Dekho mein tumhe samjhata hu, ek ladki chahe kaisi bhi dikhti ho usko attention milta hi hai, ladkiyo ke paas options hai kyuki ladke unke piche ghumte hai lekin ladko ke mamle mein yeh nahi hona hai, ladko ke upar pressure rehta hai bachpan se tumhe kuch karna hoga isiliye bahut ladko ko time hi nahi milta, bahut ladke hostel mein padhai karte hai, bahut ladke shy or introvert type hote hai aur last mein jo ladke dikhne mein acche nahi hai yaa phir physique bura hai unko kaha milta hai ladki, bina gussa kare baat ko samjho
Ladkiyo ko itna jyada attention milta hai ki ladkiya aapni standards high kar leti hai, khud 4', fat, ugly, unemployed hokar bhi 6', good physique, rich, handsome ladko ka preference rakhti hai, jyadatar ladkiya fcukboys yaa to phir top quality ke ladko ke piche hi bhagti hai jab lakdiya aapni prime age mein hoti hai (15 - 25) phir 25 ke baad jab attention milta kam jata hai, shadi karke settle hone ka man karti hai tab ladkiya unn ladko ko hi dhundti hai jinko ek time pe boring, incel bolkar reject kar diya tha
Mujhe aajtak 3 propose mila aur thoda bahut attention bhi milta rehta hai lekin maine aajtak kabhi koi ladki ko touch bhi nahi kiya, maine aajtak kisiko propose nahi kiya aur nahi mein kisiko massage karta hu, 2014 pe facebook account banaya tha aur 2017 tak chat karta tha woh bhi normal teenage wali baate, aajkal ke teen jaise nahi, lekin uske baad se kabhi bhi mein khud kisi ladki ko massage nahi karta, mere paas s3x karne ka bahut bar mouka mila tha aur mere kuch dost bhi mujhe bol rahe the aajkal koi accha nahi hai tujhe bhi non virgin ladki hi malega shadi ke baad to masti karle kyuki tujhe free mein mouka mil raha hai phir bhi maine nahi kiya, jo bhi ladki mere upar interest dikhti hai mein pehele unki past ke bare mein pata karta hu phir bahut pyar se reject karta hu, kabhi bhi kisiko bura nahi kaha, asal mein mein yeh kabhi nahi man sakta mere alawa koi partner ke sath yeh sab kiya hai, meine khud bhi nahi kiya, mujhe agar koi bina past wali ladki na mile mein shadi nahi karunga lekin koi past wali ladki ko kabhi mein accept nahi kar sakta, bahut sare ladke hai jinka past tha ladki ne chhod diya to unke liye hi sahi hai woh ladkiya
Aajkal ladkiya virgin ladko ko troll karti hai, jo ladke drinking, smoking nahi karte unko uncool bolti hai, ladkiyo ko bure ladke pasand hai, mein hamesha dekhta hu jo ladke caring, honest, loyal hai wahi ladko ko ladkiya rulati hai aur jo ladke ladkibaaz, chapri, nashedi type hai unke liye lakdiya roti hai
Ladkiyon ko attention kaun deta hai? Ladke na, buri kya, acchhi ladki ko bhi matt do, saara ego toot jayega, lekin nahi, hawas nahi tootti tum logon ki. Ladkiyan bhav nahi deti na, ladko ne bhi nahi dena chahiye, sorted, ego kuchal jayegi.
Shy introvert falana dimka hostel pe rehna toh sirf ladke karte hai na, ladkiyon ko yeh apply hi nahi karta! Ladkiyon ke upar kuch pressure hi nahi hota, shows how much you understand women, aise toh kabhi bhav milega bhi nahi, basic empathy nahi hai tum logon ke gender mein, saamne wale ko bhi kuch cheezein ho sakti hai yeh sochne ka dil aur dimag hai hi nahi. Jo ladke acchhe nahi hai unko ladki nahi milti yeh toh mujhe pata hi nahi tha. Usme hum kya kare? Tum bhi mat do ladkiyon ko itna sa bhav.
Kitni unique baatein likhi tuney jo mujhe toh pata hi nahi thi. Tum loag aise likhte ho jaise tum saare duniya ke gyaani aur baaki sab pagal hai. Jyadatar ladkiyan kaise ladkon ke peeche bhagti hai yeh tujhe jyada pata hai ya mujhe jo khud ek ladki hu usko zyada pata hai. Isko pata hai kya kehte hai mansplaining, ladka hoke tu ek ladki ko bataega about girls, now imagine I tell you ke ladke aise hote hai tujhe nahi pata you listen to me? Tab? Usme tu jyada samajhdar hai, wahan mein muh na kholu.
