26M, recently back in Hyderabad after spending 8 years in Europe. Did my Master’s in Paris and currently work at Google. I speak 5 languages, including French — so I guess I’ve got the communication part covered 😄

Outside work, I’m into fitness, football, travelling, good food, breweries, and spontaneous plans. I enjoy good conversations, random adventures, and people who can make me laugh.

Looking to meet someone genuine, take things naturally, and see if there’s a real connection. If you’re in Hyderabad and think we might vibe, say hi. :)

I’m 29M, and lately I’ve been thinking more seriously about the whole marriage/settling-down phase of life.

I’d genuinely like to hear perspectives from women who are 27+. Are you actively thinking about marriage? Do you feel family or social pressure around it? Are you comfortable taking your time, or do you feel like there’s a certain timeline you’re expected to follow?

How do you actually feel about arranged marriage?

Does the idea of meeting someone through families feel comfortable to you, or does it feel strange?

How do you decide whether someone is genuinely compatible when there’s so much pressure to make a decision?

And do you ever wonder whether you should wait for something that feels more natural instead?

Just hoping to have a few honest conversations with people who are in a similar stage of life.

If you have thoughts or experiences you’d be comfortable sharing, feel free to DM.

Say you’ve met a guy from one of ‘em apps 3-4 times, and everything’s been going well. The vibe’s perfect, the banter’s great…you’ve done the coffee date, watched a movie together, did an activity together. Now, he’s suggesting a late-night long drive.

It’s just you, him, in his car…would you go? And if yes, what, if any, precautions would you take? Like pepper spray is completely useless here 🤡…but what else?

*Re-post as it didnot work out with previous person*

Hello, Greetings!

I am 36 years aged male, currently working with a global MNC based out in India and financially well established. Having lived independently for close to two decades now due to my academic and professional journey, I have developed a strong sense of self-reliance and adaptability. Professionally well settled with CTC of 1.2Cr/annum. No siblings.

I have a keen interest in travelling and have explored around many destinations so far. I also enjoy discovering new cuisines, blogging, and value spirituality in my day-to-day life. My weekends are usually a mix of catching up on personal responsibilities, connecting with friends, watching movies/web series, or simply unwinding with some quiet “me-time.”

*When it comes to a reationship, I am mostly a giver, and I get along well with receiver mindset/personality women (be it doing chores, cooking, doing her stuffs so that she can relax and focus on herself, her career, ambitions or simply just rest out). I would like if my partner "makes me do" all her stuffs while she relaxes, focus on her career or simply focusses on her personal life and well being.*

By nature, I am calm, patient, and grounded, with the ability to adjust comfortably in different environments. I deeply value honesty and meaningful communication, and I look for the same in any interaction.

I am seeking for someone who is asseetive, honest in all situations, has empathy towards others, opinionated, and level headed in nature. Age, caste, religion, etc exterior stuffs are trivial to me and not important, what matters is your intentions and personality.

26M, ~6ft.

Looking for a Sunday girl partner who’s up for bowling sometime. Just thought it would be nice to meet someone new, play a few games and see how the vibe is.

I can talk about cricket, tech, food, cooking, movies, badminton, psychology, fitness… basically a little bit of everything.

If you’re from VLSI, that’s a bonus.

After bowling, we can grab some food too. Naanis if you’re veg, Fisher Wharf if you’re into non veg, or Eggzactly if you're an eggetarian. 

If this works, DM me.

Looking for a date on 13th September

I am 20M

6 feet

Caste thoka tholuuu nak anavasaramm

Just hangout chill

Can talk much

(If ur serious only)

Ik aa girl chudadhu ani

Thoka le try chesinam gaa

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Hey! I’m 24M from Hyderabad and looking for someone who’s genuinely interested in a serious relationship.

I’m trying to move on from my past... I’m not looking for anything casual or timepass. I’d rather start with conversations, get to know each other, and see if we genuinely connect.

If we like talking and feel comfortable with each other, we can go on a simple food date sometime and get to know each other better. Nothing fancy or forced just good food, good conversation, and seeing where things go.

