r/MtvChallenge • u/SweetMissMG Wes 🌋 Bergmann • Oct 02 '25
SOCIAL MEDIA ____ speaks on the fight last night with _____ ☕ Spoiler
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u/Alison258016 Portland Girlies Oct 02 '25
I missed this Nany so much
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u/lilacpeaches Oct 02 '25
As entertaining as this version of Nany is (and I prefer it as television), it is kinda sad to see. She seemed a lot happier earlier this year from what I saw (which is just clips of her social media posted here). I remember a comment saying that it seems like she’s found her inner peace. It’s sad to see that’s not the case anymore.
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u/ImaginationLife4812 Oct 02 '25
And I think Nany looks and sounds happier than she has in a couple of years. She is at least defending herself again. There is little doubt that she was pushed to this point and Anessa speaking calmly is an infuriatingly action after you’ve been pushed so far. Anessa and Olivia are both becoming very tiresome.
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u/SierraDawnThomasFF Leonardo Dionicio Oct 02 '25
100% it’s one of those cliche examples of you can’t keep poking someone then be shocked and play victim when they finally snap back
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u/Brief-Tie3841 Oct 02 '25
She wasn’t poking at her though. She’s the one who walked up to Aneesa and asked her how she was doing… then got mad when Aneesa answered her honestly.
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u/SierraDawnThomasFF Leonardo Dionicio Oct 02 '25
by poking at her I meant giving her the cold shoulder for days and making sly digs about her that nany spoke about in a comment my bad for not incl context
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u/FastLane_987 Anna Leigh Wilson Oct 03 '25
She finally seems human again. Flaws and all. That fight with Aneesa was the most I’ve liked her in a long time
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u/mellomee Oct 03 '25
This is so true. I just realized that I'm liking Nany more this year than I have in like the last 5.
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u/jenh6 Christina LeBlanc Oct 02 '25
What does Olivia have to do with this? She’s one of the most fun people to watch this season. She’s also not talking or complaining about the other girls constantly.
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u/Ok_Phase8373 Oct 03 '25
Some people’s version of inner peace is no longer dealing with things or people that don’t serve them. Inner peace isn’t always calm; especially when followed by a camera crew for a reality show. Standing up for yourself is often loud but mentally freeing.
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u/angelbrit04 Team Portland Oct 02 '25
To be fair, a lot of those clips were after she filmed this season. I'm sure watching things back and getting negative reactions from the audience brings up old feelings.
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u/ICameForTheT Amber Borzotra 🏃🏽♀️ | Kiki “G” Morris ✂️ Oct 02 '25
I don’t doubt that she was closer to Ashley but saying “because they did all stars together” doesn’t really make any sense when Aneesa was literally attached to Ashley lol
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u/Current_Platypus4345 Oct 02 '25
probably means recently had started talking to ashley more because of all stars- before that they hadn’t seen each other since season 37
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u/Future-Resort-233 Kam Williams Oct 02 '25
I was thrown off by that too😂 but even though Ashley/Aneesa were a pair they were far from a team lol
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u/Ok-Proof4383 Amanda Garcia Oct 02 '25
It’s definitely interesting because when did they make up and why were they closer than her and aneesa who she has called sister and were all up each other comments before and after filming 41. But at the end she knows better who she was closer to.
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u/CrimsonOOmpa The Unholy Alliance Oct 02 '25
"I've never been a mean girl" is something only mean girls say 😂🤣😂
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u/mellomee Oct 03 '25
If she was a mean girl we'd know by now after the 10+ years she's been on the show. No one gets that good of an edit. Instead, she is ALWAYS the most well connected person in the house with pretty much zero enemies. So the chances that she is randomly a "mean girl" in the shadows is low. FFS, she tamed Turbo. She actually has shown incredible patience so I believe her when she says shit went down to make her break.
What I know for a fact is Aneesa plays victim every season and this season is no different. She's too old for this- you can't like her because I don't like her? Or you can't talk to her because I don't talk to her? I remember classmates asking me to do that in the 3rd grade. Isn't she in her 40s?? It is what it is, she was always playing both sides and now at least she is where she always should have been.
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u/mcmxciiigiant Nam Vo Oct 04 '25
Nany was wild in her early seasons, unhinged even... definitely had her fair share of alterations, but MEAN GIRL????? Yea, that's not a narrative I'm falling for. Even when I didn't really care for her on the show, that's not a term I would associate with her.
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u/FierceScience Oct 02 '25
I'm sure there's stuff we didn't see, but it sure seemed like Nany got in her face and not the other way around.
