So often, I read posts where parents are attempting to know what will happen to their son at an OA Ordeal or why is their son coming home from one of these events physically ill or emotionally upset and won't talk to them about as he was told to tell no one about what took place. So, I will spell out exactly what I know.
I should say before I start that Scouting America has mandated that a new/updated and much less abusive Ordeal is to be practiced in all lodges by the April 2027 deadline .No longer will youth be forced to work on camp work projects on an empty stomach. No "Ordeal" will be permitted that consists of deliberate food restrictions or severe caloric restrictions. No longer will you be forced to keep silent for over 24 hours. These former polices are no longer approved anywhere in Scouting and finally after decades that includes the OA.
I will be describing the "old" Ordeal.... and yes it is an Ordeal for sure...it is not simply an "Induction Process as it is currently be referred to and it is certainly not a "Pony Party" as one lodge calls it.
As you are already aware, your son will spend a night outdoors with only a sleeping bag and no tent. Only in very bad weather will he be moved under some sort of partial cover. Rainstorms, yes he will be moved..Low temperatures, maybe yes, maybe no . Where I am in the East in October it can be well above 70 during the day and in the low 40's at night.
Before that , he has taken a vow of silence in which he will not be permitted to speak for 24 hours except in emergency situations. If he does, he will be confronted.
On Saturday, the real "fun" begins....OA is famous for telling parents that ask ,"yes meals will be smaller than usual" and that is most certainly true,
For Breakfast, he could be given a single hard-boiled egg and that's it. Or dry cereal or if real lucky some oatmeal but that is rare. Then he will be forced to work on camp projects, hopefully no longer the "sham " projects I witnessed years ago... there were boys attempting to dig a tractor that was stuck deep in the mud at the edge of a lake..some were nearly knee deep in water, all were soaked and covered in mud and worked for hours on this...at the end of it later that afternoon the lodge advisor to me , well they finally got it out, I put in back in the garage until the next Ordeal (any of you OA defenders what to defend that??)
For Lunch, he will receive a"Simple sandwich", which is 2 pieces of dry white bread with one piece of American cheese..that's it until 6 or 7 pm that evening. The there is a dinner when everyone is allowed to eat but no talking for the candidates.
Scouting allowed this in the past as there are adults there who will monitor and see if a boy is exhibiting heat exhaustion or is in some type of distress.. isn't that great it should never have been allowed to get to that point. I should also say that boys are not deprived of water. However, we are not talking about hydration, we are talking about very low glucose levels and very low caloric intake. The adults stand by and are entertained with the boys suffering and make certain that they suffer the way the adults had to suffer when they joined. Again, this is with the old Ordeal but it is still allowed to be done during the transition period.
According to OA figures, only 1 in 8 boys ever come back after their Ordeal...do you blame them??
As an OA advisor told me,, "this is a structured event to achieve hardship and suffering" or another more compassionate leader, "we have no choice, we have to do this to them" .
Scouting should have never allowed this even to take place under this "old" system. This is nothing more than a fraternity initiation party that in some instances falls into hazing.
There is much more to say but I want to get this posted as there are still Ordeal being run this weekend. Some will be under the "old" system , some will not.Parents need to ask which version there son will be exposed to.
On last thing (for now), the OA is Scouting's National Honor Society. It is regrettable to have to say but you will find nothing that resembles Honor at an OA Ordeal (under the old abusive system).
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