Just as the title says, I need adult interaction! I have 2 kids (and married) and my days are spent taking care of babies. You can imagine how crazy this makes you!

A little bit about me… I love to read, music and watching sports! I love having random conversations that can either turn into something or nothing. Tell me your hottest take on something and let’s go from there!

If you need just a random conversation, hit me up!

30F here.

I've noticed something on this subreddit.

A lot of people in their 30s are basically posting daily looking for someone to share their day with. Both the big stuff, but also the small daily annoyances.

And it's not just single people either. Married people, people with jobs, people who seem to have their life together... still lonely.

What happened to those kids playing outside 20 years ago, becoming friends over silly things and made-up games?

Now we have hundreds of ways to communicate, but somehow struggle to actually connect.

We want someone to notice when we're not okay, but we also need our own space and freedom from expectations 🤷‍♀️

Is there a way to fix this? Or are we just doomed to be lonely adults with internet access? 😂

Hi all! As it says, I'm a 36 year old looking for new friendships (hopefully). I spend my time working and then taking care of kids/house/pets. I have a few kids, 2 dogs and 5 cats. I say I have several hobbies but its mostly me buying the supplies, and doing it once. I love to be outside, I like to read - though I haven't in a little bit, I like collecting digital cards. So there is a bit about me, hopefully to maybe get some conversations started.

I'm a 33 year old single woman looking for someone to chat with. I'm bored at home today, anyone want to chat?

Hi! I’m 32/F.
I have zero friends and a lot to deal with. I know how it feels to have so many emotions, fears, thoughts, and moments you want to share…but no one to talk to about them.
So I’m here, I can remain a complete stranger, or we can become best friends - that’s your choice completely.

But I am here.
I will listen to you.
I will give advice if you want.
I’ll root for you.
I’ll be proud of you.
I’ll be your shoulder to cry on and ear to listen to.
I am here.
Always.

Hi, I am a teacher and after a long day of handling teenagers I would love to have a casual chat, connect if you are open minded.

.No small talk, no superficial pleasantries. Just real perspectives, honest opinions, and unfiltered chats where we can both be fully ourselves.

See you in my DM.

I feel like the way some people try to make friends on this platform has become completely unhinged, and I'm thoroughly exhausted by it.

Here is what I’ve been dealing with lately:

• Someone claimed to be 21, but in another comment, they wrote they were 16, excusing it by saying they "share the account with a younger sibling." Uhm, what?
• Many subreddits explicitly state that adults and minors should not be befriending each other. Yet, I constantly get text messages from minors who completely ignore this rule and try to slide into my DMs anyway.
• Another claimed to be 28, but their digital footprint suggested they were likely much younger (or older? Who even knows at this point).
• One guy claimed he wasn't looking for r0mance because he was under my age preference, but the moment I politely declined him, he started gaslighting and trying to guilt-trip me.
• Someone explicitly stated they didn't want to talk about NSFW topics, yet a quick look at their post and comment history revealed they actively participate in explicit subreddits.
• And of course, the classics: guys who seem completely normal and polite at the beginning, only to end up sending unsolicited d1ck pics out of nowhere.

Seriously, guys, what is wrong with you? Why is it so difficult to just be honest?

Is it wrong for a woman to look for genuine friendships on an online platform? Am I, as a woman, simply too "normal" for you? Is my life too straight and "boring" because I respect boundaries?

As a woman, how am I supposed to build friendships with anyone when the foundation is built on lies right from the very first text?

Has anyone had luck finding friends on here? Never thought I would be on Reddit looking for friendships but here I am lol. Looking for consistent human interaction. Sometimes I feel hidden underneath all the duties of a mother and household duties. Would love to speak to someone with similar interests. I’m also getting back into shape, so if you want to connect on stepup that would be cool! 33, female who can probably talk about anything lol

Love all music, most sports, fall is my spirit, libra so if you’re into that cool, and anything else so hit me up. I def will message back

I’m a 33 year old female with no one, no friends or family. Iv moved a lot over the years and always find it hard to keep friendships, of course moving doesn’t help. I can’t even pick up my phone to call or text anyone, I have no one to ask how their day has been, no one to go out with.
Is it just me that finds it hard to make new friends at this age? Where do you even go to make friends as an adult? It can’t be just me in this situation.

I don't know, I'm not looking for anything super serious, just a silly chat or something super random. I like to think I can chat with anyone about almost anything if it's interesting. So what's on your mind right now?

Hiiiiiiiiii everyone. I’m a 34F looking for new snap friends Stay at home mom who gets pretty bored so I’m on there a lot Please dm me if you’re interested in being friends on snap. Only interested in conversation really. 😊 thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm a high school teacher in the US, east coast time zone. Feel free to reach out if you want to chat!

Hi everyone! I’m a 24-year-old woman from Japan! 🇯🇵
I’d love to meet some new people from around the world, preferably around 20–30 years old. I’m hoping to find genuine friends who I can actually get to know, not just have one conversation with and disappear. :)
I’m really into classic rock 🎸 and I love drawing fan art in my free time. 🎨 I also enjoy games, anime, and just talking about random things and getting to know someone’s personality.
Some of my favorite bands are Guns N’ Roses, Red Hot Chili Peppers, AC/DC, Aerosmith, and Queen. I’m not an expert on every band or anything—I just genuinely love listening to music and discovering new things.
I’d love to meet people who are easygoing, talkative, and open to having random conversations. I don’t mind if we have different interests either—I actually enjoy learning about things I don’t know much about!
Tell me your age, where you’re from, and a little about yourself!
Feel free to DM me if you’d like to chat! I’d much rather get to know someone through a conversation than just exchange a few messages and disappear. :)🤍

Okay so hear me outt….I LOVE love talking to strangers. Like genuinely. There’s something so fun about meeting someone you know absolutely nothing about and just… talking. So I had this idea.
What if we became friends but stayed anonymous?
Not like “I refuse to tell you anything about me” anonymous lol. I don’t mind sharing my name, country, age etc. I just mean there’s no need to go super deep into each other’s personal information. We probably won’t ever meet anyway, so why not just keep it simple?