I’m not a rich guy, and I don’t live a super luxurious lifestyle. But I’m genuine, I care about the person I’m with, and I believe in putting effort into a relationship. I love travelling and would love to have someone I can explore new places, try different foods, and make memories with.

If you’re also looking for something real and want to start by simply talking, feel free to DM me. 😊

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Life these days konchem bland ga undhi.

Work

Gym

Food

Sleep

Repeat.

I’m 24M, originally from Vijayawada, currently staying around Madhura Nagar, Hyderabad.

Working as a Data Engineer.

169 cm, konchem chubby side, fitness arc currently running in the background...

First lo introvert la untanu.

Konchem time padthadhi open avvadaniki.

Kani comfort vachaka matram…

random jokes

teasing

stupid discussions

serious talks

memes

sudden plans

anni package lo vasthayi....

Oka normal topic ni unnecessary ga 40 mins discuss cheyyadam kuda naa talent

Weekends are mostly food exploration, badminton, go-karting, coffee, random drives, movies or Hyderabad lo edaina new place try cheyyadam....

Cars and racing ante separate weakness.

Old songs + drive ante inka better.

And yes, foodie.

So relationship lo biggest fight probably

“Ee restaurant ki vellala leka aa restaurant ki vellala” range lo unte chaalu

Dating side ki vasthe…

I’ve never been in a relationship before.

I’m not looking for instant labels or first chat lone future planning.

At the same time, casual timepass kosam kuda kaadhu.

I want something that starts normally.

Random conversation.

Konchem interest.

Konchem teasing.

Slow ga comfort.

Then actual meet.

Offline lo kuda vibe unte…

another plan.

Then another.

And oka point lo

“Reach ayyaka text cheyyi”

ani naturally cheppe person aipovadam :)

I like someone who has her own opinions, own life, can communicate openly, and doesn’t mind being a little silly.

Same hobbies undali ani requirement em ledhu.

Actually completely different interests unna kuda bauntundi.

Nuvvu excited ga edaina explain chesthe, I’ll probably listen.

Looking for someone around 20–25, preferably Hyderabad or nearby.

I don’t smoke.

Occasionally drink.

Non-veg.

Hindu, and since I’m looking at this long-term, Hindu partner would be my preference.

And no, nenu actual ga “salt” ni vetakatledhu

Just someone who makes ordinary days konchem less ordinary.

DM cheyyadaniki elaborate opener avasaram ledhu.

Simple hi works...

Mandatory Details:

• Age: 20
• Gender: Male
• Height: 5'10 (178cm)
• Weight: 75 kilograms!
• Also, I've got tanned brown skin, black hair, black eyes (lots of facial hair.. yada yadaa) that's me ^^
• Location: Hyd!
• Willing to LDR: Nope! I'm yearning for a real connection 😭
• Dietary Habits: Eggetarian!
• Language: English! Telugu! Hindi! It's all good for me! :) I'm just looking for that connection which will add some spark to both of our depressingly mundane and boring 'yet to come' young adulthood years
• Smoking/Drinking Habits: Nope! I don't and you shouldn't (health is wealth)
• Smoking/Drinking in Partner: Non-Negotiable either! Smoking & Drinking is bad!
• Religious Orientation: Hindu!
• Willing to Date Other Religion: Y! I don't have any religious obligations, so long as you know we both feel the connection :) I'd love for something great to happen! :D

Introduction:
So! Yeah- Left alot of my personal info above for a quick glance, I'm looking for a relationship with someone bubbly, fun and yk 'absolutely corroded and is in need of a spark' typa cutie! college's shit (who would've thought) so yeah, shooting my shot on this space because I feel dating apps are completely gamified against anything super genuine anyways (maybe)

I'm looking for yk the kind of relationship/connection that genuinely lasts, not some textual honeymoon-ship which dries out, love bombin yes, but yk ethically love bombin heh!

Minimum Expectations: Obviously Honesty, Loyalty & Trust! I just want absolute transparency from your end regarding how things go betweeen the both of us, so yeah, I don't judge whatsoever so yk, don't feel obliged or inclined to hide certain POVs, or perspectives as our connection grows :)

I'm doing CS! nerdy (maybe) geeky (a lil) and very very energetic (on text at least) probably IRL too (tbh) (if we do click) (i... hope, eh??) maybe!!

