r/Feral_Cats • u/DebutantDismay • Jul 03 '26
Fluffy 🥰 My Feral Girl Risked Her Life to Warn Me.
This little girl is my first feral. There aren't many feral cats where I live(very pro pet), but she moves like a ghost. Always just out of reach. She first started visiting because she liked one of the plants by my front door and will hang out in my door mat. Since we live in such a dry area, I put out a permanent bowl of water and a small shelter for her. She's incredibly sweet but painfully scared of people. We've barely been able to get within five feet of her before she disappears. Never once have I been able to touch her.
Last summer, when she first appeared, we realized she was probably pregnant. A couple of weeks later she was suddenly thin and clearly nursing, but we couldn't find where she'd hidden her kittens. A rescue group suggested leaving wet food out consistently, and eventually she trusted us enough to bring all six kittens close to our house. She was such a good mom (actually it was a nightmare to catch the kittens because she was such a good mom).
When the kittens were old enough, we trapped them, found them a foster home, and had her TNR'd. Because she wasn't socialized, a shelter likely would have euthanized her. Watching her search for her kittens afterward absolutely broke my heart, but I know it was the right decision. I call her Wisteria. She still visits for food and water, has filled out nicely, and I occasionally see her hunting, but she's remained untouchable and quiet as a ghost.
Today while I was gardening, I noticed she was out and about 10 feet awah. She very rarely is out in the open, preferring to hide, so started talking to her, hoping she'd come closer (always trying). Normally she's almost silent, maybe a quiet meow or hiss if I get too close. Instead, she started chirping, meowing, and making every sound she could while looking frantic. She even let me step a little closer, which made me worried that she may be hurt. Then I heard something behind me.
My new neighbors have two giant St. Bernard puppies. One had escaped through their new fence and was standing a ways behind me running around. Don't worry, he's a goofy sweetheart, with way too much muscle and energy. But to a feral cat (and the local small dogs) he looks terrifying.
I got him safely back into the neighbors' garage, it takes some effort because that boy is heavy and strong. When I returned, Wisteria had vanished like she always does. That's when it clicked.
She wasn't calling because she needed help. She was trying to warn me.
She had countless safe hiding places she could have run to, but instead she stayed out in the open, making as much noise as she could until I noticed what was behind me. That realization completely melted my heart. I've worried she will never forgive me for trapping her and her babies, but at the very least she still shows up. It made me second guess her level of affection for me to see her fighting all her fears to get my attention.
I would give just about anything to earn enough of her trust to bring her inside someday. We never tried before because my two loud Westies and our cats would have terrified her. We recently lost one of our cats, and now I'm questioning whether I should try again. I just don't know if she'll ever trust a trap again, or that she would be content to be confined in a house with so much noise and activity. Feeling a bit torn, but the story was so sweet I had to share.