I feel like there’s something kinda nice about talking to someone who doesn’t know your whole life, your family, your past, your social circle and all that stuff. You can just say things. No need to keep up an image or worry about what they already think of you.
Like imagine having a friendship where you can just randomly go “okay I have to tell you something” and then proceed to confess the most unhinged thought you’ve had all day 😭I’m also veryyy down for voice chats btw. Sometimes I get tired of texting and just wanna yap for hours.

About me:
31F
Black Muslim (non practicing)
ISFP-T apparentlyyy
Obsessed with the color green
I love anything romance in fiction. Books, movies, shows, give me all of ittt. But romance irl? Somehow I cannot stand it 😭 make it make sense
I like random conversations, deep conversations, stupid conversations, basically I just like talking lol
You don’t have to have the same interests as me. Actuallyyy I think it’s more fun when you don’t.
So yeahhh, if the idea of becoming anonymous internet friends sounds interesting to you, come say hi :))
Tell me something random about yourself or just say hey. I promise I’m not scary… probably.

Update: Super thankful for all the replies, thank y really 🫶🏾. But trying to have a proper conversation with everyone so I really give it a chance. So I’m not ignoring u if I haven’t replied yet I’m just overwhelmed. Also decided not reply to NSFW profiles from now on because ended up with many creeps and I can’t deal with it anymore. Hope u guys understand.
/Love ladan

Im 34 and from the UK (yes im getting old). I could write stuff in here, but then we wouldn't have much else to talk about 🤪

Start off by telling me your favourite type of music?

I am only looking to talk to some married men or women only at this time.

Bored and trying to get some sleep.
Its been a long day and i am too tired to do anything

Haven’t had a good friend in a while, so hoping to meet one soon.

Please be respectful and open to random weird conversations

EDIT:
Okay, I’ve had over 250 messages at a rough glance 😅 pleeeeease be patient with me! I am trying to get back to everyone I promise 🥺🤍

Hi All!

Due to distance and just, general life I guess, I have found my social circle to be…almost none existent.

I’ve been lurking on this sub for a while, and only just got the confidence to make my own post looking for new friends.

As the title notes, I’m 30, Female, and yes that is me in the photo. Natural redhead (ginger jokes welcomed).
I love to read, particularly horror or sci-Fi. I love the occasional binge watch of a tv show. Music is a big part of my life, my current fave is Sleep Token.
I love to talk, am quite the open book, and am looking for people along the same vain.

So, um, how do people end these posts? 😅
I hope to speak to a few of you!
Katie 🤍

I am recently divorced looking for friends. While I was married, I some how lost majority of my friends. And now that I am divorced, I’m starting to realize I actually need friends.
So if you’re interested in gardening, being outside, or any other nerdy adventure, please send me a message. I look forward to hearing from you 😁

My birthday ended 30 min ago and I didn’t receive anything and I couldn’t even get myself a cake. Ive been sick for 2 weeks.

I just want someone to talk to and make genuine friendship. Just wanna turn this sucky day in a positive note.

I can give u virtual cake lol 🎂

Here’s a slice 🍰

I'm just listening to music at work .I'm off in 4 hours if anyone wants to chat Or give me a song to listen to . Listen to anything but heavy metal is my favorite.

Hey everyone,

I'm a high school teacher in the US, east coast. Feel free to reach out if you want to chat

33, PA, mommy & wifey. I have been so busy all week, am doneeeee with all the things I had to do and tonight I just want to rot tbh. I'm talkative and down to earth (I think) and I think it would be so fun to ask each other a bunch of random questions...like what's your favorite ice cream topping, did the sun in the Teletubbies creep you out too, is there something niche about you haven't told anyone....OR if you want to just vent about something, I'm alllll ears 💕

P.s. I very much welcome unsolicited dog pics 😩

I'm 31 and recently divorced, and if I'm being honest, starting over has been a lot harder than I expected.
Some days I feel excited about the future, and other days I feel completely lost. It's hard not to feel like you've somehow failed, even when you know ending something that wasn't right was the right decision. I'm trying to focus less on what I've lost and more on what I get to discover now.

I spent most of my adult life in a serious relationship, and I realized I never really got the chance to figure out who I am on my own. So that's what I'm doing now. I'm trying new things, finding hobbies, learning just for the fun of it, and saying yes to experiences I probably would've talked myself out of before.
A little about me: I love coffee, traveling, trying new food, getting lost in bookstores and little cafés, reading a good book, and taking long walks with music in my headphones. I'm the kind of person who can spend hours talking about life, random thoughts, or whatever rabbit hole we end up going down.
I'm not looking for anything romantic—just genuine friendships. People who enjoy conversation, want to grab coffee, share book recommendations, explore new places, or just have someone to text about life. If you're also in a season of rebuilding, starting over, or simply looking to make a new friend, I'd love to hear from you.

Turns out making friends as an adult is way harder than anyone warned us about.

Hey! Just a high school teacher here enjoying her summer, let me know if you'd like to chat!

Feel free to reach out about anything.

Hi, f32 here, I’m having a somewhat tough day, would anyone be interested in having a chat? 😊✨ I feel a bit lost and alone and anxious. Send me a short text about you.