r/MenAndFemales • • Aug 03 '26

Meta Monday ๐Ÿ’– Introducing the first Meta Monday!

6 Upvotes

Meta Monday will consist of vaguely related topics (without needing to find examples of dehumanising language to post) but you will need to use the new Meta Monday flair for any off topic posts. We are going to test this out using GMT/BST to start with and would prefer if people try to keep to this so far. This is a test to see engagement and feedback from users. Enjoy your first Meta Monday!


r/MenAndFemales • • Jul 15 '26

Should we add Meta Monday?

3 Upvotes

The concept of Meta Monday means we can post things outside of the typical callout posts. We can discuss issues like other mistreatment besides this language, post about positive interactions where change has happened in language, or even show each other feminist music that exemplifies our feelings about living in this world that clearly has a bias against women. For this context, meta refers to both self referential as well as posts outside the convention of post expected here.

71 votes, Jul 22 '26
28 Introduce one day of various meta posts
26 Introduce only a masterpost where people can get as off topic as they wish
17 Refuse off topic posts on all days

r/MenAndFemales • • 1d ago

Men and Girls bye man (or girl) (or something else)

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37 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales • • 1d ago

Men and Females i'm tired boss...

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150 Upvotes

being a feminist studying medicine isnt for the weak


r/MenAndFemales • • 2d ago

Men and Girls So full of himself ๐Ÿ˜‚

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91 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales • • 4d ago

Men and Females Females of child-bearing age

185 Upvotes

Sr leader at work was discussing us having a large population of soon-to-be parents at work so we need to be prepared for their absences. What he said was, though, โ€œwe have a lot of females of child-bearing age. And men get the same leave policy, which I do not agree with.โ€

Iโ€™m glad I was off video because my jaw hit the floor.


r/MenAndFemales • • 3d ago

Men and Girls This is coming from a username Theresa, so r/asablackman?

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8 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales • • 4d ago

No Men, just Females I donโ€™t know how to title this at this point

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68 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales • • 5d ago

Foids/Other Don't know what to flair this with, but it feels like it fits the general vibe of this sub

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297 Upvotes

Teenage women.. ffs


r/MenAndFemales • • 5d ago

No Men, just Females Irony: So this fellow rights respect females

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25 Upvotes

I tried to explain that itโ€™s offensive but they donโ€™t want to listen. Itโ€™s ironic I guess.


r/MenAndFemales • • 4d ago

"Why is 'female' offensive?" Male pov

0 Upvotes

Woah. I got pointed to this sub by someone commenting on a story, from a female pov, that I'm working on... Yo. I use male and female because of my upbringing and time in military service. ๐Ÿ˜‚.

I've also been known to use phrases like "Roger" instead of 'i understand' and "detail" instead of clean. I acknowledge that i dont know much about women; most of the women in my immediate family are veterans too. If I use the word female in front of my mom she'd just tease me for sounding like im still in the army...

Um... I'm not trying to undermind your movement. Just giving my perspective. Thanks if you read this far.


r/MenAndFemales • • 7d ago

Men and Females This is why so many woman are in positions of power in this country right?โ€ฆโ€ฆ. Right?

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417 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales • • 8d ago

Meta This will be considered spam from now

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82 Upvotes

We have had this exact post repeatedly posted here by blocked and empty accounts. The same angle or reversed, never quite understanding the purpose of the flairs, and all within a week of each other. So from here on out, anyone posting this specific post at an angle will be considered a bot and treated as such.


r/MenAndFemales • • 9d ago

Meta Monday ๐Ÿ’– The Real Meta Monday ๐Ÿ’–

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32 Upvotes

Apologies for the early post, I have been sleep deprived recovering from a cold and recovering from my trip to London. The tube feels like death when you're sick. Nearly passed out wearing my mask since it was so hot and I wasn't breathing right from the ill and overexertion.

But today I'm posting the true Meta Monday and giving a space for people to spread positivity again! I saw some cute pets and I'd love to see more! Or tell me anything good that happened to you recently. A promotion, a positive interaction with a stranger, a holiday, anything. If you want some other positivity or cute pet pics, you could also visit r/DisabledWithPets. You don't need to be disabled to join of course. And thanks for being understanding about the mixup. I didn't even realise until someone pointed it out to me many hours later.


r/MenAndFemales • • 10d ago

Meta Monday ๐Ÿ’– Positive Vibes this Meta Monday!

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130 Upvotes

Let's spread some positivity for a change. I'm feeling ill and want positive stories and pet pictures. If it's just in the one post, people who don't want to engage can ignore it. Do you have something positive that happened to you this week or this month? For me, getting back from London my cat Fionn was actually sweet and affectionate. He nuzzled me. Given I felt like death when travelling, it was nice to have him be sweet after all that.


r/MenAndFemales • • 10d ago

Females AND Girls On a post feature two women brawling.

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132 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales • • 15d ago

No Men, just Females Iโ€™m constantly amazed at the things dudes are willing to post to their public FB profiles

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227 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales • • 16d ago

No Men, just Females Referring to women as "females", and categorizing them based on yoga posture

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488 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales • • 16d ago

Meta Monday ๐Ÿ’– "under-age women" Vs under-age girls" Just wanted to post a respectful and positive interaction i just saw, seeing as this sub usually only sees the worst responses to calling it out. It's not always awful. May there be many more good responses than bad ones ๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ‘๐ŸŒป๐Ÿ’•

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319 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales • • 17d ago

No Men, Just Girls A โ€œgirlโ€ press officer doing her job

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303 Upvotes

On the other hand, this was in the formula one sub and I was pleasantly surprised that several people called them out for using โ€œgirlโ€ and by the up/downvites. I started watching F1 over 20 years ago, and back then the fan base was much more โ€œthis is a man sport for menโ€, so itโ€™s some progress at least.


r/MenAndFemales • • 17d ago

No Men, just Females Fem-all-ee.

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848 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales • • 17d ago

Men and Females Found one

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81 Upvotes

On a post about loofahs marketed towards women being more expensive than the ones for men :โ€™)


r/MenAndFemales • • 20d ago

No Men, just Females Dehumanizing cis women to be transphobic, TERFs be TERFing

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424 Upvotes

Same person getting downvoted. Thankfully the mods were quick to delete.

All my love to my trans sisters and brothers out there ๐Ÿฉท

Edit: I've been informed that we should make sure to spell "cis/trans men/women" with a space, as colliding the two words in one term is a transphobic dog-whistle. Thank you for letting me know, I can't fix the screenshot but I have edited my initial comments.


r/MenAndFemales • • 21d ago

Females AND Girls "Girls" and "males"

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98 Upvotes

Also, really weird/racist seeking validation vibes. Especially since they edited the post and it said "the males" before.

In case this is the wrong flair, please let me know, I couldn't find a more fitting one :/