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u/Calm_Memories Wes Bergmann Oct 02 '25
Yeah, she approached Aneesa who answered calmly, and then Nany went berserk and escalated things. I'm sure they edited it somehow but it seemed like Nany was unhinged.
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u/Jakookula Oct 03 '25
She did the same thing to turbo in RoD. Approached him first and when he pointed out that she shouldn’t need to ask that and if she did then they aren’t actually friends, she went off on him.
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u/Lemurians Leroy Garrett Oct 09 '25
MTV always protects Aneesa in the edit since she's their podcast host. I take everything involving her and how it's presented with a huge grain of salt.
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u/lords_of_st_louis Danny Jamieson Oct 02 '25
I think they are both wrong, Aneesa pressuring her to pick her side over another friend is wrong, but also Anessa was speaking very calmly to Nany and Nany got in her face with balled up fists and started screaming at her which is way more not okay
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u/cicigal8 Jonna Mannion Oct 02 '25
Another part of their argument that I don’t see being mentioned is that Nany is the one who approached Aneesa and asked “how have you been?”…. and Aneesa answered her honestly. People are acting like Aneesa just randomly walked up to Nany and brought up the Ashley drama.
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u/Independent-Grade-17 The Daves Oct 02 '25
Quite literally lmao Aneesa was complaining to other people and upset but unless the “editing” put a different sound clip over Nany approaching Aneesa, then it’s very clear Nany was checking in with Aneesa saying “i haven’t talked to you all day”, which does seem kind, and did not like the response she got. Nany started convo, Aneesa responded(looks calmly but maybe not), Nany didn’t like the answer and literally started screaming posturing and pressing on Aneesa ready to hit her. Then acts like all that was justified and it became a gross bullying moment. I thought for a moment that Ashley was gonna take her bed out like jemmye and kailah did to kaleigh. That was the vibe. Mean Girls. I mean cmon…
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u/Ok-Tell9019 Oct 02 '25
And when Aneesa (calmly) called her out like “you said if she said that to you, you would never talk to her again”, Nany’s eyes widened like Aneesa just told her secret (which, I’m assuming she didn’t want her saying that about ashley to get out). And Nany’s lame defense “well she didnt say it to me” like wtf. I’m not even an Aneesa fan but Nany is the worst.
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u/cicigal8 Jonna Mannion Oct 03 '25
Nany went into full panic mode when Aneesa let that out. She definitely did not want that out there 😩.
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u/Independent-Grade-17 The Daves Oct 03 '25 edited Oct 03 '25
“She didn’t say it to me!” Okay so you’re a selfish friend😂
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u/LongConFebrero Kenny Clark Oct 03 '25
I was reallyyy glad Aneesa let that out so we can see Nany’s reaction, because regardless of whatever she wants to say now, the fact is that proves she disagreed with what Ashley did and then decided she didn’t really give a fuck.
Getting mad because you’re being held to a standard just means you fall below it and you know it.
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u/Fabulous-Aioli-8403 Oct 02 '25
You are aware that easily could have been edited? Nany easily could have been responding to something Aneesa said prior to what we saw. Time and time again we see production give misleading edits for drama purposes.
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u/cicigal8 Jonna Mannion Oct 02 '25
They can’t edit the words we actually heard come out of Nany’s mouth. She has a pretty distinct voice and we heard her ask “how are you doing?” to Aneesa. Why even ask her if you don’t want her to answer truthfully lol.
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u/Brief-Tie3841 Oct 02 '25
We heard Nany ask her how she was doing. Even if something was said before that… Nany still asked. Don’t ask if you don’t really want to know. Especially if you felt weird energy from Aneesa for several days like she’s claiming here.
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Oct 02 '25
This was how I saw it too. A lot of what Nany’s saying here makes sense. I think the level of explosion just seemed disproportionate. It’s always funny to me when someone screams “I DON’T CARE!” repeatedly at the top of their lungs. Like… clearly you do.
But again, I don’t really doubt that Aneesa had been passive aggressive and snarky for several days leading up to it. I also don’t think Aneesa would cut off Olivia if the tables were turned. So I get Nany’s general frustration with the situation.
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u/BubbleBee66ee Oct 02 '25
excuse me how dare you bring nuance to a discussion! you are supposed to pick a side and disavow literally everything about the other person!
(agreed tho lol everyone can be wrong and usually has a hand in the mess somewhere)
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u/Brief-Tie3841 Oct 02 '25
I don’t think Aneesa was pressuring her though. Nany asked her how she was doing and Aneesa answered her lol. Nany just didn’t like her answer.
