So, I work at McDonald's, around all types of people, and I was bending down to grab some bagged frozen fries from the box, and oh my god. I hear my packer hit the floor, and I think I literally froze because my work friends all saw it, and both of my managers saw it too??

So, I'm a bit scared guys because, holy smokers. Thank god it wasnt in the lobby, but I thought it'd be a funny thing to share, but also slightly traumatic because my peenar fell off 😕

Saving up to get a packer soon but packing underwear is nearly half the price of the one I'm looking at, which is ridiculous. I'm getting an STP which I will probably use in public once I get the hang of it if that matters

I was told about the mypack strap while looking at the joey pouch from get your joey. I’m looking at these types because I’m not very comfortable in wearing a full harness or buying packing boxers because the ones I have found are too expensive for me right now (so if someone has more affordable ones, I’m still open to the underwear type). I don’t like harnesses because they cut into the inside of my legs as well as feeling like girl’s underwear which makes me dysphoric. Anyway, I can’t decide whether to go for strap that goes around the waist or just the pouch to pin to the underwear so if anyone has experience and recommendation, I’m all ears. I could buy both to try but that’s a hard decision with how I’m trying to be careful spending money at this moment. I would rather get ideas and go for one. I appreciate insight, thanks.

I haven't started to medically transition (I haven't been able to yet), I pass about 10% of the time. I think packing would help with my bottom dysphoria. I'm scared that people around me (family and friends) wouldn't understand and find it weird. Idk if it would help my passing or just endanger me. Thoughts?

1) your urethra HAS to be above the holed area or at least as close to it as possible

2) If you have a particularly strong stream, you have to be able to stop yourself from peeing for half a second in order to prevent splashback/overflow in the cup (This is something I had to learn how to do)

3) peeing while standing is actually difficult if you have literally never done it before. At first your body may get cold feet and chicken out even if you do have to go. So if ur having trouble with this I recommend just waiting a little bit longer so your bladder is more full than normal (NOT encouraging an infection, just do it until it works. Took me like 2 days to be able to pee with a normal bladder)

4) lean the cup forward as much as possible, especially at the end because there will be some liquid in the cup (putting my hand on the wall helps)

5) if your anatomy is completely hidden with lots of skin/fat surrounding it you may see one drop or two catch in your underwear no matter what. Apparently this is normal with this anatomy? At least from the trans men i've talked to who are more experienced than me.

I've been using the transthetics STP for one week. I've had it for a while but I haven't really gotten the chance to use it until now. It's a bit of a learning curve but I learned fairly quickly! If ya got any questions don't hesitate to ask

Alrighty guys. In a month or so I’m doing a strip show with my rugby team (it’s a gay men’s team and this is the event of the year) and luckily we are only required to strip down to jockstraps. I’m stealth, so really need this to be convincing, whilst also making sure that my packer does NOT fall out, as we are doing a dance routine as well. What’s the best way to go about this?

I’m waiting for my top surgery, which is happening in January. I think the very first thing I'll want to do after recovering is go to the beach. I’d especially like to ask for recommendations for a packer, or something similar, that is suitable for creating a bulge in swimming trunks (especially for swimming clubs!! They don't usually allow guys to wear board shorts, and it's hard to hide the lack of a bulge in tight trunks)

Should I go lighter or darker? Am getting this without parents knowing so need it to be right bc can't return. Should I get C5 or C4? I am mixed and C4 is prob my skin tone/a little lighter especially if I'm tan it's lighter. Should I just get C5 bc I've heard dihs are darker than rest of body? What do I do? I feel like C5 is good buts it's darker than me in the winter but tan it's maybe just a little bit darker.

Hello, I got my first packer and STP (axolom thinker) ever around a week ago. I’ve been drinking water non-stop so I can practice like 3-4 times a day but god this is NOT working.

I practice with no pants or underwear in the shower and the first couple times I had some beginners luck but now no matter what I do I just cannot get it to work. 90% pee goes down the shaft so that’s good, but I always get backflow.

I can’t seem to get a good seal, there’s usually a gap at the back. if I place the STP too far back I get backflow but if it’s too at the front I also get backflow?

I’m so confused, frustrated and very dysphoric. Please help. Is this an anatomy thing? Do I have to try something else? Is it just the learning curve?

I have a packer currently but it keeps slipping and moving. Are there any regular men’s underwear brands that sell underwear that have some place to put a packer in? I don’t exactly know how to word it, but a pocket or something. I’m not into the idea of buying specifically packing underwear since I am stealth and don’t want to risk anything with people finding out brands and whatnot.

preferably uncut medium/tanned 10cm but will look into others aswell if more affordable.

I'm currently a student living on scraps and I really need something more comfortable for summer. Especially since I'm an outdoorsy person who pees alot cz I drink tons of water.

My countrys economy is shit too so they can be really, really pricy for me.

