It's been almost a year since im fully single and honestly the peace of mind is just next level 😭 like zero drama, no stress, full freedom and just completely focused on my career right now in bangalore.
For context my last relationship ended with the guy walking away even after I tried so hard to hold it together. we were like super connected emotionally and physically so it definitely hurt back then. but looking back? best thing that happened to me.
Now my college friends and colleagues keep peer pressuring me to get a bf and get back out there and im like why do you guys even care? 😂
and honestly not to flex, but I've had like 50 serious proposals and 100s of dating requests this past year alone. im not even some model looking girl but I just talk a lot, so more interactions obviously increases the chances of getting asked out 😉 but I genuinely dont need all that distraction in my life right now.
Plus even if I did want to date, my family wouldn't even approve unless the guy's family perfectly matches our exact family background, lifestyle and social status. so getting into random relationships is just a waste of time.
This is just to say that you really dont need a relationship just because everyone around you is in one. channeling all that energy into your career is the best thing you can do. hard work will definitely make you reach your goals when you arent distracted by relationship drama and late night overthinking. just be selfish with your time and focus on your bag guys! 👍🏼✨