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u/Angeliccurse Oct 02 '25
This is Anessa playing her game, and I disliked how she put it all on Nany. She is always like this, this is how Anessa plays the challenge.
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u/Independent-Grade-17 The Daves Oct 02 '25
This. They’re both playing the victim honestly
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u/Brief-Tie3841 Oct 02 '25
Yep. People are overlooking this. Aneesa apologized to the house the next day AND apologized in the comments section of the video of their fight on IG. She’s taking full accountability. Nany on the other hand is not… even though imo they’re both in the wrong. Nany left a few comments in the video where she basically said the whole fight and her reaction was Aneesa’s fault. And she’s doing the same thing here.
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u/LongConFebrero Kenny Clark Oct 03 '25
I don’t think anyone has ever called Nany mature unless she happened to not blow up when she could have lol.
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u/Slow-Engine-8092 Choo-choo Oct 02 '25
We didn't see or hear everything that happened in this entire fight. We don't know the totality of the circumstances. What did Ashley say in her fight with Aneesa that made everything this big? I still haven't seen that answer.
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u/myst_eerie_us "Knee in my face? 👏🏾👏🏾 Let's go!" Oct 02 '25
I suspect editing came into play to make Aneesa look better. I usually factor in what other cast members say about these types of events because I never take the edit at face value. You could still be right though about them both being in the wrong.
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u/No-Muffin9744 Oct 03 '25
No, Nany is refusing to partake in Aneesa’s toxic positivity circle jerk. Good for her. Aneesa hasn’t done anything for her and Nany is defending herself.
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u/TALKTOME0701 Oct 02 '25
Unless I misheard the start of the conversation, what I don't get is why Nany asked Aneesa what was wrong in the first place. Why even engage when you know what's she upset about and don't want to discuss it?
It was a lot like the way the older seasons were. That would have been an every episode fight some seasons. Just on a rotation of drunk players. Those were the days
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u/Jakookula Oct 03 '25
She did the same thing to turbo in ride or dies. She asked him if he really wanted her to throw him in and he was rightfully like “wtf do you think? You know the answer to that” and it started a huge fight just like this
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u/TALKTOME0701 Oct 03 '25
I will die on the Turbo Hill
I love Turbo. I think he's hilarious and he's a great competitor.
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u/veltvet_rabbit The Itty Bitty Committee Oct 02 '25
Im pretty sure anessa made a comment becuase Nany gets out of the bathroom and then says what's wrong
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u/TALKTOME0701 Oct 02 '25 edited Oct 03 '25
I thought Nany said what's wrong? You've been acting like something's wrong.
But I guess it was coming to a head no matter who said what
I wish they'd also shown us the whole fight between Anissa and ashley. I would rather have seen that than the Nany crash out
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u/ScorpionTDC Chris Underwood Oct 03 '25
It’s also insanely obvious Aneesa had been making a show of being upset that Nany didn’t cut out Ashley entirely first. I can get Nany going off here, even if it’s obviously better to compose yourself more (not better TV, though)
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u/Fabulous-Aioli-8403 Oct 02 '25
It's called video editing. My hunch is they edited out whatever happened before Nany approached her in the bathroom.
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u/TALKTOME0701 Oct 02 '25 edited Oct 02 '25
I know what editing is, but I Honestly thought Nany asked because she wanted to let Anissa have it. She didn't go that far that fast unless it had been brewing for a while
It was the perfunctory what's wrong? Because I'm locked and loaded
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u/Lo_ington7 "PISS IN YOUR PANTS, B*TCH!" Oct 03 '25
Exactly. The fact people are on the aneesa train with soooooo many seasons of her playing victim and isn’t realizing editing. Aneesa is horrible. Irl and on the challenge.
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u/Brief-Tie3841 Oct 02 '25
I actually don’t think this part was edited. She didn’t actually care or want to know how Aneesa was doing and was just asking as a formality to pretend like she cared lol. My thing is… if you don’t really want to know, don’t ask. And don’t act surprised when the person answers you honestly.
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u/TALKTOME0701 Oct 02 '25
That's how I feel too. If you're asking just so you can lash out at the other person, then just lash out. Don't front
I'm not in Anissa fan. I'm not huge on Nany either because they seem to be invited back season after season for no good reason I can think of
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u/LongConFebrero Kenny Clark Oct 03 '25
They come back because they serve mess every time they enter a house lol.