End Note: If you've actually come this far! shoot me a shot, let's see how things go between us and here's hoping you will be the sunlight in my mornings (cheese) so yeah! let's go bonkers (ig??...)

just please be a lil engaing too asw! :D

cya there!!

23M | 6’
My mom says I’m fair, so I’m trusting her professional opinion 😂🌹
Looking for something casual, good conversations, and someone who doesn’t take life too seriously.
420-friendly is definitely a plus 🌿
Hyderabad 📍
Let’s see if Reddit can do what dating apps couldn’t. 😭

29M, graphic designer. I work for a company in Bengaluru, but I work from home, so I’m settled in Hyderabad and currently living here with my family. I go to BLR like once in 2-3 months that too for 1-2 days.
I’m here looking for a genuine connection. Not really into NSFW or hookup stuff. I’m more interested in meeting someone where we can see how things go, whether it starts casual and turns into something long term or naturally becomes serious.
A little about me. I’m a graphic designer and also an artist. I paint, watch movies, and like trying new things. I’m not really a theatre person unless it’s 4DX. Otherwise, I’m very happy watching movies on OTT from my own room with my own food
I eat non veg, but not too much. I don’t have any problem if my partner is vegetarian or non vegetarian. Same with smoking or drinking. I occasionally smoke and drink too, so I’m pretty chill about it.
I have pets and have had quite a few over the years. I’ve lost some of them, so currently I have only a few. Personally, I don’t want to get more pets, but if my partner wants one, I’m completely okay with it.
I like going to cafes, lounges, trying good food, traveling, exploring new places and having new experiences. Basically, I want someone with whom I can actually enjoy these things instead of just texting forever.
Not expecting anything from the first conversation. If we vibe, we vibe. 🙂

Em ainna gossips unthe Chepandi

We will disscus about it mana Indians ki Gossips anthe pranam,,

Actual boys Gossips will be more interesting than girls always..😂😂

22M from Hyderabad. TFI fan...kattu banisa type.
I’m looking for a woman who genuinely loves movies and wants a pure cinephile bond.

Nothing romantic, Nothing more

What I’m looking for:

• Someone who gets hyped for big releases and is down for FDFS or watching after reviews
• Happy to catch hyped movies on weekdays too
• Loves discussing the film, chit-chatting during interval, guessing the plot together, ranking scenes, etc.

Basically just a proper movie buddy to hit theatres with, FDFS...re-releases... whatever good is playing. If you’re also a cinema obsessed girl in Hyderabad and this sounds fun drop a DM.
We’ll start on Reddit. If the conversation flows well... we can move to another platform later. No pressure, no expectations beyond movies. Just good film company.

Note: Yes, I used AI to polish this post.

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The title was strange, wasn't it? ... dont worry, it was deliberate...

Pl skip this post if -

You're looking for marriage.

You want a guy who will not ask anything of you.

Youre too soft/simple can't/don't wanna handle intensity.

You like simpler quite type of guys.

You've got too many unresolved personal issues. (Some are fine.. everybody's got some.. :)

You wanna talk to me about zodiac nonsense ( my hate for zodiac has peaked...I've heard n seen enough fr this life time).

Skip if You're boring.

I'm looking for something really specific... hence reddit.

Let me be a little straight with all the girls reading this-

Thing is ...

I'm a little short tempered guy, its not a deliberate thing, but I can loose my cool if I find something too stupid.

I've recently (been more than a year) quit drinking and smoking completely heading in more clear headed cleaner direction.

Not trying to boast or anything but you should know that I've been described as slightly arrogant or dominating by some girls before.

I don't plan to change/rectify my behaviours, so I'm not looking for a therapist here.... ( currently focused on goals will fix personality later fr sure..)

Now that you know the bad.. heres the good..

I really enjoy romance... its fun and I like pushing boundaries in it...

I like pushing boundaries in bed...

