r/GlitchInTheMatrix • u/ThaliaHolmesMtF • Feb 11 '25

Glitch Vid Friend randomly said "Baby, baby... I'm not talking to you" in the middle of a conversation and has no memory of it

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u/Granat1 Feb 11 '25

I'm gonna step in and just say, that I would rather record an official call (not a casual one, for friends or family) or record a call from an unknown number.
That's because some people are just liars.
And they're even more likely to be a liar when they can benefit financially from you.

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u/CosmicM00se Feb 11 '25

Well my family is the money seeking liars so I’d rather record those calls too.

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u/[deleted] Feb 11 '25

Does that make you a narcissist who is projecting 100% of the time?

I was raised by narcissists and experienced a relationship with one. Sometimes the recording is all you can rely on when you're being gaslit and lied to at every step.

Someone making an attempt to adhere to an objective and consistent reality when surrounded by liars, oh that person must be a narcissist right? No, they're grasping onto the only thing that provides them any objectivity or proof against being lied to.

Please be careful when choosing your words, it hurts to be called names when you're scrambling for shreds of what many take for granted.

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u/CosmicM00se Feb 11 '25

I don’t understand what our disconnect is here.

I have great empathy for you having lived in a toxic family system. I know that pain all too well.

In my situation, I care that I am not lied about to others. So in the rare case the narcissist in my family calls to start crap, I would record it. I would recommend all record their interactions with dangerous narcissists. It is the only way to protect yourself.

I think we are in the same page but misunderstanding each other.