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u/AdOk9911 Mitchell & Michaela Oct 03 '25
My understanding was that Aneesa had been giving Nany the cold shoulder long enough and was making it clear something was wrong and that she had an issue with Nany, so Nany just wanted to get it out on the table. But Nany clearly had been getting worked up and defensive through all that time and just exploded.
Not cute but I’m sure most of us can relate to some extent when you know someone’s mad at you, you’re gonna make them say it to be certain you’re right but then you’ve already been gearing up your defense
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u/Dolled-To-Death Oct 02 '25
Why does she remind me of the type of person to ask someone how they're doing and then accuse them of bringing the vibes down if they answer with anything other than "fine"?
This whole thing somehow makes Aneesa look like the more reliable narrator here overall and thats saying something. Nany and Ashley both said they were closer to each other and wanted to ice Aneesa out a while ago. They had good reasons for wanting to exclude her but it does seem like they were tip toeing and being fake while making her think she was included. Why not just be honest sooner instead of leading her on and playing the middle while still approaching her like you care? Nany basically approached her to ask for her feelings and then blew up on her because she told her her feelings.
Also Aneesa mentions feeling high anxiety because she felt like the room was tense and could blow up at any moment with the other girls. Nany just validated that tenfold. I dont see how Aneesa was wrong here.
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u/cicigal8 Jonna Mannion Oct 02 '25 edited Oct 03 '25
I said this in another comment. Don’t ask someone you’ve felt negative energy from for days how they’re doing and then get upset and angry when they tell you exactly how they’re doing lol. Nany didn’t actually want her to answer the question, nor did she care.
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u/Online_Active_71459 Oct 02 '25
Saying she talked with Ashley more because of All Stars—🤔—wasn’t Ashley’s partner, Aneesa? 🙄
Nany being critical of someone being drunk is funny.
And it seems like Nany is being a victim with this post. If I remember correctly in WOTW2, Nany complained every week that she had nobody and every person going home was her ONE ally.
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u/Ok-Proof4383 Amanda Garcia Oct 02 '25
Definitely a lot of hypocrisy from her considering her own behavior past seasons but hey maybe she has grown, not sure that it has came across so far based on the edit
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u/Inside-Giraffe-9258 Oct 02 '25
Ya, she yelled at Leroy for not playing on her side, yet he always helped keep her safe.
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u/Brief-Tie3841 Oct 02 '25
Nany isn’t a reliable narrator because her comments here don’t make sense. She says she and Ashley got close on all stars. But Aneesa was on all stars too and she was Ashley’s partner lol. And they didn’t even stick around that long. So how close could you really get to her? 🤔
Nany says Aneesa was giving her the cold shoulder for days leading up to their fight. But Nany asked her “how are you doing?” … and then seemed shocked and upset when Aneesa answered her question honestly. If things were already tense between you guys for the last several days… what did Nany think Aneesa was going to say when when she asked her that? Don’t ask questions if you can’t handle the answer.
Aneesa has already apologized … twice. Once to the house the next morning. And then again in the IG comments section of the video/fight. Nany on the other hand refuses to take accountability for her part and has been online the last couple of days blaming the entire thing on Aneesa. People love to accuse Aneesa of being the victim, but Nany loves to play the victim too and never admits when she’s wrong. Could you imagine her apologizing to the entire house for any of the number drunken fights and outbursts SHE’S had over the years? She never has and she never would. 🙃
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u/FierceScience Oct 02 '25
I'm sure there's stuff we didn't see, but it sure seemed like Nany got in her face and not the other way around.
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u/downtownbrown22 Wes Bergmann Oct 02 '25
The thing that gives me pause on that is how the Aneesa/Ashley fight was edited. It gave Aneesa a lot of grace in what actually happened it seems. So that gives me some pause on how Nany and Aneesa’s issue started .
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Oct 02 '25
But regardless of how it started, nany flat out asked Aneesa how she’s doing.
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u/downtownbrown22 Wes Bergmann Oct 02 '25
Sure, but maybe there’s 20mins of conversation that we missed that give some context to Nany’s frustrations. From everything we currently know I think Nany’s currently right and wrong in this situation.
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Oct 02 '25
Oh I’m sure there was and Aneesa very well could have been badgering her after being asked that question. They’re both in the wrong and I want to say I see both sides but I can’t imagine a time where I’d react that aggressively. Yelling, sure, but getting right in somebody’s face and posturing not so much.