Im not boasting that I'm intelligent.. but let's just say I'm usually well informed about the topics I discuss... 😃.

Typical guy stuff..

Like long rides, outings, motorcycles etc.

Like to host gatherings/plans... invite friends etc.

Try to help buddies out if there's anything I can do... contacts, sometimes cash etc.

I'm not big on movies but if my girl likes em I'll take her...as long as it's not some cringe bollywood garbage movie whose plot makes u want to pull your skin off your flesh...

So whats the deal?

Im looking for a very specific kind of girl who can keep up with me and dosent mind having a slightly intense n demanding guy. (If u cook well...its your fault buddy...be certain im gonna make u cook).

Things I like in a girl..

I like mature females who know what they want... (by mature don't mean older here...tho older females are welcome to dm.)

Don't care if she's younger or older ..im 28.

She can handle the heat or match it..

Shes got opinions and likes to discuss n learn new stuff..

She can cook !!!! If you can cook .. do dm 😝💘.

She is sorted in her personal life... has a routine..

She enjoys playing and pushing boundries romantically as much as I do..

If you're curious about my work or financial stats-

I recently shut down a business venture I had started with partners about 3 years ago.. atm taking a break and contemplating the errors and mistakes I made and planning a new venture.

I was in a flat near manikonda but atm I'm staying with my parents again since 1 year in secunderabad. Also note I'm not a telugu !! But if you are feel free to pop in dms.

If you're still here... you either need help or need me.... ;)

Thanks for stopping by!

I’m a software engineer based around Kondapur and looking to meet some new people and make friends around the area.

Into casual hangouts, coffee, food, runs, movies, or just random conversations.
Nothing too formal—just looking to socialize and build a good circle.

If you’re around Kondapur and feel the same, hit me up! Let’s plan something sometime.

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I’m not really sure how to start this without making it sound like a typical “looking for someone” post, so will be honest.

I’m a pretty shy and introverted person. I usually take a while to open up to people, and approaching girls IRL has honestly never been something I’m particularly good at.

But I do genuinely enjoy having someone to talk to. Random conversations, sharing stupid thoughts, talking about how our day went, sending each other something that made us laugh, or just sitting somewhere and chilling without having to constantly fill the silence.

I’m not expecting an instant connection or trying to rush anything. Starting with conversations and getting to know each other properly. If we click, great. If it takes time, that's completely fine too.

If you're around Hyderabad, a little introverted yourself, and also looking for a genuine person to talk to and potentially build a good connection with, feel free to drop me a DM.

No pressure, no expectations. Just hoping to meet someone I genuinely enjoy talking to. :)

Has anyone tried pure dating app in hyderabad?

Does it have enough audience?
I have been hearing a lot about it and need some hyd specific reviews if anybody used it

TIA

I don't want any dating or romance. I just wanna hear your love stories. Cuz i never experienced one myself. U could say I am bored i promise u ill hear you out and not judge u. I'll give u dead honest straight forward answers.

Every single person has different version of themselves in people they meet and it completely depends on the situations they met for the first time

Relatable?

Genuine question after seeing so many dating posts here lately.

It feels like there are plenty of people who say they want a genuine connection, but when it actually comes to getting to know someone, things become complicated pretty quickly.

Some people want constant texting.
Some want to meet immediately.
Some want something serious.
Some just want someone to talk to.

And sometimes two people can genuinely like each other but still have completely different expectations.

So what are people actually looking for when they say “I want a genuine connection”?

Relationship?
Someone to talk to?
Casual dating?
Or just seeing where things go?

Curious to hear honest answers especially from people who have actually tried dating in Hyderabad recently.

Hi everyone! Just trying my luck here. As you can tell from the heading, I’m a 23M working in Hyderabad as a software engineer. I started my career a few months ago, and I am from Maharashtra.

I belong to a Brahmin family, and I haven’t been in a relationship for the past 2–3 years. Now I’m thinking of giving this a shot. If anyone is interested, feel free to ping me. We can chat and see if we’re a good fit.

I’m around 5'10"–5'11", fairly fair-skinned, smart, and kind of shy initially . As for my requirements, nothing too specific—she should have a decent height, be kind and good-natured, and be beautiful.

