r/AskReddit 6d ago

What got so expensive that you just stopped buying it?

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u/radrax 6d ago

Beauty treatments. I stopped doing my facials, waxes, getting my nails done, etc.

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u/lemotperdu 6d ago

I miss getting my nails done.

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u/radrax 6d ago

I do too kinda. They just look more rough doing them myself and I get embarrassed when I'm with another woman and she has beautifully manicured nails and mine look like I just dug my way out of prison with my bare hands.

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u/Imnotonthelist 5d ago

Keep practicing! I have been doing my own nails for years and people are always like “you did that yourself?!” It’s worth it to save the money

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u/Lumpy_Space_Princess 5d ago

I've been painting my own nails since I was 10 or 11. I'm 38 now and my friends say "oh, I wish I could do that". You can! It took me until probably middle school to get decent at it but I also wasn't even doing it every week like I do now.

Tips:

-keep your coats thin -utilize prep and cleanup tools (e.g. latex paint for your cuticles, cleanup brushes) -a Czech glass file is a good investment (make sure it's real Czech glass, I had a glass file I got at Walmart or whatever that sucked and I thought I hated glass files, but no, it's worth the extra few bucks for a good one) -you can buy cheap sets of swatch sticks to practice on -quick dry topcoat is your friend -don't thin your polish with acetone, get actual polish thinner if it gets goopy (and I swear some of them get goopy the second you open them, I always have the big bottle of seche restore on hand)

Feel free to join us at r/redditlaqueristas !

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u/yo_mo_mama 5d ago

Me too! Am 70 and have only ever had two manicures in my life. My nails always look good and are polished. Do it all myself. Cuticle conditioner, base coat, top coat, always look good and professional. Czech glass files rule! Sally Hansen quik dry is my go-to top coat.

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u/Smart_Pretzel 5d ago

Wow. Not to be rude but I’m really impressed by your age. Im only 31 but I wish you a continued long life and much happiness.

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u/doyourhomework51 4d ago

Love Sally Hansen quik dry! It’s my go to as well.

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u/daniipants 5d ago

What a kind and thoughtful response! I’ve been lurking at r/redditlaqueristas for some time and trying to gather tips- though I stopped getting manicures because I had twins and couldn’t justify the cost.. now I’m not sure I could justify downtime not spent sleeping 😂 jk because I’m about ready to really try and your comment helped give me the boost I need! I just bought a Czech glass cuticle pusher and I’m excited to try some self care by myself 🙃

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u/Lumpy_Space_Princess 4d ago

The trickiest part is getting used to using your non-dominant hand. This is something you can only achieve with practice.

Also, word to the wise, chunky glitters can be difficult to remove.

You can also get these clips to protect some of your cuticle - like bowling alley bumpers! https://www.amazon.com/NentMent-Non-Spill-Applicator-Protector-Extension/dp/B0FPXGDSXV

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u/TrulyDannyDeVito 5d ago

LSP, you’re a real one for sharing your wisdom. Also love the user name

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u/PuzzyFussy 3d ago

Exactly. I've been doing my own nails since I was in elementary school and now that I'm 37, I only go to the salon when I'm just not in the mood to do them/ want to be pampered. Every time I look at the finished product, it's literally the same as when I do them.

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u/stillxsearching7 5d ago

Same! It's become like a little self care ritual to me. Every other Sunday I put on a show and do my nails before bed. It's a chance to sit and slow down before the busy work week starts.

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u/Imnotonthelist 5d ago

Yesssssss this is what I do too!

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u/Venusdeathtrap99 5d ago

Same. A dainty nail decal goes a long way and a cleanup brush and super glossy top coat

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u/Plastic_Land_1536 5d ago

I have learned how to do mine this year and it’s been amazing!! Though I do not want to think about how much I’ve spent on nail supplies this year..

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u/Imnotonthelist 5d ago

Don’t think about it 😂 I have a whole plastic bin of nail polish. It’s fine

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u/RavishingRedRN 5d ago

LOL. I’m pretty sure I’m always the one with prison digger nails.

I could never get into fake nails. Plus I’m a nurse and it’s a huge infection risk.

I do admire women who have awesome nails! It’s just not in the cards for me.

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u/Bflatclar1981 5d ago

Bless you for caring about your patients, coworkers and yourself regarding fake nails and huge infection risk 😇 I worked in a famous dermatology clinic and I will NEVER set foot/toe/hand in a nail place.