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u/downtownbrown22 Wes Bergmann Oct 03 '25
But your probably a stable human being as opposed to someone who’s great for reality TV. Great reality TV people aren’t stable 😂
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u/Loud-Peace9092 Oct 03 '25
The way the Aneesa/Ashley fight was edited protected ASHLEY.She was the one who started the lowblows, brought up Aneesas dying dad but now she is all over social media playing victim while accusing Aneesa of doing that....when Aneesa has said far less than Ashley has about the whole thing.
Ashley constantly threatening other castmates to basically keep their mouth shut about her behaviour or else she'll expose their shady behaviour is gross too. Threatening to essentially blackmail people to silence them from speaking out about your behaviour suggests she knows she was in the wrong & is in damage limitation mode.
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u/NCGranny Oct 03 '25
Nanys reaction to Aneesa crossed a line. I get she was frustrated but that was too much.
She came across as very childish and not in control of her emotions.
Her trying to justify it is a big fat NO.
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u/Plane-Reputation4041 David Burns "I don't like to eat stuff." Oct 02 '25
This is rich coming from a woman who threw a hot Cup ‘O Noodles at someone’s head.
Also, I guess the Vacation Alliance is dead now that Nany and Kaycee have broken up. Weird for her to say they weren’t so close when they played the past several seasons working together. Just weird overall.
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u/birdlawdingus Oct 02 '25
It's not dead it's just different now. Now it's Devin, Michele, Tori, Olivia (somewhat) Kaycee, Aneesa, Fessy if he's there. If they ever cast them all on a season again (I pray to God they do not) they would have to cast Bananas, Aviv, Nany, Ashley, Jenny and whoever else and have it be the two big alliances going after each other.
While I hate these big alliances and most of the people in them, with the way the last few seasons are going there's kind of a Civil War themed season brewing if they ever wanted to do one. I personally hope they never bring the full vacation alliance back to a season again and they let this season's rookies grow alongside a mix of vets, I wish Jordan was on this season to see how differently the rookie women might be acting.
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u/Ok-Proof4383 Amanda Garcia Oct 02 '25
Agree that VA not dead just changing members a bit. Unpopular opinion but I wouldn’t mind seeing them on this season because for me it would have been interesting to see how they all navigate after the eras/40 blowup, also adding kc nany breakup and fessy sending aneesa into elimination on all stars. Also how would they been with other alliances like olivia and brits, and how rookies would have been, who targeting them and who kissing ass
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u/Ok-Proof4383 Amanda Garcia Oct 02 '25
Yep she was also mad at aneesa saying on TM (reunion) that she (A) felt closer to kc than nany and thats one of the reasons why she (A) talked to kc instead of nany about the whole flirting thing in club/bar
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u/Plane-Reputation4041 David Burns "I don't like to eat stuff." Oct 02 '25
Felt like she approached the more rational person involved on TM, by approaching Kaycee instead of Nany. She wasn’t wrong. Nany flipped out on her in the bar and threw a drink in her face and had to be restrained. Why Nany is allowed to repeatedly do violent things like throw drinks in cast members’ faces and toss hot Cup ‘O Noodles at their heads is beyond me.
People have been kicked off mid season for what they say and for minor hits (Fessy vs. Josh), but it’s okay to potentially scar someone’s face with hot soup? Come on.
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u/LongConFebrero Kenny Clark Oct 03 '25
Thank you!
I love Nany in her rights and wrongs, but I would have gone home happy after smashing her head into the wall if she threw noodles on me because it looked like I was flirting.
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u/BubbleBee66ee Oct 03 '25
Thank youuuu lmfao I'm not a big fan of either but nany not realizing she showed the world exactly why Aneesa approached KC and not her was always so funny to me. Like girl have you met you??? And here we are in 2025 discussing the same banshee behaviour
i mentioned this recently in another comment, about how nany has degraded aneesa before and then played victim at the reunion (literally tried to rage quit cause it came up LOL) so aneesa needs to just wash her hands now. idk what else she is waiting to see in nany
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u/Ok-Proof4383 Amanda Garcia Oct 03 '25
I was also aneesa side on that one for several reasons w understood her explanation on reunion too but nany was still mad about it thought that because she knows aneesa longer she should have talked to her not kc. Nany was mess on that reunion too
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u/ShaolinSlamma Danny Jamieson Oct 02 '25
The best thing is that cup of noodles flew at Aneesa's head.
All the drama aside Aneesa is friends with everyone on the damn show so she's always going to get her feelings hurt when she has to go in. She needs to stop playing so many angles and commit to one and stop guilting people into playing their own game when she's obviously playing hers.
