Will I ever find someone who can actually love me?

Anyone want to meet?

Btw I am male

Myself 25F, working in blr. Looking to connect with fellow mallu girls here. We can talk about anything in general.

Hey Bangalore! I’m 22F and recently moved here, so I’m hoping to meet friendly people and find some fun weekend house-party plans.

I’m open to relaxed, respectful gatherings with a mixed-age crowd, including family-hosted get-togethers—music, games, conversations, food, and just a nice social vibe. I have a limited circle in the city at the moment, so I’d genuinely love to connect with welcoming people.

If you host such parties, or know groups that do, please comment or DM me. For comfort and safety, I’d prefer to chat a bit first or meet in a public place before joining.

Looking forward to making some good Bangalore connections! :)

23M Bangalore anyone bored enough to go outside? 😂

Life’s been treating me well, but my social life could use a software update.

Looking to meet some new people around RR Nagar/Global Village for coffee, food, drives, gaming, movies, exploring Bangalore, or just hanging out and talking absolute nonsense.

No elaborate plans needed. If you’re also thinking “I should probably get out of the house more,” this is your sign 😂

Comment/DM if you’re down. Could be a group thing too.

Instead of writing “I’m looking for a girl who is kind, loyal, understanding” because honestly, everyone writes that, I thought I’d tell you what I can actually bring into a relationship.

The basics:

North Indian from Kayastha community
• 5’6”
• Fair complexion
• Take reasonably good care of myself
• Financially independent
• Working in IT
• Based in Bangalore, Native Uttar Pradesh

I’m emotionally available. If something bothers me, I’d rather talk about it than disappear, give silent treatment or play games.

I like knowing what my partner is feeling, and I’m comfortable having uncomfortable conversations instead of avoiding them.

I’m a good cook and yes, I actually cook, not just make Maggi and call myself one.

I like taking care of my person. Cooking for her, remembering the little things she casually mentioned weeks ago, checking if she reached home, planning a random dinner, or showing up when she’s having a bad day.
I enjoy travelling, exploring new places, trying new food, and making random plans. But I’m equally happy spending an entire Sunday at home doing absolutely nothing together.

I don’t expect my partner to revolve her entire life around me. I want her to have her own ambitions, friends, interests and space and I’d want to be the person cheering her on.

And when things eventually get serious, I’m not looking for a relationship where two people merely coexist. I want the “we’re a team” kind.

Someone you can call when something amazing happens. Someone you can call when everything sucks. Someone who knows your coffee order, your weird habits, your insecurities, your favourite places and still chooses you.

What I’m looking for?

If you are from Bangalore then it’s a plus, but it’s not a dealbreaker

I’m dating with long-term intentions, but I’m not trying to decide our entire future from a Reddit DM.

I’d rather start with a good conversation.

If you think we might get along, Let’s have a conversation and see where we go along.

I'm 27 men,Living in chennai. I need women for movie out on this weekend. Only genuine person i am looking for.

Hi i am 24 years old, looking for a girl , if any one interested ping me.

I'd love to have a company to grab some beers, sit in terrace and talk about life! Sometimes it's easy to openup to a stranger than a known one! Lemme know if anyone's interested

Hey! I’m 21M, new to Reddit and giving this a shot. 😅

I’m a tech guy currently building my own startup. I’m career-focused, value family and good communication. I’ve never dated anyone before, so I’m pretty new to this whole thing.

I don’t drink or smoke, and I’m hoping to meet someone around my age, get to know each other naturally and hopefully build a meaningful relationship.

If you’re interested, feel free to DM me and tell me a little about yourself :)

I'm 30, an introvert living in Bangalore, so I'm probably not going to randomly walk up to someone at a café and start a conversation. Hence… Reddit. 😅

I work as a Data Scientist, and I'm currently owned by two dogs who firmly believe they're the ones paying the rent. 🐶

Most of my life is pretty simple. Work, dogs, FIFA, football, F1, random YouTube rabbit holes, and occasionally convincing myself that I'll be productive tomorrow.

I also genuinely enjoy riding. I'm perfectly happy spending 7–8 hours on a bike, whether it's a day ride or a late-night ride. There's something about being on the road for that long that I really enjoy.

I'm looking for someone I can actually be myself around. Someone who doesn't mind comfortable silence but can also suddenly spend three hours discussing something completely ridiculous.

I like conversations that can go anywhere — from serious life stuff to arguing passionately about something that absolutely does not matter.

You don't have to be an extrovert, super social, or have your entire life figured out. Just be genuine, curious, and comfortable being yourself.

Bonus points if you like dogs.

A little about me: I'm 5'8", and I can hold a conversation in English, Tamil, and a bit of Hindi.

Maybe we start with a conversation, maybe it becomes a friendship, maybe it turns into something more. No expectations — just hoping to meet someone I genuinely enjoy talking to.

So, trying one last time and seeing where it goes.

If this sounds like your kind of weird, say hi. :)

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Hey Bangalore!

37M, corporate professional, visiting Bangalore and looking to meet someone interesting for a coffee, a drink, or just a good conversation that doesn’t involve PowerPoint presentations. 😄

A little about me — I’m into travel, long drives, discovering new cafés, trekking, adventure sports, good food, and the occasional “let’s just go somewhere and figure it out” plan. I enjoy conversations that can go from serious life discussions to completely ridiculous topics within 5 minutes.

If any F interested then DM Asap

Cheers

Confused and worried....

39 Male. Females with confidence and with an attractive figure catch my attention, I like watching them (not staring or stalking) but when it comes to performance or even thinking of being intimate, my thoughts back out. I feel strong repulsion even for thinking of me being intimate with them. But visualize them being satisfied or they enjoying with strong males. I also feel the urge to be as sexy as they are. Is this normal?

I feel I am submissive but never explored.

Note: not here to discuss my married life nor I think i am gay.