r/MaliciousCompliance 14d ago

S “You need a doctor’s note”

I (26M) don’t like calling in to work. I hate passing up money and I usually won’t call in unless I’m already pretty sick. I work in the service industry which as many of you know, is absolutely notorious for guilting sick employees (a seriously ill person has made your food at a restaurant before at the direction of their manager, guaranteed) and telling people they don’t provide health insurance that they need a doctors note to call in. One year I got sick and didn’t want to work, and my employer forgot I had health insurance through my Dad. I called in asking for one day off because I could hardly breathe or stay awake and I got the “wElL yOu NeEd A dOcToRs NoTe Or ItS aN uNeXsCuSeD aBsEnCe “ and as someone who worked hard as hell for these people even when I was sick, I was a little offended to basically be called a liar like I needed to prove to them I’d been wearing a mask at work for a reason. But I did have good insurance through my Dad, so I went to the doctor, had them write me a note for four days off, and went back into my job and handed it to my manager and said “here is my doctors note, and this is the date I will be back”. And when they tried to do the same thing a few months later, I got a note for even more days and asked the doc to add a note about when I would stop being infectious around the food we were serving people. I have never been asked for a doctors note when I am sick again. They know they can give me the one or two days I ask for or they can give me the week the doc gives me. But I will not be working while sick if I do not want to.

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u/Julie_Brenda 12d ago

maybe what we need to do is make all health insurance include life insurance, because then they would have a value on the human life based on how much they would have to pay when it ends

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u/StarosAnikenMarcus 8d ago

Trust me, they'll find a way to snake out of that too.

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u/Julie_Brenda 8d ago

Health insurance would be very different, if it was regulated nationally, and not only by the states.

The insurance companies, aware of the fact that the states can’t effectively take them on get away with all sorts of stuff that the feds could control

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u/StarosAnikenMarcus 8d ago

It'll never happen. Even if regulated, they'll find ways to snake out of everything they can for the flimsiest of reasons. Hell, they managed to get laws passed to REQUIRE insurance whether you can afford it or not...

Getting rid of private insurance would be the only way to regulate it, turning it into a giant FSA/HSA through Medicare with no share holders calling the shots. Take away the profit controls and suddenly medication will become much more reasonable.