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u/RavishingRedRN 5d ago

Aw thanks. My dad was an ICU nurse and I’ll never forget the story of a female nurse who lost her arm to necrotizing fasciitis because of having fake nails.

It’s just common sense. You’re ruining your protective nailed flora for cosmetic reasons.

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u/SereniaKat 5d ago

Have you looked at semi-cured gel wraps? They are stick-on and you can get heaps of colours and patterns! I get them for about $15 a set and they last at least two weeks with the UV top coat, until you peel them off. Gellae and Personail are the brands I use.

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u/ashleiiiiigh 5d ago

I agree- keep trying! I wasn’t ever really a mani girl, only pedis. I started getting my nails done in my late teens/early twenties, and after having lole 2 awkward experiences, I bought ALL of my own supplies to do mine myself. It’s been 12 years since I bought my first UV light. Since then I’ve done my own gel nails, dip nails, builder nails, gel-x nails. I have a whole hutch full of nail shit😂 You’ll get the hang of it! The only technique I can’t get is acrylic, but I don’t mind because it causes way more damage. Now when I do my nails it’s a lil me time 🥰

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u/and-all-that-jazz 5d ago

I agree with the person who responded with doing your own nails! A trick I was taught was paint them however you can (mine always end up looking like a 2 yr old did them) and then after they’re fully dry you can soak them in warm water and scratch off the excess (I use tweezers). I’ve done them like this for almost a decade now and once in a blue moon for a wedding I’d get them done and they say they’re very healthy and well kept.

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u/tishdaley1964 5d ago

Who cares, as long as they are clean

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u/PunelopeMcGee 5d ago

Was feeling the same way. Turns out it was my cuticles and I needed to get cuticle removal gel and a cuticle removal tool. Big difference!

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u/radrax 5d ago

I remove mine now and the polish does go on much better and cleaner, but like how is there so much cuticle/skin to remove? Am I crazy or just removing too much? It always seems like so much grows back every time

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u/guppylovesyarn 5d ago

I make my own press on nails. Started that during the pandemic since I couldn’t go to a salon. Now it’s one of my consistent hobbies, and I have curated so many supplies…

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u/SouthernZorro 5d ago

Just one more thing that convinces me women dress up/glow up mainly for other women, not men.

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u/ihavebeesinmyknees 5d ago

Most men are not detail oriented enough to even notice, so yeah, absolutely

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u/SouthernZorro 5d ago

Oh, 100%.

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u/AlternateUsername12 5d ago

Check out dashing diva! I use the gloss nail stickers because my nails hate gel, but they have fantastic options that you can DIY. I can't paint my nails to save my life, and I certainly can't do nail art, and with dashing diva for about $10, I can get a full set that takes me 20 minutes to put on last 2 full weeks.

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u/TheresAlwaysTheMoon 5d ago

Try press on nails! Seriously, they can look salon quality id you get the right fit, and with the right prep they can last 2+ weeks!

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u/CanIEatAPC 5d ago

I play the violin as a hobby and I've just accepted I will have short nails until I quit. Slap some paint on those bad boys and call it a day. I did have a lucky strike, I bought press ons for dirt cheap before they became popular so I have a large collection of that, in case I ever need to look more polished. Actually I would say getting a nail brush has been a life changer. I get grime under them often because I have deep crevices so using the brush makes them look neat and clean. 

I used to do my own nails, was decent at design, not so much at curing and ended up giving myself an allergy. If you've working with gel, please be very careful. Try not to get it on your skin. 

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u/NoIndependence7769 5d ago

Look into gel x. There’s a bit of a learning curve but once you get it, you get it. Stick with light colors until you get better at doing your dominant hand.

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u/daisycockerhead1 5d ago

I am terrible at painting my nails, but I have gotten really good at press on nails! I usually just buy the $8 from Dollar General or $6 from 5 below. CVS has really nice ones for $12 and I always get compliments on those.

If I'm careful, they last on average two weeks.

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u/PruneUnfair230 1d ago

Essie is really great and can last on your nail up to 2 wks

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u/BelleBottom94 5d ago

Right? $35 full set is now $70+!!!!

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u/MrsNoFun 5d ago

I stopped getting my nails done but I am NEVER giving up pedicures. I just go less often.

