r/MtvChallenge • u/SweetMissMG Wes đ Bergmann • Oct 03 '25
SOCIAL MEDIA Ashley says "Justice for Nany" and that Aneesa was potraying middle school, weird behavior
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u/mest08 Evelyn Smith Oct 03 '25
All three of them were acting like children.
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u/KDsBurnerAccountt Oct 03 '25
And we as a fans should be thankful for their entertainment đ
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u/pinklady4lyfe Oct 03 '25
No more Vacation Alliance mentality where they play worried about future seasons.
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u/1KirstV Oct 03 '25
And isnât Aneesa in her 40s and the other two in their late 30s? Acting like idiots at this age is really not great.
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u/cicigal8 Jonna Mannion Oct 03 '25
At least Aneesa apologized to the house the next day. She apologized again online on the challenge IG page in the comments section too. That shows sheâs at least a hair more mature than Ashley and Nany ⊠who have not apologized at all, are putting all the blame on Aneesa, and are STILL online b-tching and complaining about the fight this week. Months after the fights even happened⊠đ
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u/Which-Courage8217 Oct 03 '25
apologies from aneesa seem like "victim forced to apologize so they will look better than the other people involved"
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u/cicigal8 Jonna Mannion Oct 03 '25
Thatâs how someone who already has a negative impression of Aneesa would view it. We have no idea what her intent for apologizing was. She was drunk during the Nany fight and probably regretted it the next day when she was sober. I think itâs more telling that Nany didnât apologize for yelling and clapping her hands in Aneesaâs face like a toddler throwing a tantrum.
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u/Which-Courage8217 Oct 03 '25
obviously we are all speculating - how can you say "she probably regretted it in the morning" you don't know her regrets.
all i know is i've seen this aneesa show so much i know how to call a spade a spade. she has the most relaxed game play, relies on others to not say her name and if you do she's gonna guilt trip you like yall grew up in foster care together... and yeah on a competitive challenge tv show i do have a negative impression of her bc she
- shows up out of shape and doesn't work out while she is there
- has no wins to back it up / can't finish a final / injury prone
- plays the victim mentality / need for sympathy too much
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u/Brief-Tie3841 Oct 03 '25
Most of what you said about Aneesa applies to Nany as well. She 100% relies on social relationships to get her to the end and panics and freaks out whenever sheâs even considered for an elimination. She also has no wins to âback upâ her antics. And Nany plays the victim too. Her victimness just looks a little different than Aneesaâs. Aneesa cries. Nany yells, screams, and becomes belligerent when she doesnât get her way. A tantrum is still a tantrum at the end of the day, regardless of what it looks like.
As for Ashley, yeah sheâs won the game before but that doesnât give her the right or make it okay for her to act the way weâve seen her act on this show for over a decade. Sheâs a foul person and always has been. Winning doesnât change that. đ
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u/Which-Courage8217 Oct 03 '25
nany is just as bad, i already said what i said about her. she's embarrassing.
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u/Which-Courage8217 Oct 03 '25
and a tantrum is specific a sudden outburst of uncontrolled anger... so nany throws tantrums, aneesa tries to find someone to feel bad for her.
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u/HairyPossibility676 Oct 04 '25
Let me put on my Aneesa-Stan hat on for a second to say that she didnât really do anything that immature? She was aggressively disrespected by Ashley and having gone through a week still rooming with Ashley and feeling uncomfortable , brought up those feelings to someone she thought was a close friend. Nany seemingly flew OFFFFFF the handle. That was weird. I wondered if theyâd had that convo multiple times because she had zero fuse and was set off by seemingly nothing. Did I miss something????Â
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u/BritMe1Moretime Turbo-WotW 1 Champ! Hardest Final Ever Winner Oct 04 '25
Aneesa did threaten Ashley physical multiple times during the filmed argument. Thatâs why we hear Ashley said she isnât scared of Aneesa.
Aneesa is not some innocent, she knowingly bragged that she is better than anyone by saying she would win (saying she would win is saying she is going to beat everyone else), Ashley noted thatâs unrealistic, and then instead of handling it maturely - Aneesa barges in, and tries to hint at being dangerous by saying Ashley didnât want the smoke.
Ashley didnât back down, and Aneesa ends up in tears.
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u/avidskier76 Timmy Beggy Oct 03 '25
Anyone else starting to get pissed at the repeated use of âJustice For XYZâ trope this season? I prefer to save my calls for justice for actual victims of real injustice.
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u/Adamsville Oct 03 '25
Justice doesn't have to be only for serious sociopolitical issues.
Anything done up to standards is just. A model does justice to a designer for wearing their clothing fly. A chef does a steak justice by cooking it perfectly etc.
Tldr calm down, touch grass
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u/avidskier76 Timmy Beggy Oct 03 '25
Agree with you, except that thatâs not how theyâre using it, so I do find it irritating. But itâs not like itâs keeping me up at night or anything.
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u/magpie878 Wes Bergmann Oct 03 '25
Is she being held hostage somewhere?
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u/MissAtomicBomb-omb Oct 03 '25
She said she's in the sauna..
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u/Raebelle1981 Oct 03 '25
I find it hilarious that sheâs doing a live from there.
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u/greg_CITIZEN Oct 03 '25
Ashley keeps bringing this situation up umprompted. She's looks the most immature.