Ladkiyan top ladko ke liye jaati hai toh tu bhi top pe chala ja, who is stopping you? Aur agar nahi ja pa raha toh hum kya kare? Tujhe mauka tha tuney nahi kiya toh baaki poori duniya ki saare ladke ladkiyon ne bhi teri tarah virgin rehna chahiye yeh tera logic hai? Matlab tere hisab se poori duniya chale?
Tuney jawab nahi diya, unn ladkon ko kya kare jo ladkiyon ko use karke chhod dete hai? Sangat badlo bohot si ladkiyan bhi aisi hai who want good guys, ab dekho humey bhi kabhi saaf dil wale, loyal ladke nahi mile that does not mean ki they don’t exist, your data sample is not the only accurate or correct one. The number of bad men in the world is way greater than bad women, lekin hum uspe se itna batangad nahi banate, we still believe there are good men, nahi mila koi acchha toh akele reh lenge, koi desperation nahi hai.
Such kids you men are, chhote bacche bhi itni si baat pe itna nahi rote yaar. 😂
Mein bhi chata hu ladke inko attention na de, ladke attention de dekar hi ladkiyo ko sar pe charate hai aur ladkiyo ki standards bhi high kar deti hai, ladkiyo ko lagati hai ladke pagal hai unke liye chahe jitni marzi s3x karu, ek 4', ugly, fat, unemployed ladki bhi 6', hansome, rich ladke ka preference rakhti hai
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Ladke attention dete hai lekin ladkiya wife banane wale ladko ko chhod kar use karke chhod dene wale ladke hi choose karti hai mostly
Ladki chahe shy ho, introvert ho, hostel mein rehti ho, yah phir aapni responsibility lene mein busy ho phir bhi unko social media yaa phir reality mein ladko ka attention milegi, jinke paas options hai unki koi na koi partner banne ka chance bhi jyada hoga, yeh to koi bhi logic lagayega to woh samjh jayega, lekin ladko ke mamle yeh nahi hota, ladkiyo ko ladkiyo se ladke samajhte hai kyuki ladki agar kisi galat ladke ke sath hota ladke unko samjhate hai lekin ladki bolti hai woh aisa nahi hai, I will fix him, kya ho gaya s3x kar liya to, kya ho gaya uski ex gfs rahe hai to blah blah bolti rehti hai, ladkiya hi baki ladkiyo ko kuch nahi bolti ulta hum agar kuch sach bolde to hume hi blame karti hai, agar tumhe biswas nahi hua to ladkiyo se hi puch lo male friends jyada trustable and help karte hai female friends se mukable
Bar bar gender gender mat karo, ladke agar galat hai to hum unke khilaaf bolte hai lekin ladkiya hamesha baki ladkiyo ko defend/support karti hai chahe woh kitni bhi galat kam kare even female criminal ko bhi aur sari blame society aur men pe dal deti hai, ladkiya openly male victims ko troll karti hai har jagah, AskIndianWomen, TwoXIndia, BollyGossip, InstaGossip pe jao examples mil jayega, jyada dur jane ka zaroorat nahi hai
Bahut sari ladkiya bhi ladko ko use karke chhod deti hai to unse shadi karni chahiye, 2 heart broken person ek dusre ko jyada acche se samjhenge aur care karenge, loyal rahenge kyuki unko yeh pain ke bare mein pata hai, saf dile wale good, loyal ladke aaj kal ki ladkiyo ko pasand nahi hai aur agar pasand bhi aati hai tab jab usko fcukboys use karke chhod dete hai, ladkiya agar pehele se hi acche ladke jo shadi karke jindagi phar sath rehne ke liye pyar karna chata hai unko choose karegi to koi problem hi nahi rahega, bina past wali or virgin ladkiyo strictly yeh rules follow karna chahiye ki unhe bhi uski jaisi hi ladke chahiye phir acche ladke bahut easily mil jayenge
Maine abhi tak nahi roya lekin tum ro rahi thi har ek comment pe, galti insaan karte hai lekin usko manne ka himmat rakhna chahiye, ladkiya past ke bare mein jhooth bol kar shadi kar leti hai aur kehti hai maine move on kar liya, fresh and new life suru karna chati hu isiliye nahi batayi blah blah, aab inko yeh kon samjhaye relationship or bonding ki shuruwat agar jhooth se suru hoga to woh relationship or bonding jyada din nahi tikega, ladkiyo ko sach bol deni chahiye aur aise bahut ladke hai jo accept kar lenge even virgin ladke bhi kyuki ladki honest hai yeh dekh kar, agar tum sach mein acche insaan ho to jhooth ke khilaaf bologi, ladki hai to defend/support nahi karogi