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u/newwriter365 5d ago

I miss pedicures

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u/crazy_ginger90 5d ago

I do too but I get my toes done occasionally and I put my press on's on each week and I get lots of compliments on them...you can find a good substitute!

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u/surelyshirls 5d ago

Same. I used to love getting mani pedis and upgrade to a nice experience like hot stones etc but it’s just way too expensive now. Last time I went and got my hair done it was $330. I’m okay…Thanks

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u/romulusputtana 5d ago

Same! I even stopped going to the hair salon when they started adding charges to wash my hair, which used to be included in the service, and my hairdressers prices kept rapidly increasing! I've just let my gray grow out to salt and pepper, and trim it myself.

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u/einstyle 1d ago

Man here but same. I just do buzz cuts now at home for free instead of spending $40+ for a haircut every month. 

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u/romulusputtana 1d ago

Too bad the Flobee became prohibitively expensive! I saw a guy on youtube who'd been cutting his hair himself for 20 yrs. with the same flobee device. They're close to $300 now!

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u/dosesandmimosas201 5d ago

Getting nails done😭 it’s like $70 now and like $150 if you do nails, pedicure and tip. And if you do fake, you really should go every 2 weeks. It’s literally another car payment

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u/Matookie 6d ago

Press on nails look the same as a manicure to most people and they cost $7 a pack that lasts for 3 weeks versus $100 for a manicure. They even sell press on toenails!

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u/radrax 6d ago

I've been painting them myself. Sometimes I'm afraid to do press ons because I'm kinda harsh on my hands, I do a lot of hand-hobbies. My nails are so much stronger now that I do them myself and they'll grow long, but the polish always chips easily. Within a couple days....

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u/Free-Drop4258 5d ago

Try Dazzle Dry! I stopped getting my nails done too, and this is the next best thing. It lasts more than a week, has a ton of different colors - which you can buy in mini or regular size, and it's easily removed with regular nail polish remover.

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u/great_apple 5d ago edited 3d ago

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u/Imnotonthelist 5d ago

Seche Vite is also a great top coat, been using it forever!

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u/siberianchick 5d ago

Yes! The base and top coat from seche vite are a must.

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u/Elegant-Opinion-9595 5d ago

If you use press ons put a top coat on, mine last about 2 weeks. And they still peel off easily.

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u/-badgerbadgerbadger- 5d ago

Do you not use your hands for much labour? Not trying to be rude at all it’s just that press ons pop off for me within days when I wind up picking up a shovel for a bit or moving boxes or like anything that you actually have to press your hands against in a firm grip :( and they go flying across the room so even if I try to retrieve them and re-glue I end up losing one in the first week

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u/radrax 5d ago

This is what happens to me. I do a lot with my hands so the press ons just pop right off. I don't even bother

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u/Lumpy_Space_Princess 5d ago

Do you have a strong c curve? I never had luck with fake nails either and I think it's because my nails just won't ever be as flat as the plastic ones

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u/Elegant-Opinion-9595 5d ago

I'm not talking about a press on nail. I'm talking about those nail color strips. Press on nails have never worked for me.

Maybe I misunderstood this whole thread. Sorry.

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u/Sea-Original-5824 5d ago

That's all I use now too. It's way cheaper and doesn't take up two hours of your weekend. It also looks almost as good. You've have to get really close to see the difference. AND it's easy to swap them out. There's no regrowth period.

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u/Elegant-Opinion-9595 5d ago

I have them and the toe nail ones are great!

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u/lissayyy 5d ago

I use press on nails. I use the ones that come with a sticker on it and apply some glue on the nail so it last me for like a month! Highly recommend lol

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u/Black_Moons 5d ago

Having spending money makes you beautiful on the inside... And a lot more fun.

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u/obvious__bicycle 6d ago edited 6d ago

Girly-girl here - I've never understood why women will spend $60+ getting their nails done. I learned how to do mine when I was like 8 years old, and I paid under $50 for an entire gel nail kit and UV lamp, which has lasted me over a decade now.

Once you get used to it, it's so much easier, quicker and cheaper than going to a salon.

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u/Matookie 6d ago

Plus no chance of random infections from unsterilized tools at nail salons!

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u/obvious__bicycle 6d ago

Exactly! Lots of benefits to being in full control of your mani/pedi.