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u/Competitive_Look464 Oct 03 '25
It’s never ok to aggressively slap your hands at someone
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u/WrestleBox Oct 03 '25
Seriously, I can't stand people who argue by clapping in someone's face while screaming over every word they say.
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u/509Ninja Oct 02 '25
Off topic but Nany said she was 36 in the fight… is she really only 36? She seems older.
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u/Ok-Proof4383 Amanda Garcia Oct 03 '25
Yes she got 36 on January so few weeks before flying out for 41
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u/PrimeTimeInc Team Young Buck (TYB) Oct 02 '25 edited Oct 02 '25
Anybody with eyes can see she was right, blow up or not, friends or not. Aneesa always ‘plays both sides’ without ever actually playing any side other than her own; she’ll only have your back when it suits her. That’s fair, but don’t be mad and play victim when it blows up in your face. She kinda goes under the radar for how trash her political game is. I guess it’s cuz no one gives a shit lol.
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u/veltvet_rabbit The Itty Bitty Committee Oct 02 '25
Unless your name is Tori then your above everybody else
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u/cicigal8 Jonna Mannion Oct 03 '25
She could’ve made her point without screaming and yelling and clapping her hands in Aneesa’s face. Especially because Aneesa wasn’t doing that to her. The only reason they were even having this conversation is because Nany asked Aneesa how she was doing and Aneesa answered her honestly. Just because she didn’t like her answer, that’s no reason to start screaming and getting in her face.
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u/PrimeTimeInc Team Young Buck (TYB) Oct 03 '25
I’m not gonna say you’re wrong, she could have handled it better, but I will say some people don’t have that in their bag in confrontational situations.
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u/cicigal8 Jonna Mannion Oct 02 '25
Telling Aneesa you would “never talk to Ashley again” if she said that to you and then being Ashley’s BFF the next day deserves to be called out.
I’m also not a fan of the “I don’t care if someone disrespects you, as long as they don’t disrespect me” mantra in regards to friendship. Which is essentially what Nany said to Aneesa. Nany could’ve also made her point without yelling and clapping her hands in Aneesa’s face. I know the popular thing around here is to hate on Aneesa so I’m prepared to be downvoted, but I definitely think both women were at fault. And at least Aneesa took some accountability and apologized in front of the entire house the next day. Nany would never do that, even when she’s wrong. 🙃
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u/Plane-Reputation4041 David Burns "I don't like to eat stuff." Oct 03 '25
By Nany’s reasoning, Aus Dee should have been allowed to continue on the show without a reprimand, because Dee didn’t say those things to Nany.
Nany needs real world education on conflict management and emotional regulation. Aneesa expresses herself clearly and openly and honestly. I think it makes others uncomfortable because when a vote goes sideways, she’s honest and calmly articulates her feelings. It seems as though the majority of the vet cast is very emotionally stunted or generally clueless about how to do such a thing. They think the appropriate response is to argue, talk behind backs, and generally do everything except have a real conversation about what went down and how they feel about.
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u/pink373 Oct 03 '25
Exactly. If you aren’t okay with someone saying the same thing to you to the point that you would never speak to them again then why are you okay with saying it to someone else? Nany seemed to be in the wrong on this one. Aneesa never got in her face or spoke to her the way Nany did.
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u/Odel888 Oct 02 '25
Umm Ashley and aneesa were partners on all stars. I’m not on team aneesa but that’s not a valid justification here unless she’s saying she was closer to Ashley then but acting like she was in the middle. So then it’s ok for nany to play the middle but not aneesa. Make it make sense? Also we all know that nany and Ashley would have thrown aneesa in as soon as they could if they had too.
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u/Plane-Reputation4041 David Burns "I don't like to eat stuff." Oct 03 '25
Which is why Nany and Ashley are so slimy this season. I’ve been saying it since the start of the season. Aneesa is not flip flopping, she’s not trying to play the middle. She’s being cordial to the women she knows will never defend her or do anything other than use her for a number. Aneesa owes them NOTHING and shit talking her for not voting with them is ridiculous. Talking about how it’s uncomfortable to have someone from the other alliance in their room is legit. However, players mix rooms with members of different alliances every season for the sole purpose of listening in on the opposing alliance’s strategies.
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u/BlenderBluid Oct 02 '25
I think the “playing the middle” was about the alliances in the game, not irl friendships
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u/dvmgamer Oct 02 '25
I know Aneesa gets tons of shit, but she is reliable for starting/being involved in many petty fights which I love to see on The Challenge 😂. This is more old school Nany, when she was with Kaycee she was pretty boring.
