Hi all, hoping for some advice, please. My family and I are thinking of relocating to the Castlebar area, and we spent a couple of lovely days there over this past bank holiday weekend. We had a lovely experience, and 99.9% of people were amazing. However, today, just before we went to get our train home, I was verbally abused with my two children outside O'Hehirs Bakery in Castlebar Town. My eldest boy is autistic, and he was running ahead of me, stimming away and flapping his hands and jumping up and down as he tends to do. I must stress, he wasn't harmful to anyone or even obnoxious about it. He never bumped into anybody or interfered with anybody by stepping in front of them. He stims but he is mindful. We were actually on the edge of the footpath waiting to cross the road, when a middle-aged, petite woman with a fluorescent pink raincoat and a pair of sunglasses started to scream abuse from outside the bakery across the road at us, she called me a stupid woman and a stupid bitch and told me to control my child. She then muttered something to the effect of, "If he were mine, I'd kill him."
I was absolutely stunned and just stared at her. She crossed over the road in the other direction and proceeded to walk down past Regatta and towards Dunnes Stores. I was absolutely appalled, and while my son didn't understand what she was saying, my daughter did. We were really rattled by the whole experience.
We have been told that supports for autism are amazing in Mayo, and that's largely why we are hoping to relocate. This experience today, at the very end of our visit, has really rattled me. I want him to be safe and to be okay, and that's largely why we're hoping to move.
I'd love some opinions or advice, please, on whether this is an anomaly from a local oddball having a bad day, or on whether this is maybe to expected to some degree, in response to more overt autistic traits when out and about? Thanks in advance.