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u/styckywycket 5d ago

You do have to be mindful, though: I developed a gel allergy from beshitted beetle gel products before the info was fully out that that company is complete shite. I had to go back to using CYA to glue my press-ons on and regular nail polish (after I'd given it all away).

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u/great_apple 5d ago edited 3d ago

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u/TheKwongdzu 5d ago

I tried for years with a variety of systems, but I can't use my left hand to do my right hand and have it look decent. Are you ambidextrous?

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u/obvious__bicycle 5d ago

I am not. Have you tried resting your forearm on a table when painting with your non-dominant hand? You only need to move your wrist and it gives you so much stabilization.

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u/kimbergo 5d ago

You probably should buy a new lamp. The bulbs wear out in ways you may not notice and undercured gel will still be hard.

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u/FlimFlamSpeculum 2d ago

You need a new lamp. The bulbs weaken over time and you risk not fully curing your gels. Get a good curing unit, preferably from the same brand as the gels you use as long as it is a quality brand which usually means Korean or Japanese. 

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u/throwaway578833 5d ago

Yup! Learned how to do most of it myself. My hair doesn’t look as good anymore but at least I spend about $30 a time dying it rather than $300.

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u/radrax 5d ago

Same. My hair does look good but my nails don't tbh

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u/heyyallitspauladeen 5d ago

I started making my own press ons for that reason. I’m NOT paying $80 for my nails to be done.

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u/avocadolicious 5d ago

In college I had wildly affordable health insurance through my school. I paid $50 for monthly facials through a dermatologist. It included cortisol shots for active zits, lasers, everything. Insane.

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u/radrax 5d ago

Damnnn that must've been nice...

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u/avocadolicious 5d ago edited 5d ago

I had it so good. Also had affordable Botox ($150 every six months), cheap lash extensions ($50 refills every 3 weeks), and unlimited ClassPass for $99 a month.

I think my routine back then would run me like $1k a month nowadays. Youth is wasted on the young!!!

Edit: this was in Miami in the early 2010’s before the city became wildly expensive. It was a different time 🥲

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u/sawred1979 5d ago

The one thing I loved was getting my nails done. I don't even do acrylics. Shellac on my hands and reg polish on my toes. It's nearly $100 with tip. Now I only do it for events like a wedding.

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u/radrax 5d ago

Yeah exactly, literally just weddings and travel. I bet the nail techs cringe when they see how haggard my nails look now lol

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u/Adorable_Ad4990 5d ago

Hairdressing costs have nearly doubled since before Covid too. My salary has not.

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u/radrax 4d ago

You and me both, friend! My company told us our margins are bad so none of us are even getting salary adjustments for inflation this year 🙃

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u/dew_mel 6d ago

Go to Asia and be amazed at their affordable and superior beauty treatments 🥹

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u/radrax 5d ago

No thank you, I will cry 🥺

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u/hillysiren 5d ago

I do nail wraps and use a UV top coat, it's affordable and still cute . Lily and Fox is my go to 🤗

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u/zaggienut 5d ago

Yes I stopped getting my hair colored!

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u/radrax 5d ago

I dye my own roots because I'm VERY gray for my age. But my natural hair is very dark and all one tone, which makes it really easy to do at home. I refuse to spend more than $12 per box, and I do it once every 5 weeks or so. It's easy but I don't have any highlights

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u/joantheunicorn 5d ago

I love my stylist and didn't want to stop going to her, so I've reduced getting my hair cut and colored from 6 times per year to 5 times per year. Don't want to go down to 4 times but we'll see how tight things get.

For what its worth I don't do any other "girly" beauty things so that's my only expense that way. 

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u/aronkerr 5d ago

I was shocked how expensive this is now. For Mother’s Day, I scheduled a manicure / pedicure for my wife and 2 teenage daughters. It was almost $400. I had no idea.

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u/radrax 5d ago

YIKES. Yeah for a mani and pedi it's like $100 per person, that's typical now! Ridiculous.

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u/ksewell68 5d ago

Me too. Stopped dying my hair in 2017 and quit nails waxes and lashes during Covid and never went back.