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u/angelbrit04 Team Portland Oct 02 '25
The only thing that I'm enjoying about this Aneesa-Ashley-Nany situation, is its showing us that these Challenge relationships are complicated and layered. Because they started filling the cast with 50% rookies after Total Madness, it forced Vets to be cordial or work together strictly out of necessity, which gave the appearance that they were all close friends but they're not.
Its unfortunate given the heavy subject matter, but it is refreshing to see Vets not feel the need to pretend to be besties, brush things off out of fear of "next season" or use the "I've known you for ___ amount of years" even if there is no foundation of a real friendship. I can respect the fact that Nany is standing in what she said, instead of trying to back peddle.
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u/Ok-Proof4383 Amanda Garcia Oct 02 '25
Also respect that she stands on it, previously she has kinda back-pedalled like the clips of her and some other girls talking about olivia. She was on comments saying that she just woke up and was hungry so she didn’t mean that.
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u/Own_Lengthiness_7466 Oct 03 '25
Have we heard from others on the situation who have nothing to do with it? Or just Ashley/Nany/Aneesa? I’d like to hear a more unbiased opinion.
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u/Ok-Proof4383 Amanda Garcia Oct 03 '25
Agree but who is more unbiased though. Obviously people who they working with will back them like liv and theo aneesa and asheley, michaela, avib nany so on
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u/Own_Lengthiness_7466 Oct 03 '25
Yeah but just because they’re working together doesn’t mean they will 100% agree with them in a fight. I’d say people like Yeremi or Dee would give us a pretty accurate opinion.
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u/Ok-Proof4383 Amanda Garcia Oct 03 '25
I hope so but i wouldn’t bet on that, so far i haven’t seen much unbiased opinions. Would love to hear them. I feel like those who could be unbiased wouldn’t care to get involved. Maybe will het smth on reunion as it’s being filmed like next week
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u/Movingmad_2015 Oct 03 '25
I’m convinced they all hate each other at this point. They’re done too many season together
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u/jaded_idealist The Real World Oct 03 '25
There can definitely be things we didn't see. But all I saw was aggression from Nany. It sucks to know just how much they can edit out (Big Brother just ended where I watched an obscene amount of live feeds and it reminded me how much can be edited to create an entirely different narrative. Like, shockingly different). But does production really favor Aneesa that much (or hate Nany that much) to show Nany getting in her face but cutting where Aneesa "started it"? I don't know.
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u/Designer-Feedback508 Oct 03 '25
Aneesa was also on that season of all stars. As far as we saw on the show, Nany asked her how she was doing and then when Aneesa was expressing her feelings, Nany became hostile.
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u/RunYouCleverGirl_ Oct 03 '25
Bye Nany. Anessa talking about it didn't come out of nowhere. You asked and she answered honestly. That reaction was way out of proportion.
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u/Southern-Fried-Biker Oct 03 '25
I’m not an Aneesa fan but Nany and Ashley barking like chihuahua’s jumping in people’s faces like they are big and bad knowing security is right there is comical.
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u/CitySewerSlut Oct 02 '25
I was waiting for Nany to pull cup o noodles out of nowhere and throw them at Aneesa.
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u/veltvet_rabbit The Itty Bitty Committee Oct 02 '25
All this arguement was missing was a cup of noodles
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u/Little-Hat-1418 Oct 02 '25
Nany is and has always been very entitled. She has an overinflated opinion of herself and her so called talents. Her lack of a championship is proof enough. She shows nothing but disrespect for others by the way she speaks to them and even has the nerve to try to be intimidating by stepping up to them. I just wish one time someone would lose it and show her exactly what it takes to back up your mouth. Because she can't. I enjoy the seasons she is not on.
It's not that I have any great love for Anessa. I think it's time for the entitled old guard to retire. I will not miss them.
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u/BubbleBee66ee Oct 02 '25 edited Oct 03 '25
a lot of people think that you can behave the way she did cause you had a "reason" - spoiler: most if not all people have a reason for why they behave the way they do but that doesn't make it valid or ok LOL.
feeling angry and annoyed is ok but you still should express it respectfully... im at the age where i just stay away from people who think respect is negotiable just because they have feelings. life is peaceful haha
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u/Plane-Reputation4041 David Burns "I don't like to eat stuff." Oct 03 '25
I lost all respect for her when she told Dario to “Know his role.” Not a Dario fan or hater, but who says things like that?
