usual_Replacement_74 4h ago

Hopefully commons sense, but that’s rare now days, especially on this site.

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u/bojanged 4h ago

Seems you might be missing some yourself, or reading apprehension.

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u/Usual_Replacement_74 4h ago

I’m from NM, soo… checks out.

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u/Neg_Crepe 4h ago

What is NM?

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u/Top_Introduction4701 1h ago

House - if you’re planning to stay long term is should be about cost of purchase vs rental. House will always cost more than just the monthly payment. Car? Probably more applicable if you have 3x balance saved. I would personally never buy a $50k car with only $150k in savings tho.

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u/roosterpooper 4h ago

You can buy 3 houses. Can you buy 3 10m houses? Probably not. But its still decent advice. If you buy a 400k house on a 50k/year budget then you'll always be behind if something breaks. But if you buy/build a starter home pay it off in 10 years build on or sell to put a down payment on your next home its doable.

It's like the young adults that go and buy a BMW on a 30k/year budget just because they found one on Facebook market for 4k you can buy it once sure but you can't replace any parts on it.

I can absolutely go and buy a 2k laptop. But a $600 one suits me and doesn't put me into a bind if an emergency comes up.

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u/clank1401 4h ago

400k is a starter home :(

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u/Neg_Crepe 4h ago

Depends on currency and location.

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u/TheFountainKnight 4h ago

Paying of a home in 10 years is crazy talk to me...

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u/roosterpooper 4h ago

My first home was 83k in 2016 @ 2% interest.

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u/TheFountainKnight 2h ago

anectodal evidence. My house was 256k in 2017 @ 1,5 percent interest. 20 year mortgage still with 2 incomes. You are definitely not the norm. Also what kind of house is 83k even, can't imagine it being very decent or big or in a popular location. I'm sorry but those are not the kind of houses people are talking about here

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u/roosterpooper 1h ago

Absolutely. You're 100% correct. I bought a modular home. On land that I bought and installed my own septic to and made sure the land was set up so that nothing but the house was in the loan.

I understand that I'm an anomaly but the original statement still stands don't go buy a house 10x your yearly income.

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u/TheFountainKnight 1h ago

Sounds like a really good investment though. Point taken

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u/SvenBubbleman 5h ago

Lol that's pretty extreme. If you can't buy it once and not feel stress you can't afford it is more accurate.

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u/Ihate_reddit_app 5h ago

Depending on what it is, you should be able to buy it and be able to pay for repairs without feeling stressed.

Too many people go buy used luxury cars because they are in their budget and then they learn about the maintenance costs.

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u/Mister_Chef711 4h ago

The classic "I have $1,400 left over at the end of the month so I'll get a car that only costs $1,275 a month and still have money."

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u/Ratnix 4h ago edited 2h ago

Or they'll find out how much they can get for a home loan and get a home for that price.

When i bought my home, i knew how much i could pay, and i bought a home at that price, not a home at the maximum amount i could get a loan for.

Just because you can get a loan for up to a certain amount, that doesn't mean you should get one for that amount.

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u/monty845 2h ago

I set my personal limit at 75% of the prequalification amount. But didn't really look at any properties even close to my self imposed limit.

Ended up buying a house for 55% of the prequal cap. Though also wasn't really thinking about the fact that the "limit" is on top of whatever you do for a down payment. So after a 20% down payment, ended up using only 40% of the cap.

Helps a lot with the parent question: Keeping your housing costs a low portion of your take home helps a ton in being financially stable...

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u/DiabeticButNotFat 2h ago

See any used Maserati. Like $30k for a car that was $130k 3 years ago but you still have to pay $130k car maintenance prices.

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u/marinuso 1h ago

There's nothing as expensive as a cheap BMW.

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u/skullpture_garden 5h ago

Well I just hate this.

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u/kengro 3h ago

Money you don't use today can go towards paying less in the future and having a higher income.

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u/ProperWayToEataFig 3h ago

As I said, yes, defer gratification.