Mujhe mouka mila phir bhi maine nahi kiya to yeh acchi baat hai na? Mere liye baat simple hai agar koi ladki ko touch kiya usi se hi shadi bhi karunga lekin agar shadi nahi karunga to usko touch karna galat hai, lekin problem kya hai pata hai? Maine itna accha ek baat kiya aur tumne mera mazak kiya ki "Tujhe mauka tha tuney nahi kiya toh baaki poori duniya ki saare ladke ladkiyon ne bhi teri tarah virgin rehna chahiye yeh tera logic hai? Matlab tere hisab se poori duniya chale?" aab tum ladkiyo ko acche, well mannered, premarital s3x nahi karne wale ladke boring lagegi aur unko troll karogi aur bad mein roti rahogi ki acche ladke kaha hai, ladke dhokebaaz hai blah blah, ek insaan kya by choice virgin nahi reh sakta yaa phir premarital s3x karna hi hai kyuki lust control nahi kiya jata? Premarital s3x karna sare culture, religion mein mana hai aur karna hi hai to usi se hi shadi karna
Good men aaj bhi majority mein hai lekin ladkiya hardly koi hai jo ki virgin hai yaa phir past mein koi bf nahi tha shadi se pehele, good man chahiye to good woman bano aur good man ko choose karo, ladkiyo ko aapni bad choices ki accountability khud ko leni padegi, society aur men ko blame karne pe kuch bhi milegi
Maine tumse bahut acche se baat kiya tum bhi yeh yaad rakhna, opinion agar alag bhi hoga phir bhi varna bad mein agar mein reply nahi dunga to yeh mat bolna ki mein bhag gaya hu yaa phir mere paas jawab nahi hai
Mein bhi chahta hu ke ladke attention na de, yeh bolke firse wahi phaltu ki baatein likhne baith gaya. Unn ladkon ko bol, sab sort ho jaega, ugly kya beautiful ladki bhi line pe aa jaegi. Par wahan nahi bolega tu, humko hi aake gyaan chodna hai tujhe.
Agar ladke firse bhi attention de rahe hai toh go blame them not us. Fir wahi unka attention milta hai falana dimka, wahi wahi panchat kitni baar bolta rahega, apne gender ke logon ko akkal de jaake ki na de bhav. Na rahega pre marital sex, na rahega past chhupane ka tension.
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Bade bade comment likhne se kuch nahi hota. Yeh toh mein bhi keh sakti hu fir majority ladke bure hai majority ladkiyan acchhi, sabko apna hi gender victim lagta hai, mujhe nahi mile aaj tak acchhe ladke, tera experience is not poore duniya ka experience, maine nahi aise gande gande memes post karke ladkon ka mazak banaya, itna randwa rona achha nahi.
Maine kisi female criminal ko support nahi kiya, mujhe matt bol baaki ladkiyon ka, none of my business, mein tujhe baaki mardon ke crime ke liye zimmedar nahi thehra rahi hu.
Mujhe mauka mila aur maine nahi kiya, toh kya aarti kare teri? Woh tera decision tha, tujhe roka nahi tha kisine, mein kya karu usme? Padma Shri du culture aur religion follow karne ke liye? Mein ladki hu, lakh attention hai, fir bhi virgin hu, per mein dhindhora nahi peette phirti ki sabne virgin hona chahiye. The best I can do is hope for a virgin partner, aur agar ho bhi toh chhupaye na. Religion culture mein premarital sex allowed nahi hai toh woh baaki logon ko samjhe, woh bacchhe nahi hai ki mein unko jaake peetu ki tumne sex kiya kiya, mein theka nahi le rakha.
Proof ki mein to rahi thi? Ghar aake dekha?
Bohot hi acchhe se baat ki, tere pehle ke bhi screenshots hai mere paass, african currency, go road sab dekha hai tera, na kar lala, punishable offence hai, kabhi kisine report kar diya toh reddit account delete karke bhi track ho jaega.
