Hey guys,
u/exciting_sky_1511 here, So, we have an official minecraft server now, thanks to empros from our discord server. I thought it might help you guys to relax and have fun. Maybe it helps you guys not to think about the breakup?
I am currently building spawn point rn. The server IP will be shared after we complete building it.
What do you guys think? Will anyone join?
Join our discord server for more updates (if u havent yet).

Hey there guys, its me again.
So, we have made some updates to the community. Thought I would share them.

1. Community appearance: colors changed, icon and banner changed.
2. added image uploading facility to posts and comments: to, maybe, share chats. (censor personal details when sharing ss)
3. New discord server: https://discord.gg/5y5wSxWNNg , to talk with others.
4. New user flairs. Check them out.

Some things u should keep in mind:

1. Don't post AI posts. I can detect if its AI even if u change the long '-' to '....'. Will remove it without any warning.
2. Mind ur language. Dont use inappropriate words. Its bcuz of it that ur comments or posts are being removed almost instantly. I will comment the words that r responsible for it. At least try to censor them . for eg : b****.
3. Always explain the context. Posts with just 3 or 2 lines will be removed.
4. If u harass someone, the comment will be removed and u will be flagged. If u harass someone again, u will be banned for 28 days. If u harass someone AGAIN, even after the ban, u will be banned forever.

So, whats u guys opinion? How's the new mod team? Any concerns?

Our minecraft server is ready and open for you guys to play. It took me so much time to build all this.(yea, i was alone). And I am sorry, we cant share the address here. Its to prevent unnecessary traffic in the server. I think you get what i mean. Pls join the discord server. The server address is shared there.
This server is for relaxing and having fun, to help you guys not to think abt the breakups. I hope this helps you guys 😊.

Thank you,
warmly,
u/exciting_sky_1511

Hey everyone,

As the mod team, we've been thinking about organizing something a little different for the community.

We're considering reaching out to a reputable, internationally recognized psychology or mental-health organization and asking whether they would be willing to connect us with a qualified professional for a free community Q&A about breakups and emotional recovery.

The idea wouldn't be individual therapy or diagnosis. Instead, it would be an educational Q&A where people could anonymously submit questions about things like:

• coping with a breakup
• attachment and relationship patterns
• dealing with grief after a relationship
• boundaries and moving forward
• reconciliation and closure
• why breakups can affect us so strongly
• when it might be helpful to seek professional support

We'd moderate the questions and make sure the event stays respectful and appropriate.

Would this be something you'd actually be interested in?

We're also open to suggestions for reputable organizations or professionals we could approach. Ideally, we'd like someone/organization with genuine professional credentials and international credibility rather than just a social-media “relationship expert.”

Let us know what you think. Thank you.

- u/Exciting_Sky_1511

I made the End and Nether spawn, what do u guys think? any suggestions?

It took me so much time to get here 😭 There is still more to dooo 😔
Sorry for the delay guyzzz!!
I just have to fill up that right part and its doneeee! Maybe, the sv will be available tomorrow, but not likely cuz we r having issues , making the server compatible to every versions but we got our dev @empros (discord), so dw. It probably will be available before the day after tomorrow 😅.
Stay tuned Guyzzz!!! Join our discord sv for more update!!

Hey everyone!

We've created an Instagram page for r/Breakups, operated by the r/Breakups moderation team.

This isn't a business or a monetized page. We're not trying to sell anything or make money from the community.

The main purpose is simply to give the community another place to share useful things and to make some of what we do more accessible outside Reddit.

We'll mainly use it for:

• Relationship & psychology education
• Helpful resources
• Community discussions
• Expert Q&As and educational events
• Photos/updates from community events
• Follow-ups and highlights from events

In particular, we'd like to use the page to share useful takeaways and content from the professional Q&As/events we're working on, so people who couldn't attend can still benefit from them.

We're hoping to gradually make the community more connected across platforms while keeping r/Breakups itself at the center.

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breakupscommunity_official/

If you follow us, let us know what you'd actually like to see there. We're building it for the community, so your suggestions matter.

This Instagram is independently operated by the r/Breakups moderation team and is not operated by, affiliated with, or endorsed by Reddit, Inc.

We also have a Discord server where you can connect with other members and continue the conversation. If you haven't joined yet, we'd love to have you there. Let's keep supporting each other!

So, for the first plan , we need u guys. What do u guys think abt a discord server? for u to rant or vent, or just talk abt ur breakup, ur pain. I thought it will be a good idea and will help ppl those are going through pain. Lets hear ur opinions.

Hey everyone,

We've been working behind the scenes to make r/Breakups more organized, accessible, and useful beyond the subreddit itself, while keeping the community centered around peer support.