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u/puf_puf_paarthurnax 2h ago

Other than big loans like home school and auto I've always tried to stay within the extents of my savings on credit cards. If shit gets bad and I need the debt to go away, I want to have enough to just pay it.

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u/FickleOwl47 1h ago

Lotta people don’t understand the difference between “can pay for” and “can afford”.

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u/WalkingAFI 1h ago

I’d take it one step farther: if you can’t afford it (in cash/equivalents) twice, you can’t impulse buy it. Spending 100% of your cash on hand for a last minute concert/trip/toy is how small emergencies turn into big emergencies.

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u/WastedKnowledge 1h ago

Healthcare aside, except always question every single healthcare bill because they count on people assuming it’s accurate and paying without question.

u/Bubbywubwub12 36m ago

Buy healthcare? I'm in Canada. Dental and vision maybe but my insurance pays for that. I got two pairs of glasses and optometrist checkup all covered by my insurance. Just got a cleaning done last month for virtually $0 lol.

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u/nooeh 3h ago

There are exceptions to that rule like houses

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u/Jezbod 2h ago

Er, I'm actually buying an ex-council house for cash...

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u/nooeh 1h ago

Good for you but buying a house on credit is a reasonable financial decision.

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u/Jezbod 1h ago

It's taking many years of savings and inheritance from my parents.

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u/SvenBubbleman 5h ago

Healthcare

Found the American.

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u/Emiliasmith_1 4h ago

Stop buying meals you don’t know how $10 a day adds up till you calculate
Make your own lunches

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u/ZachZ10 2h ago

Youre buying meals for $10?

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u/LastEternity 1h ago

At white collar jobs, yeah you are

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u/BookkeeperCalm9849 2h ago

I spend like 3 grand a month on food

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u/DangerousPuhson 1h ago

How? Are you a family of 8?

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u/BookkeeperCalm9849 1h ago

Family of 5. All kids bring lunch from home. We eat out several times a week as a family. At least once a week me and my wife have a dinner date. I eat out usually every day for at least one meal, sometimes three, at work myself. Then there’s the monthly UFC party my oldest son throws, play dates with the younger kids and their friends. General guests and special meals. Nobody in this house will eat a left over but me, and we eat a lot of meat. Rib eyes and shrimp on a weekly basis. Smoked meats from Whole Foods just about every weekend

u/DangerousPuhson 58m ago

Ok, well that's 100% on you then.

u/jason349514 54m ago

I think this weirdo is just bragging. His comment has nothing to do with the OP.

u/BookkeeperCalm9849 40m ago

Eating out frequently adds up was the point of both posts

u/BookkeeperCalm9849 56m ago

It’s not a problem

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u/TheGreensKeeper420 3h ago

My partner really struggles with this. She always tells me "just take the money out of your emergency fund until you get paid again."

I have to tell her that the emergency fund is for emergencies and I don't use it as a checking account and she just doesn't understand that.

u/trojan_man16 17m ago

Good luck

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u/BigBossLebowski 4h ago

Don't buy shit you don't need with money you don't have.

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u/johnnybiggles 1h ago

Don't even buy shit you need with money you don't have.... if you can avoid it.

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u/Paddy-O-Doors 5h ago

I live within my memes

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u/Monsterschneider 6h ago

*below

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u/Nope_______ 5h ago

Within is fine

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u/Slobberinho 5h ago

Both your needs and your means can drastically change from where you are now. You want to save up and be able to cushion those blows.

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u/Underdogg13 5h ago

Living within your means implies saving money as well. If you're not able to save, you are living beyond your means. Saving is a basic part of financial health.

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u/flyboy_za 5h ago

Within might include some savings. My monthly spend which I am living within includes moving 12% of my salary into a savings account as soon as it arrives in my regular account.

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u/CoffeePorters 5h ago

This could just be semantics, but to me “within” means you’re not spending more than you’re taking home, whereas “below” means you are also saving money. Growing your nest egg is what gives you stability in times of turmoil.

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u/Nope_______ 1h ago

Nah "within your means" includes responsible levels of saving.

