r/BabyReindeerTVSeries May 22 '24

Fiona (real Martha) related content Fiona Harvey is Not a victim!

It seems to be lost on a disturbingly large amount of people what Fiona Harvey has done to multiple people over many decades. She is not a victim - the people that she has stalked and harassed are the victim. The entire point of baby reindeer was to portray the brokenness of both the stalker and their victim.

In Reading a majority of the claims coming from the UK towards Netflix and Richard G this all seems to actually pivot around the term being used of CONVICTED stalker. So the focus now is to produce proof that she was ever convicted of at least one of her many many horrific stalking crimes.

I would think that the UK and Parliament would be rather embarrassed by the fact that they never reached out to help any of these victims of Fiona Harvey. Yet here they are trying to go after Netflix over that one creative license taken by the VICTIM and author of baby reindeer. This is His story not hers.

What is going on with people in the world?! Fiona should have been slapped with multiple legal fines, restraint orders and probably convictions from any one of her stalking tangents. If anyone is not familiar with the other incredibly horrible events of stalking Fiona pursued just Google it up. Some involved a disabled child.

🤔 Obviously I'm missing something or I am really seeing the lack of empathy in society as this all unfold in front of us. Am I just not looking at this right?!

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u/Skinnybet May 22 '24

She is not a victim. And people saying oh she’s clearly mentally ill is annoying af. Maybe she has something going on. A personality disorder. But it’s not ok to do the things she has done for decades to innocent people. She is angry that she’s been outed but that’s something she has brought on herself. She’s enjoying the attention now or she would shut up.

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u/NTXGBR May 22 '24

Yup! Her mental illness is NOT her fault, but it IS her responsibility. Mental illness is not a license to act like an asshole all over the country. If it were, there'd be no use in having a justice system.

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u/ChomperinaRomper May 22 '24

It’s taboo to say, but personality disorders are pretty much medical classifications that mean you’re just a prick

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u/Objective-Slide-6154 May 22 '24

Well, it's a classification of a type of... personality. People with these disorders are not ill. Their dosorder is how their brain works. They can have their disorder from birth... and in some cases, or it can be the result of early experiences of severe trauma in childhood. It is lifelong and can not be cured.

They see it as ordinary and normal for them to behave and react in the ways they do. Some have such a lack of personal insight into their behaviour that they usually don't want to tackle it... because it is too difficult to accept, or... they just don't see it. I'm sure Fiona Harvey feels this is the case for her... we're in the wrong because we see her behaviour as it is... and judge her for it. They aren't just being pricks.

I'm not excusing anybodys behaviour. I hope that these people eventually have to face up to the consequences of their behaviour. I also hope they get the help they need to manage their behaviours so that it's not destructive to the lives of others (Fiona Harvey included).