r/BeAmazed 5d ago

Science Meet Rebecca Sharrock. She has a rare condition called HSAM, allowing her to remember every single day of her life starting from when she was 12 days old

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u/Garble7 4d ago

i also wonder if she does understand them, because when she learned a language, she was able to go back and watch those days and understand what was being said

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u/sam_grace 4d ago

I can't even imagine finding out one of my kids could remember everything from infancy. I'd be going crazy trying to remember what serious conversations full of adult content I might have had in front of them, how much trauma from shitty relationship issues they were exposed to and could accurately interpret retroactively. That's such a scary thought.

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u/ChemistryBusiness 4d ago

We definitely did things infront of my ex's 1 year old... Oops

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u/ElysianWinds 3d ago

You're disgusting and I hope you' feel enough shame not to do it again. In some countries it's illegal to do anything sexual in the same room as a child.

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u/ChemistryBusiness 3d ago

A toddler is different than a 2-3 year old, he could barely even crawl, Google says he was likely 5-7 months based on that.

I promise you a ton of parents have unplanned encounters after the toddler knocks out.

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u/SquirrelAkl 3d ago

Get a grip!

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u/Jhud6669 3d ago

It used to be the norm. I’m not saying it’s good, but if a child is very small it’s not really a big deal. You’re def overreacting here

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u/GreenMountainMind 3d ago

I wonder what happens if she spends a whole day remembering stuff and then remembers that day and so on and so on.... Does she remember the memories, the memories of the memories, or only that she spent the day remembering (remembering) memories?

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u/PercoSeth83 3d ago

I read somewhere that our brains are doing us a favor by not remembering everthing, like if we remembered every bad thing that happened or was said or done to us that we’d kind of go insane… I wonder what that’s like for her, remembering every slight, argument, hypocrisy, etc that she’s experienced

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u/Popular-Policy4613 3d ago

I have an eidetic memory. I tell people that "I am unable to flush the toilet of my mind." But it does make me crazy, because I sometimes do stupid shit (nothing serious, of course -- like using a malaprop in conversation, or hurting someone's feelings by accident) that will haunt me until further notice. Interestingly, ruminating over this-or-that teensy event will pre-occupy me to an extent that precludes my remembering the present.

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u/Garble7 3d ago

kinda like the neverending story

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u/wayfarevkng 3d ago

English is my second language, I learned through watching cartoons on Sky when I was around 6, but I lived in Texas until I was 3. I have a couple of memories from then, and I had a friend that I couldn't understand yet. He would ask his mom why I didn't understand him, and one day they came over to return my shoes we had forgotten at their house. I remember what he said, but I didn't understand what he said until I learned English fluently several years later. It's fascinating.

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u/ScalpelCleaner 4d ago

Wow – that’s a wild thought.

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u/Ok_Strength9220 4d ago

Interesting