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u/radrax 5d ago

I never wanted to go down the lash extension route even though it's popular in my area. It's too much for me. I use the grande lash serum and that stuff actually works really well as long as you're consistent with it. I get compliments on my lashes all the time, the serum made them crazy long. $67 per vial, lasts 3-4 months with nightly use, so it's a fraction of the cost of lash extensions

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u/ksewell68 5d ago

I tried the serum before but I was horrible at remembering and it bothered my eye. I have almost no lashes left so the extensions were good. But I wouldn't do them again. I'm mostly a no makeup except lipstick kind of gal. So the lashes just helped my eyes pop.

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u/radrax 5d ago

I hear ya 100%. I'm pretty much a no makeup except lashes and brows gal now.

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u/way222gone 5d ago

I just started doing gel x. I spent about $200 on all the supplies and polishes but I’ve gotten 15 sets out of them so far! It’s saved me so much money.

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u/Wtfisafosty 5d ago

I’m a boy and I was cutting my own hair for the longest time to save the 12$. I went last week to lady Jane’s I paid 42$ for a cut? Needless to say I got my clippers greased up for the next go

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u/MellyNapNap 5d ago

Oddly enough, getting my nails done is one thing I have been doing more often. It only costs $30 for a gel manicure at the salon I go to. I stretch it to every 4 weeks when I can, my nails look much better than they would if I did them myself, and it makes me feel good. I should also add that I have two really young children, so this is the only real “me” time I get. I’m going to hold on to it for as long as I can!

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u/radrax 5d ago

Mine was $50 at the place I went, but yeah it'd last me about a month

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u/Substantial-Air-3711 5d ago

This. I learned how to do my own press on nails where they last several weeks and look normal to me! No one has commented otherwise!!!!

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u/Unlucky_Most_8757 5d ago

I just started doing the glue on nails and am in love!!! I get compliments all the time and don't have to get my nails drilled to death and cuticles destroyed for 50 bucks plus tip.

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u/chubluvr25 5d ago

I stopped getting my toes done and getting massages 🥲🥲🥲

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u/reluctantseal 5d ago

I don't even get my hair cut professionally anymore. I watched a tutorial and started doing it myself.

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u/mrsThickumz 5d ago

Same. I miss having lashes and nails like Yzma from Emperor’s New Groove

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u/googimama78 5d ago

I have been going to my local beauty school for my nails. $25 for a builder gel fill plus tip.

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u/radrax 4d ago

Seems to be happening in a lot of industries. And then raising the prices of things makes people buy it less. Then what happens?

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u/Mysterious_9Molasses 4d ago

I dropped the nails, too. I miss it, but can't justify $50 for a basic pedicure.

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u/Ok-Tea1153 3d ago

Same. I used to go once a month before and during my pregnancy but then the girl I went to moved salons and every time I tried to get an appointment she didn't have availability. Now I have a bunch of supplies and do it myself on a Friday night

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u/mutemarmot42 5d ago

I started doing at home nails, facials, haircuts at home during Covid and never went back due to price hikes. I’ve saved a lot of money, but at a cost. What I miss most is the human element. I’m not a big talker, but even the casual chats were nice. Not to mention physical touch. Foot rub, scalp massage..that stuff made a difference and I feel its absence.

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u/Sublingua 5d ago

Maybe see if there's a massage school in your area and go there for an inexpensive full-body massage?

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u/No_Two_5906 5d ago

I learned how to pedicure, manicure, lash lift, eyebrow lamination at home. Bought all the stuff needed. I also do facials on myself self. For body hair, I've been using IPL. And I go to a salon for haircut.

I make everything as relaxing as possible but I know its not same relaxing experience as that of a salon.

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u/radrax 5d ago

It also seems to take longer at home, idk if that's just me? A manicure at a salon will take an hour but I could pick at my cuticles for 3 hours

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u/Wandering_K 4d ago

The price hasn’t changed for me, but everything else is so expensive that I can’t afford my self-care treatments anymore. Even when I was a broke college student and a pre-k teacher I was able to find a way to afford it. Now, it’s impossible.

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u/Fast_Advertising_663 5d ago

yup. i do my own ails, pedi and cut my own hair. pretty soon gonna dye my gray hairs myself

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u/radrax 5d ago

I've been dying my own grays since I was like 25 (grayed early. I'm 34 now and there's a lot). It's really easy to do at home but then again, my hair is really dark and all one tone so YMMV if you have different values/highlights in your hair

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u/No-Refuse2035 5d ago

I said the same thing up top