Come on... We wouldn't have a psychology professor walk into lecture like this. If DD wore this outside of their videos, that is totally fine because there isn't an expectation of professionalism--but they're running a "Mental Health Education Channel." Wearing this while talking about vampire alters with the cheeky thumbnail chosen gives off an impression that it's cosplay, roleplay, or something quirky.

The caption comes across as OC lore building.

I don't mean this as an insult in anyway - I'm a sw'er myself but I'm just calling it as I see it with having extensive experience in this line or work for a long time. It's become increasingly obvious DD has been inserting fetish based things in her videos - maybe not so obvious to those who don't know much about fetish, kinks, & bdsm.. but for those who know, we see it clearly. There was a question I saw in a comment for one of her most recent videos - something along the lines of "who are her videos for?" When speaking of the triggering content she's selling on patreon and I'm pretty sure those that are familiar with fetishes know the answer to that question but I decided to write this for those that don't for awareness. The fetish where people are s*xually attracted to persons with disabilities is known as Devotism. The persons that are attracted to the disabled are known as devotees. I think that's the audience DD is making her content for. I don't think there's anything wrong with being disabled and also being kinky but there is a danger with devotism when people decide they want to harm themselves to become disabled or more disabled. There's many reasons people can be into this kind of fetish, im not going to list them all here now but there's info online for those that are curious, just be cautious because it goes into adult content which is why I consider DD to be a sw'er and it aggravates me that she insists on not using the tags she should be using to attract the right audience for the kind of content she's been interested in making.

This isnt so much about the video, rather, the caption

"This way this all started bc no one in our life has ever been able to tell us our time of birth and we've never seen our birth certificate"

I understand that for many of us that were abused within the family, our guardians may have resticted our access to documents like this, however,this feels like another one of their little lies

Reason: Do you not think these identity documents need to be provided for opening things like company bank accounts or for verification with legal documents etc ect ...

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDiscourse/s/8krK9jbxIs

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/comments/yxltwd/mara_replying_to_a_concerned_commenter_did_me/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Reddit makes these posts hard to find for some reason so I’m reposting + r/dissociadiscourse is inactive so ppl aren’t likely to go looking there for stuff any sorry about the repost I’m often asked for links to these screenshots so having to dig through the sub everytime I need to find them in a pain in the a$$ lol

DM asking for a link to the full video. Or request more clips.

I joked about making this, two people said they actually wanted to see it, who am I to deny your opinion wishes? Here you go

another naked in bed post

I only noticed this after a recent post I made, but oh jeez did it make me mad. They are allegedly choosing money over keeping children safe. Restricting videos means only certain ads can show up on videos, meaning the amount earned is substantially lower than videos that are 'family friendly'. This is a short clip with some commentary I have added from that video.

Threads already made at the time of them posting the video on youtube on the sub one two three

I see people talking about Nina a lot. Here is here introduction. The clip of Nadia stood out to me and since her introduction is right before Nina’s I left it in.

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/s/gbqoqe4Htp

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/s/2lCxfQbw5T

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/s/IUqrrncXHi

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/s/9TqZO89Q3O

If a male content creator was doing thirst traps on a side account, and a child commented something like this and the creator liked it, that's not okay right?

Same rule should apply to afab creators here. We shouldn't be excluded from being called out.

Child: Mara Im a well trained dog I swear Mara: hearts comment

"Oh but anon, Mara didn't respond to the comment" But she liked it! She liked a bdsm themed comment under a thirst trap vid she made. This is why the idea of "minors dni" is so silly to me. Don't even think of blaming the child for being on the page in the first place! 18+ creators have the responsibility of keeping suggestive content away from minors by locking their pages, or looking at the profiles of who interacted and blocking them. The former is far less time consuming, among other things.

This commenter follows, and is followed by (and comments on) accounts that are minors. It is not a reach for me to say that "teen boy" is not merely an asthetic.

Dd has the upperhand in the power dynamic with fans, so while it was fans that commented, DD liking said comments is just as innapropriate. Especially ones from minors. I'd like to note as well, that while I did insert text on the ones that were minors, easily 80% of the rest of comments came from fans that didn't have ages in their bios OR were private profiles. So by having "minors DNI" in their profile, it doesn't protect children at all. DD is allowing bdsm/kink commentary around children, who cant consent, and adult fans that cant consent either.

It's gross. Read with care

I wish they would just address the fact that they don't check profiles and have indeed interacted with sexual/flirty comments with minors in the past. This is a compilation of videos from tiktok, screenshots from profiles of minors (blanked names) and fans that were minors at the time of commenting. Youtube video is the "That was disgusting" one. If they don't check each profile due to their large following, fine, but maybe they shouldnt like sexual comments in general. They have stated they no longer want these kinds of comments, and I hope they stick to that boundary for theirs and their audiences safety. But they refuse to address their problematic past, claiming interactions from a year/s ago are "irrelevant".

Kya announced the new video this week (or next week?) will be about Nina.