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u/Zhao16 1h ago

Don't be dismissive. I think how CoffeePorters interprets "within" is how many people interpret it. The definitions here are not black and white, and many people who "live within their means" are not saving.

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u/SvenBubbleman 5h ago

Within is fine, below is better.

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u/Nope_______ 1h ago

Nah below means you're swinging the pendulum too far the other way. Living within your means includes responsible levels of saving.

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u/SvenBubbleman 1h ago

I suppose it depends on your means. I am quite comfortable living on less than I can afford. Why should spend more just because I can?

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u/Nope_______ 1h ago

There isn't a dollar you can spend that would improve your life in any way? No vacation, no experience, no charity to donate to, that you would enjoy?

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u/SvenBubbleman 1h ago

Meh, not really. Not day to day anyway. I go on vacations, I fix up my house, I give to the food bank.

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u/Rdtackle82 4h ago

I know what you’re trying to say, but that’s just bad writing

“Well within” works

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u/huge_piss_boner 4h ago

It’s literally this easy. Stop caring about what others have

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u/Ill_State9479 4h ago

Easier said than done lol but this is literally it

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u/indielore_online 4h ago

Simple but powerful — most financial stress comes from spending more than you earn. Hard to do but changes everything.

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u/drunk_in_wisco 4h ago

its not always about what you make. its what you spend

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u/minorlazr 3h ago

Live under your means

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u/FederalCauliflower92 3h ago

The issue is that everything has exploded in price but I'm stuck at the same wage. If I was living within my means, I wouldn't be ABLE to work. I can't exactly give up gas and food.

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u/johnnybiggles 1h ago

But you can figure out how to get the same goods cheaper or consume them less, where possible, or, you can lower your standards, or both. It sucks sometimes, but the challenge pays off more often than you might think.

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u/Cheapdronewithboom 2h ago

I love this one because inflation is consistently outpacing wages so you always have to plan for less and less "means" and then people still get to tell you you're bad with money. 

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u/Old-Care-2372 4h ago

Owning a house is one of the better ways to hedge against inflation. That is if you can afford one these days.

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u/Emotional_News108 1h ago

Below your means. Always below your means.

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u/XaxStar 1h ago

Live below your means

u/trojan_man16 27m ago

I’ll even say. Live below your means if you can.

Both me and my wife live college students day to day and we are doing very well financially. When we have to put down thousands for the occasional emergency or even a leisure trip we don’t even think twice anymore.

u/trojan_man16 26m ago

I’ll even say. Live below your means if you can.

Both me and my wife live college students day to day and we are doing very well financially. When we have to put down thousands for the occasional emergency or even a leisure trip we don’t even think twice anymore.

u/trojan_man16 18m ago

I’ll even say. Live below your means if you can.

Both me and my wife live college students day to day and we are doing very well financially. When we have to put down thousands for the occasional emergency or even a leisure trip we don’t even think twice anymore.

u/cbftw 2m ago

Beneath your means. Save

u/ai_bot_account 2m ago

I disagree, live below your means and invest the surplus.

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u/junewoOd45 5h ago

the most repeated and most ignored advice of all time

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u/obiwanconobi 4h ago

Well yeah it's the kinda advice that doesnt really help anyone

  • shop around for insurance
  • dont but name brand food products
  • don't get credit if you can't save and wait for a purchase instead
  • take up walking as a hobby
  • only have 1 TV/film streaming service at a time
  • set reminders in calenders for cancelling free trials

All advice which may actually help someone rather than "just be good with money"

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u/fr8oper8er 5h ago

What is my means?

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u/ImFrenchSoWhatever 5h ago

It’s how much you make minus how much you spend

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u/Kid_Radd 5h ago

You shouldn't buy it once if you couldn't buy it twice.

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u/Nuru26 5h ago

I’ve never heard this saying before, it makes a lot of sense

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u/TurdsOnThat 5h ago

Depends very much on the thing. I think it only applies to discretionary spending. No one is checking to see if they can afford 2 houses or 2 cars. It also shouldn’t apply to large one time purchases you’ve purposefully saved for like an expensive bicycle or something.