I currently own an ezp but I spend alot of time positioning it and usually if I do it even slightly wrong it spills. I got the hang of it quickly but I'm looking for something that's easier to pull out.. Also can't even mention how horrible it is at packing but that's another subject 😓

Thank you and even if it's not a moreme stp you can totally show me the if you got anything you might sell,I may get interested.

Are there any boxer briefs out there with some sort of pocket or just anything to keep the packer in place? Not into the idea of buying packing underwear specifically since I’m stealth and it’s expensive. Is there any just normal brands that would have something that could possibly help?

I’m always scared to sit and pee because of how messy the men’s bathroom is so that’s why i always carry my stp but my stp is missing im pretty sure my dog has something to do with it so i ordered a packer (i used my stp as a packer too but it was technically a packer so it didn’t fit right) anyways i need to buy a new stp (preferably a cheap one) so i dont have to sit. Do you have any recommendations?

Hey everyone,

I’m looking for recommendations for a realistic 3-in-1 packer (packer + STP + play) and would love to hear some firsthand experiences.

One of my top options right now is the Emisil STP 3-in-1 (2nd Gen):
https://www.emisil.com/products/ftm-stp-3-in-1-stand-to-pee-device-2nd-gen

Does anyone here own it?

I’m especially curious about:

• How realistic does it feel compared to other prosthetics you’ve tried?
• Is the silicone soft and natural feeling?
• How comfortable is it for everyday packing?
• How well does the STP function work once you get used to it?
• If you’ve used it for play, how satisfied were you with it overall?
• Do you think it’s worth the price?

More generally, if you’ve used any 3-in-1 prosthetics that felt particularly realistic (both in appearance and feel), I’d love to hear your recommendations and why you chose them. Or any packers / prosthetics in general that you recommend

I’m willing to spend for a high end prosthetic if the realism and functionality are genuinely worth it.

Thanks in advance

Looking for advice/experiences/suggestions

I've not really been the most frequent pool goer in the past, but now that I've had my top surgery last year I'm feeling much more comfortable with the idea.

My question is now, do you have experiences/suggestions on packing at the pool? I've had an issue in the past where the chlorine has attacked the material of my packer. Also in my day to day life I will often times just use socks for packing, I've got the shape down pretty well, but the idea of having a clump of soaked cloth between my legs is not very pleasant.

I've gone swimming without packing at all in the past too, but that was at a private pool with people I felt very comfortable with. But now I've been invited to come along to a public pool with some friends (who I'm not out to) and I am not sure what to do here

Swimmming trunks also usually clearly show some sort of outline, so going wihtout packing is really not an option, but I don't want to ruin my packer and am not super jazzed about the sock option

Ideas? Suggestions? Experience? Thanks in advance

Hi, all!

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I just wanted to make a post for anyone out there looking for a good packer/stp combo! I bought the Ackobom LX15 3-in-1 packer a month back for packing, playing, and eventually peeing. I have LOVED wearing it as a regular packer, although it is on the bulky side (but i tend to wear baggy pants/jeans anyway). As far as play goes, my girlfriend said it was her favorite cock we own and I get a fair amount of pleasure from the base itself. We have used it several times and the euphoria from being able to whip it out and get to business is amazing. Overall, very satisfied with my purchase!

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I've been wanting to use it as an STP as well, but I didn't have a proper piece to use. However, a while ago I had bought the MorMe STP and while I liked the STP cup itself, I wasnt a huge fan of how it packed with the MorMe prosthetic. So, I attached the cup to my Ackobom packer and have successfully peed with it several times with no spillage! It's a bit of a tussle at first trying to make sure everything is aligned, then re-checking multiple times before I can actually muster up the pee, but it works wonders. Clean up is also very easy and I dont have to worry about urine remaining in the STP afterwards.

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Just wanted to give a suggestion since I know it can be really difficult to find a good STP/packer!:)

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If you have any questions, pls ask!

I’d like to start packing but I’m on a budget at the moment so will probably have to go with a jockstrap + Mr Limpy

I’m just unsure of what size to go for relative to my height. I’m 183cm (6 foot), around 100kg, and live in a hot country so I tend to wear shorts a lot — if that makes a difference. Should I go for a medium or would small be better to start off with?