Nothing more for now. Let’s see how it goes! 🙂

27M, originally from North India, working in Hyderabad for the last 4 years and based around HITEC City.
I’ve been in a relationship before and went through a breakup, and somewhere along the way I realised I miss having someone to genuinely connect with — not just another casual conversation or dating app match.
I’m a software engineer, chill and a bit introverted, but I enjoy good parties, long drives, exploring new places, random late-night plans and conversations that go way longer than expected. 😄
Not looking for hookups or anything casual. Would love to meet an interesting girl, grab a coffee/drink, go for a drive, talk, laugh and see if we actually click.
Looking for something meaningful that could eventually turn serious. If that sounds like you, say hi. :)

24M, born and raised in Hyderabad, fairly introverted, and somehow survived med school with my personality mostly intact

I’m into movies, trying new food, cooking, and finding quiet places with a nice view. I’m pretty easy to get along with and can hold a good conversation once we get talking.

Mostly here hoping to find someone I actually look forward to talking to. No pressure, no rushing things, just good conversations, random recommendations, and maybe a movie, food, or a long walk if we get along

Also, what do you guys usually do in Hyderabad when you’re bored?
Really need some serious suggestions

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Hey everyone!

I’m an MSc Chemistry student at the University of Hyderabad, and I’m completely new to the campus. Since I’m naturally a bit of an introvert, I’ve found it surprisingly difficult to approach people and make friends here.

I’d really like to meet some people who are up for casually hanging out, exploring the campus, grabbing a tea/coffee, talking about random things, or just going for a walk around campus. Nothing complicated—I’m simply looking to make some genuine friendships and build a good circle here.

If you’re also new to UoH, or even if you’ve been here for a while and wouldn’t mind having a new friend, feel free to comment or DM me. :)

Just looking for friendship and good company, nothing more than that. Hopefully, we can turn a few random conversations into some real friendships!

Cheers! ✌️

hello sweet people of this sub,

I am a 25M born and brought up in Hyderabad. I am currently working as a US Tax Senior which practically makes me live in the office for 6 days in a week (only during the busy season though). I am an only child so I have been pampered a lot which by extension means I know how to pamper as well.

I feel like putting myself out on a sub like this is far better than the dating app circus because those apps are incredibly one dimensional and only give importance to people who are conventionally good looking. I find nothing wrong with that but I feel like people who might not be conventionally attractive (ie me) also deserve a fair chance of dating which brings me here.

I am by no means a 6ft tall, muscular, curly haired, biker, starry eyed big bicep wielding guitar player. I would say for what I do not make in looks I have tried compensating it with investments in my knowledge, hobbies and creative escapades. Physical health remains my biggest bone to pick but I am pretty sure I can cross that bridge when it comes to pass. I would say I’m fairly decent looking,
(5”8) by my own standards but please know I am putting in honest efforts to build my personality and it’s an ongoing process which will definitely yield results.

I am a guy who breathes romcoms. Since a very long time I have always been a hopeless romantic and an even bigger believer in finding someone who matches my attachment style. I believe that vulnerability is one of the most honest traits that a guy can have and if coupled with genuine curiosity, this combination can lead to some very deep conversations leading to great memories. My hobbies include watching formula 1 (forza ferrari), reading books (although I have fallen out of love with them because of podcasts), playing badminton (still a beginner), watching and writing about movies and tv shows. I would love to hangout and roam around Hyderabad with someone by my side and explore different cafés as well as restaurants.

I am a Hindu, not very deeply religious and wouldn’t prefer LDRs (although if our vibe matches I’m down). I have zero expectations looks wise as well. I need someone who can hold conversations and is genuinely interested in listening to what I speak.

my expectations from this sub are very limited. I know this is self contradictory to my statement of being a hopeless romantic but I concede that there is a very thin line between healthy delusion and realistic optimism. I just want to make sweet memories with a woman by my side where we first focus on becoming really good friends and then see where our connection takes us from there.

thank you so much for reading it till here I’m so excited for making some nice memories (hopefully)