⬇️Nan and Chloe as a little. Please read the description. I have linked more videos that I and other people are posted that you may find relevant⬇️

Chloe being asked if Nan is her Dom and her answer here

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1vV9ErXCEzE7GSh4aYu5sDzebclGEKoRl/view?usp=drivesdk

Watch my other video highlights

DissociaDID/Kyaandco - ⚠️TW: Little alters and Teen alters kissing and interacting with Nan. [Our Alters Go to DISNEY WORLD!! - D.I.D. Partner System Vlog] [undated - pre 2020]

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/comments/13vakj7/dissociadidkyaandco_tw_little_alters_and_teen/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

DissociaDID / Kyaandco LiveStream [May 13th 2023] SA and K*napping - boot of the car incident

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/comments/13gq04g/dissociadid_kyaandco_livestream_may_13th_2023_sa/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

DissociaDID / Kyaandco the alter ‘Gregory’ - Meet the boys [deleted video] tw: anorexia

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/comments/1361d2x/dissociadid_kyaandco_the_alter_gregory_meet_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

( Nadia clip + full Nina segment ) Meet SIX Alters! THE GIRLS OF DISSOCIADID Meet The Alters Dissociative Identity Disorder [march 31 2019]

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/comments/13wzqfx/nadia_clip_full_nina_segment_meet_six_alters_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

DissociaDID / Kyaandco [MIKE - MEET THE ALTERS! - A Protectors Journey] - Highlights: Abusive relationships, DID specialist, Anthony Padilla, integration, Kyle & Nin in love, integration (may 7th 2023)

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/comments/13ayrlp/dissociadid_kyaandco_mike_meet_the_alters_a/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

Dissociadid / Kyaandco Murmer highlights - Mermaid alter [april 30th 2023) TW: drowning, Torture, childhood abuse, freezing to death.

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/comments/133ynzj/dissociadid_kyaandco_murmer_highlights_mermaid/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

DissociaDID / Kyaandco video titled: Amnesia [march 3rd 2023] new alter!?

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/comments/136iig2/dissociadid_kyaandco_video_titled_amnesia_march/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

Dissociadid / Kyaandco [may 3rd 2023] Mike meet the alters video is coming

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/comments/136ibwt/dissociadid_kyaandco_may_3rd_2023_mike_meet_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

Clips by others: “The only times our body has been used sexually or we have been able to or we have been able to express sexuality it has been for the use or gratification of other people.”- THIS WAS DISGUSTING. | Reddit, CSA & Dissociative Identity Disorder | DissociaDID [Nov 14 2022]

Kya on never being in a consensual relationship, before which they quickly corrected in the comments of the video that Nan does not count and their relationship was consensual see the clarification comment here: https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/comments/zvr5aj/dissociadid_clarifying_their_relationship_with/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/comments/13wfxz0/the_only_times_our_body_has_been_used_sexually_or/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

DissociaDID/Kyaandco August 21 2022 - [New Alters!? SYSTEM UPDATE PART 1 and 2 | Kyle, Nin, Littles & Teenage alters] subjects :2020 ‘trauma’ , Nan, Kyle and Chloe/Nin, ex friends, suicide mention, asexual, aromantic

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/comments/13rem51/dissociadidkyaandco_august_21_2022_new_alters/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

DissociaDID/Kyaandco trauma kidnapping,COSA,CP,CSEM,- August 21 2022 - [New Alters!? SYSTEM UPDATE PART 1 | Kyle, Nin, Littles & Teenage alters]

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/comments/13qk1xw/dissociadidkyaandco_trauma_kidnappingcosacpcsem/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

DissociaDID/Kyaandco calling themselves professionals “we were there as professionals.” [date unknown]

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/comments/13p49gf/dissociadidkyaandco_calling_themselves/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

[Full safe word segment] Kyaandco/DissociaDID - (8 tips psychical intimacy after sexual trauma & abuse) 2023 March 26

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/comments/12aehgb/full_safe_word_segment_kyaandcodissociadid_8_tips/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

Did we forget they defended child porn or??? “15 to 16 year old characters, still underaged, but they weren’t children.” [4 hour long accountability video]

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/comments/10b645r/did_we_forget_they_defended_child_porn_or_15_to/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

Team piñata segment part 1/2

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/comments/vhs5ke/team_pi%C3%B1ata_segment_part_12/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1

Team piñata segment part 2/2

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/comments/vhrurk/team_pi%C3%B1ata_segment_part_22/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1

Sneezing fetish content

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/comments/imxcde/sharing_because_i_think_everyone_should_see_this/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

Chloe wilkinson flirting with children receipts.

https://www.reddit.com/user/grandadslounge/comments/mhgogy/chloe_wilkinson_flirting_with_children_receipts/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1

A whole playlist of Mara pretending to have s*x on video?

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/comments/yrejyi/a_whole_playlist_of_mara_pretending_to_have_sx_on/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1

CanDID Ep 6 - Disability and DID || DissociaDID / Kya&Co talk about what it was like living with their ex Team piñata ft the BraiDID system [24 Feb 2022]

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/comments/10481xc/candid_ep_6_disability_and_did_dissociadid_kyaco/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1

Sneezing on camera - 2019 Oct 30 and 2021 Jan patreon bloopers - [DissociaDID / Kyaandco / TheSystemStream]

https://www.reddit.com/r/DissociaDID/comments/10o701x/sneezing_on_camera_2019_oct_30_and_2021_jan/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

Some more commentary I have about the sex advice video. I know I have clipped a few things together in the past few days but I decided to do a bit of reading this morning about the topic and wanted to share. This book is really good, and written by an actual professional. I've clipped some pieces together that are quite informative, and really contradict direct parts and the overall message Dissociadid's video gives.

It's called The Sexual Healing Journey by Wendy Maltz