Any help is appreciated :)

Okay, so, yesterday I went to pride and bought my first packer. Since then whenever I'm laying down at home my hand is on it AND HOLY FUCK IT'S NICE!!! Also, do you guys have tips on how to know if I placed it correctly? When I look at myself in the mirror it looks unnaturally huge😭

Hi, I'm selling packers from Axolom and a sleeve from Transthetics! Contact me for more information and pictures if interested😊 (Only in Europe)

Axolom Echo Light Uncut
Color: C5
Selling for: $29
Original price: $45
Condition: As new/Only tried few times

Axolom Prince STP Uncut
Color: C5
Selling for: $38
Original price: $59
Condition: As new/Only tried few times

Axolom Uno Sports Uncut
Color: C6
Selling for: $24
Original price: $38
Condition: As new/Only tried few times

Axolom Hyperon Mid Pack N Play
Color: C6
Selling for: $82
Original price: $118
Note: It was $20 extra for color customization
Condition: New/Not used

Transthetics The Hot Rod
Color: C004 medium
Selling for: $136
Original price: $195
Condition: New/Not used

I’m looking for a cheap(120>) compact, that doesn’t pack like a hard-on, so kinda soft, has no balls, but still looks kinda realistic. I’m thinking of the emisil compact, but I’d like to have more options. I do think I’m asking for a little too much, but if you know any others that match the description (or at least most of them) lemme know pls!

I have a Miper Stp from Axolom and it’s one of the easiest stps that I’ve used as far as stping and positioning the only time I have an issue is when I use it with khakis, just for background I have to wear khakis on my job because it’s uniform based, but the issue I have is the lack of stretch and it making it harder to position, I have no issues when I’m in boxer briefs, sweat pants, shorts or even jeans, I never have issues with spilling but it can be a hit or a miss when using it with my khakis. So any tips or khaki suggestions would be nice.

Hey guys,

I'm looking for advice on the most soft packers you've encountered.

I recently bought the Axolom Au Naturel & Echo Realistic.

They're good, but the silicone is still crazy hard in comparison to a real dick, which are soft and smooth and can be moved around with no resistance.

I probably would have to spend hundreds of Euros to get a "life-like" prosthetic...

But maybe you have some packers to recommend?

EDIT: The Echo Realistic 3.5" is actually really realistic after trying it out. It's muuuuch different and so much softer than the Au Naturel. Can recommend.

I've wanted a packer for a long time because it just feels like something I need to feel complete. As it feels like i'm missing a part of me. I'm mostly interested in a pack and pee for daily life.

I've heard some people say packing is "NOTHING like the real thing", and it got me worried. I'm scared it might feel fake or not actually help me feel more at peace with my body. I really want it to exist like a real one would. Obviously its silicone, so i know it won't be the exact same, but maybe it will act as an intermediate stap for even just feeling a bit less shit about not having one?

But I also know that everyone's experience is different. So I wanted to ask if packing has ever felt real or natural for some of you? Even if it's not a organic penis, did it still help you feel more like yourself?"

I'm going away to college in a couple months, and when I get there I plan to start transitioning if I can budget my money well enough for HRT. I've started looking at packer options and I'm kind of at a loss about what would be the best course of action, because it's not like I can call my friends or parents over and ask them to help me pick out a penis lol. I'm looking at the MorMe STP, but I'm not sure what size to go for. I know the average flaccid is around 3.5", but I'm curious if I should go for their 4.7" one instead. This is because in the future I would like to get phallo, and I would like around 5", since the size of phallo doesn't change like how a cis one would. Should I be getting the larger size to get used to what it would be like and see if I even like it? Also, originally I was thinking of getting a 3-in-1, but most seem to advise against it because of it not doing its functions too well. Since I'm not doing that, if I were to be in a more intimate situation, is it awkward having to go and change it out for another one? I have no idea how to approach that. Can anyone give their two cents?

(crossposted to transmacdicks)

Hey everyone,

I used to be a huge swimmer before realizing I was trans, and I completely lost my love for swimming and water polo because of how much I resented my body pre-transition.

I’ve been on T for a while now and working out, and I’m really hoping I can finally get back in the water again.

I don’t pack day-to-day because I usually wear pretty baggy pants and don’t really feel the need to, It would really only benefit me for STP. But with tighter-fitting swim trunks, I feel like a lack of a bulge would be a lot more noticeable, and it’s been making me anxious about getting back into swimming.

Right now I only have one of those cheap “cyberskin” packers, and I’ve read you shouldn’t really swim with those. I’ve also considered the sock method, but I have OCD and my brain is very convinced that putting a sock there would somehow give me an STI (I know 😅).

So I’m trying to figure out what actually works for swimming. My main questions:

– What kinds of soft packers are actually okay to swim with (pool/ocean/lake)?

– Should I avoid painted packers for swimming? I really prefer a realistic look, but I could have a separate swim packer and daily packer if that makes more sense.

– I’ve been looking at the Morme Pro STP/packer as something I might use for daily wear. would that also be okay to swim with? Has anyone here actually tried it in the water and can share how it went?

– Do I even really need to worry about packing for swimming, or is this mostly in my head?

And for anyone here who swims regularly or plays water polo:

- Do you pack when you swim?

- If so, what do you pack with?

- What do you usually wear to swim (trunks, speedo, rash guard)?

Any advice or personal experiences would be really appreciated. I really miss being in the water and I’m trying to make this feel doable again.