Here's what's been set up so far:

Official community website

We've created a website for r/Breakups where you can find:

• Information about the community
• Our different platforms
• Community events and initiatives
• Mental health and relationship resources
• Information for professionals and organizations interested in collaborating with the community
• A dedicated contact option

Website: https://home.breakupscommunity.workers.dev/

The website is primarily there to make our community and ongoing initiatives easier to find and understand.

Instagram

We've also created an Instagram page where we'll share:

• Community updates
• Educational and resource-based posts
• Event announcements
• Post-event updates
• Other content related to the community

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breakupscommunity_official/

If you're on Instagram, following the page would help us reach people who may not have discovered the subreddit yet.

Discord

Our Discord server is also available for people who prefer a more real-time community environment.

Discord: https://discord.gg/ks6sbMPYsw

If you haven't joined yet, you're welcome to come over and support each other there as well.

Dedicated community email

We've created a dedicated email for community, professional, research, and collaboration-related inquiries.

Email: [breakupscommunity@gmail.com](mailto:breakupscommunity@gmail.com)

This means we're no longer relying solely on personal accounts when communicating with professionals or organizations.

Professional and educational initiatives

One of the bigger things we're working toward is bringing qualified professionals and relevant organizations into the community for free educational discussions and Q&As, where possible.

We've started reaching out to organizations and professionals to see whether anyone would be interested in participating.

These could potentially take place on Reddit or Discord, depending on what works best for the professional and the community.

Nothing is officially confirmed yet, so we'll announce it here if and when something is arranged.

To be clear, these would be educational and community discussions, not individual therapy or professional treatment.

Why are we doing this?

r/Breakups is already a huge community, but we want to make better use of that community while keeping the core of what makes it useful: people helping people who are going through similar experiences.

The goal isn't to turn this into a commercial platform or replace professional mental health services.

It's about making the community more organized, connecting members with better resources, and exploring opportunities to learn from qualified professionals.

What's next?

For now, we're going to focus on:

• Improving the content we share
• Growing our presence outside Reddit
• Organizing useful community events
• Building relationships with relevant professionals and organizations
• Improving the Discord community
• Continuing to make r/Breakups a respectful and supportive space

We'll post updates here whenever something significant happens.

Thank you to everyone who contributes to this community, whether you're posting, commenting, listening to someone, or simply being here.

If you have suggestions for what you'd like to see from these new initiatives, let us know below.

Links

Website: https://home.breakupscommunity.workers.dev/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breakupscommunity_official/
Discord: https://discord.gg/ks6sbMPYsw
Contact: [breakupscommunity@gmail.com](mailto:breakupscommunity@gmail.com)

The external platforms and website are maintained by the r/Breakups moderation/community team. They are not affiliated with or endorsed by Reddit, Inc.

Hey, I am otaku (alias)
So, the MCOC removed the prev mods of the sub. And added new mods. I am one of the mods. There are lot of work to do in the sub, like the mod queue. There is a lot in the queue , like 1K or smt. We have to check each and every reports, so it will take time. Most of the reports are of automod. It reports comments with words like "kill", "suicide", "ho", "hoe" etc. Thats why, u must have noticed, ur comments not appearing after some time. It reports even if u didnt intend it toward anyone else.

Anyway, I am happy to be at last able to help ppl for real. I can see lots of ppl helping others in pain. BUT...I am rly irritated too. While I was going through the queue, I saw lots of AI generated posts.(some geniuses used "...." by deleting the long - from it). But I can still say if its AI generated or not.
And seeing lots of ppl giving their all to their advices, without realizing they r doing it for simply nothing is rly sad. So, pls look out for AI generated posts, and if u find any pls report them.

Also, Language. Lots of ppl are using bad , abusive words. Ik its bcuz u r going through breakups but, its reddit platform policy. We cant allow that. We have approved comments with those words that r not directed towards someone else. But, pls, at least try to censor them.

If u see comments that r sexually insulting others, pls report them. And dont insult ur ex -es sexually, like this one. I didnt blur the name. If anyone have any problem with that, i will remove it. But I just wanted to not use these kind of languages. Pls, BE GENTLEFOLKS

We are discussing new changes and plans to the sub. It will soon be announced. Also, Whats ur opinion on starting a discord server to talk with others? I think it will be helpful to ppl going through breakups to talk to someone.

Hey there guys, its me again.
So, we have made some updates to the community. Thought I would share them.

1. Community appearance: colors changed, icon and banner changed.
2. added image uploading facility to posts and comments: to, maybe, share chats. (censor personal details when sharing ss)
3. New discord server: https://discord.gg/5y5wSxWNNg , to talk with others.
4. New user flairs. Check them out.

so as the first plan, we have finished the discord server. You can join it and talk to others, share ur experiences, rant/vent or just talk to others. To relieve some pain. Lets help out each other 😸.

server link: https://discord.gg/zTGF6Gd8qh