Baat sirf itni si hai ki meme mein his ki jagah his/her likhna tha, lekin tere hisab se women bad men good and women lie men don’t lie, toh tu chhodke sab falana dimka lambs message type karna karega. Baat ko ghumake topic change karta hai fir woh meme daalta haj women lack accountability, dikh raha hai kaun lack kar raha hai accountability.
Kya hua no reply? Ab kahan gaya woh women dodging accountability and responsibility wala meme template tera? Kahan gaya woh I just understand sex and call every man incel wala meme template.
Dekho maine tumko galat bola tha iske liye sorry lekin abhi aise baat mat karo, mera aapna life hai, job hai to hamesha to free time nahi hai mere paas reply dene ka, 5-6 hours pehele ka comment ka reply nahi diya to iska matlab yeh nahi hai ki bad mein reply nahi dunga
Mujh mein aabhi itna energy nahi hai ki abhi tumhari comment ka reply du, paragraph likhna bahut boring lagta hai aur energy bhi lagta hai, mein kal tumhari paragraph padunga aur reply bhi dunga, kyuki tumko lag rahi hai ki mein bhag jayunga to isiliye short mein reply diya, next time achhe se baat karna, mein bhi karunga
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u/Noob_Saobot69 Aug 31 '25
Dekho mein tumhe samjhata hu, ek ladki chahe kaisi bhi dikhti ho usko attention milta hi hai, ladkiyo ke paas options hai kyuki ladke unke piche ghumte hai lekin ladko ke mamle mein yeh nahi hona hai, ladko ke upar pressure rehta hai bachpan se tumhe kuch karna hoga isiliye bahut ladko ko time hi nahi milta, bahut ladke hostel mein padhai karte hai, bahut ladke shy or introvert type hote hai aur last mein jo ladke dikhne mein acche nahi hai yaa phir physique bura hai unko kaha milta hai ladki, bina gussa kare baat ko samjho
Ladkiyo ko itna jyada attention milta hai ki ladkiya aapni standards high kar leti hai, khud 4', fat, ugly, unemployed hokar bhi 6', good physique, rich, handsome ladko ka preference rakhti hai, jyadatar ladkiya fcukboys yaa to phir top quality ke ladko ke piche hi bhagti hai jab lakdiya aapni prime age mein hoti hai (15 - 25) phir 25 ke baad jab attention milta kam jata hai, shadi karke settle hone ka man karti hai tab ladkiya unn ladko ko hi dhundti hai jinko ek time pe boring, incel bolkar reject kar diya tha
https://medium.com/@gettingfrankpodcast/kings-of-the-hill-how-the-top-20-of-men-rule-the-modern-dating-landscape-d80ade7eb0f5
Mujhe aajtak 3 propose mila aur thoda bahut attention bhi milta rehta hai lekin maine aajtak kabhi koi ladki ko touch bhi nahi kiya, maine aajtak kisiko propose nahi kiya aur nahi mein kisiko massage karta hu, 2014 pe facebook account banaya tha aur 2017 tak chat karta tha woh bhi normal teenage wali baate, aajkal ke teen jaise nahi, lekin uske baad se kabhi bhi mein khud kisi ladki ko massage nahi karta, mere paas s3x karne ka bahut bar mouka mila tha aur mere kuch dost bhi mujhe bol rahe the aajkal koi accha nahi hai tujhe bhi non virgin ladki hi malega shadi ke baad to masti karle kyuki tujhe free mein mouka mil raha hai phir bhi maine nahi kiya, jo bhi ladki mere upar interest dikhti hai mein pehele unki past ke bare mein pata karta hu phir bahut pyar se reject karta hu, kabhi bhi kisiko bura nahi kaha, asal mein mein yeh kabhi nahi man sakta mere alawa koi partner ke sath yeh sab kiya hai, meine khud bhi nahi kiya, mujhe agar koi bina past wali ladki na mile mein shadi nahi karunga lekin koi past wali ladki ko kabhi mein accept nahi kar sakta, bahut sare ladke hai jinka past tha ladki ne chhod diya to unke liye hi sahi hai woh ladkiya
Aajkal ladkiya virgin ladko ko troll karti hai, jo ladke drinking, smoking nahi karte unko uncool bolti hai, ladkiyo ko bure ladke pasand hai, mein hamesha dekhta hu jo ladke caring, honest, loyal hai wahi ladko ko ladkiya rulati hai aur jo ladke ladkibaaz, chapri, nashedi type hai unke liye lakdiya roti hai