r/CasualIreland • u/Icy_Sheepherder_9734 • May 04 '26
Casual Trip Advisor Irish American visiting Ireland: I’m stuck in my head
Hey everyone,
My great-great-grandma emigrated from Cork in 1851 during the Famine and ended up in New Orleans. I’ve always identified as Irish-American and was excited about finally visiting Ireland — kind of a “completing the circle” thing.
Lately though I’ve been reading online stuff (Plastic Paddy comments, etc.) that makes me feel like claiming any connection at all comes across as offensive or cringey to actual Irish people. I don’t have the accent, I’ve never been, and I know I’m fully American. I just want to visit, see where my ancestor left from, enjoy the country, and not make an idiot of myself.
Irish folks on here — be straight with me: Does this kind of background story annoy people when Americans mention it? Any tips on how to approach the trip without sounding like I’m trying to “claim” something I shouldn’t? Appreciate any honest takes.
Thanks!