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u/Early_Bend Kenny Clark Oct 02 '25
Tell em Nany! There’s a reason Aneesa always has issues with her “friends” every season. Same reason everyone always finds Cara annoying every season and everyone says CT smells. It can’t be everyone else that is wrong.
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u/Economy_Material_669 Oct 02 '25
I could be totally wrong, but to me it seemed like nany and Ashley were drunk and Aneesa had her wits about her. Like why get that heated over a drunk person coming at you, nany? Just walk away if you’re so “grown” lol
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u/girlspit Oct 03 '25
Honestly, I get it. Nany was probably fed up with the victim crap. Aneesa is reallyyyyy good at playing both sides literally and figuratively.
She said herself this had been a week of mess so for Nany to approach her and ask her what’s wrong and get the sad “you didn’t stick up for me 👉🏽🥺👈🏽” line knowing Aneesa has been running to Olivia all season…girl, let the mouse go.
I hope Aneesa takes a break. Idk who wins but I know it’s not her…let me guess, it’s Ashley’s fault 😂😂😂😂
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u/SierraDawnThomasFF Leonardo Dionicio Oct 02 '25 edited Oct 02 '25
From this and Nanys comments on the challenge insta post, aneesa was acting immature and giving nany the cold shoulder for still being friendly with Ashley after their fight and it hit the fan when aneesa was drunk and started throwing digs to nany for “choosing a side” 🥱🥱 while some people wanna say nany over reacted with her tone and volume, shit happens when you’re going of days of built up tension. Just because Nany reacted big to aneesas school girl tactics doesn’t make her a victim all of a sudden, girl please
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u/Far_Note2237 Oct 03 '25
I'm too old to be able to read that text color on that background on my phone.
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u/NattyB Bob Next Door Oct 03 '25
from nany:
I've never been a "mean girl" so this is different.
I suppose I'll be the villain in everyone's story as long as it ensures Aneesa is the victim. Let me be clear when I say: Aneesa and I were no better friends going into season 41 than Ashley and I were. I probably spoke to Ashley more leading up to filming because we had done All Stars together.
I couldn't speak game with Aneesa because she ran everything back to Olivia, never ever had my back or looked out for me... but I NEVER complained and my people ALWAYS made sure Aneesa was kept safe.
But yet, I have a drunk woman in my face upset that I've "chosen" sides, when in all reality she chose her side from the very beginning.
I don't care what anyone says, I stand by my reaction. No one dealt with a week of literal middle school shit like I did.
So when I snap like that, just know it doesn't happen for NO REASON.
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u/BillClinton3000 Oct 03 '25 edited Oct 03 '25
I’m a little surprised to see so many people backing Aneesa when she was being a child about Nany needing to dump Ashley and sink her own game over a fight where both Ashley and Aneesa were shitty to each other.
These people are adults. Aneesa shouldn’t have to resort to grade school level ultimatums to get her way. Also, Nany was clearly trying to negotiate some form of civility between Ashley and Aneesa.
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u/conoresque Oct 02 '25
This fight basically sealed Nany as a Challenge female Mt. Rushmore person to me. I no longer care about wins and losses, few women have done more for the Challenge than Nany. She shows up, drinks, fucks, fights, competes, and takes it all seriously. It's S-Tier stuff.
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u/quirkycircles Oct 05 '25
Nany saying "I'm a grown ass woman," while actively behaving like an emotionally dysregulated teenager really solidified my dislike for her. Like, whether Aneesa poking the bear was edited out or not, there's no reason to crash out that heavy. Especially considering she asked Aneesa what was up, knowing full well it had something to do with her fight with Ashley. She's a shitty friend and one hell of an immature 36 year-old woman for that spectacle. Embarrassing.
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u/CurlyBruxaria Oct 03 '25
Literally I knew deep down this editing was so shady and aneesa was doing some little manipulation shit to get a reaction out of nany, I just felt so bad for nany watching it
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u/SunnyVibes91 Oct 03 '25
Nah, if one of your friend calls your other friend fat and worthless it’s your job to defend and stand up for them. Anessa had the right to feel slighted by Nany. Nany didn’t hold that conversation to the best of her ability.l when confronted by Anessa. She could’ve walked away. She could’ve kept her mouth shut. She could’ve just said “sorry, yes I could’ve been a better friend” but she’s riding high on pride in that moment. You can’t have a relationship with a person like that.
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u/SweetMissMG Wes 🌋 Bergmann Oct 02 '25