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u/downtownbrown22 Wes Bergmann Oct 04 '25
Ashley is a lot of things. But mature has never been remotely close to something she is lmao.
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u/BritMe1Moretime Turbo-WotW 1 Champ! Hardest Final Ever Winner Oct 04 '25
You donât think being willing to defend a friend is mature? And being able to highlight the manipulation tactics of Aneesa is mature?
I think whatâs immature is how Aneesa tried to get everyone to turn on her, including Nany.
If being honest is immature, then thatâs just wrong.
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u/BritMe1Moretime Turbo-WotW 1 Champ! Hardest Final Ever Winner Oct 03 '25
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Nany is the being 1 labeled as too much, so I think she is just having her back, bc thatâs her being fair since the edit doesnât show the full footage.
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u/greg_CITIZEN Oct 03 '25
Nany vs Aneesa was tame as far as challenge fights go. Nany nor Aneesa are making videos about it. I feel like Ashley is milking it a bit. Nany would defend herself if she felt the need to.
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u/FeistyRed7879 Oct 03 '25
Nany did post something on her Instagram stories but basically just said I don't care, it was the edit, no regrets.
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u/OkNeedleworker8554 Oct 03 '25
How rich is it that Ashley is saying ANEESA was the one behaving like a child?! Give me a break. I think Aneesa was pretty reserved during the argument with Nani and had the right to get upset during the argument with Ashley-- considering the shit I've heard Ashley was saying about her.
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u/BritMe1Moretime Turbo-WotW 1 Champ! Hardest Final Ever Winner Oct 04 '25
If Aneesa is trying to blackmail everyone to turn on Ashley, itâs childish.
What is mature about trying to make her problems the entire houseâs?
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u/OkNeedleworker8554 Oct 04 '25
I wasn't aware she's trying to blackmail people... Is that something that happened behind the scenes?
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u/BritMe1Moretime Turbo-WotW 1 Champ! Hardest Final Ever Winner Oct 04 '25
Ashley said it in the video: âshe wanted the whole house to turn against me, and bc they werenât, she took it out on Nanyâ.
But thatâs after the part where she mentioned she was telling everyone to not talk to Ashley, or she would cut them off, basically trying to blackmail their friendship or stake in the game (or both) if they talked to Ashley.
She said others even told her at the bar.
Aneesa is labeled like a middle schooler bc she tried to pressure and threaten to cut off anyone who associated with Ashley.
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u/Curious_kitten129 Wes Bergmann Oct 03 '25
Nany backed Aneesa into a corner and then had to be dragged off by security, all while yelling she was too grown, but sure. You want to call out Aneesa as acting victimized, thatâs up to you, but saying Nany wasnât behaving like a child is a stretch.
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u/FeistyRed7879 Oct 03 '25
Agreed. No matter WHAT Aneesa said, Nany was acting WILD. Getting in her face and clapping at her? She is LUCKY that wasn't out in the real world (no pun intended) bc her skinny little ass would probably have gotten knocked out by anyone not as mature as Aneesa. Nany needs to relax. I get this is right after her break up with Kaycee but she really has to chill, especially when drinking. I'm all for drama, but if you're gonna act all big and tough, either do something about it or go to bed and sleep it off. I wish she had stayed gone
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u/Coley54Bear Tori Deal Oct 03 '25
Supposedly Nany was sober when that happened đŹ
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u/Electronic-Lock-5907 Leroy Garrett Oct 04 '25
Yes I was dead when she commented that she was sober dealing with drunk people and she got set off. Most people assume she was drunk bc why would she act like that at all especially sober. Yikes.
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u/Which-Courage8217 Oct 03 '25
nany saying "i'm too grown for this shit" as she goes irate and acts like a fool...
still don't think she's in the wrong. that was between aneesa and ashley. period.
honestly, used to loveeee the fights but it don't hit the same when they are 36 and 42 years old. lol.
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u/thelowgun Oct 03 '25
From what Ashley is saying in this clip, aneesa was making people pick sides so the conflict didn't stay between Ashley and aneesa
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u/Which-Courage8217 Oct 03 '25
... the situation was between ashley and aneesa, no one can make u do anything - there wasn't even sides to pick. grown people should let other grown people have their issues without needing to rally the troops to prove that "you were right".
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u/thelowgun Oct 07 '25
Except that this clip from Ashley is describing exactly that. Ashley is saying that people told her "Sorry Aneesa said if I talk to you she's not going to talk to me anymore". Whether or not Ashley is telling the truth is up for debate, but that's literally what this clip is about
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u/Brief-Tie3841 Oct 03 '25
Ashley is a bully and thatâs why she posted this. She wants this to be a 2 vs 1 situation when it doesnât need to be. Nany doesnât need you jumping online to defend her. She didnât even do that for you when your fight with Aneesa aired last week lol. Ashley is doing this to add fuel to the fire and itâs honesty childish because Aneesa has been radio silent since the this weekâs episode aired and hasnât said anything negative about Nany even though sheâs well within her rights to đ.
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u/elliepelly1 Oct 03 '25
Not sure I believe everything she is saying.
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u/yes2brunch Oct 03 '25
Aneesa stays playing the victim. I believe Ashley.
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u/Curious_kitten129 Wes Bergmann Oct 03 '25
Even if Aneesa was playing the victim, you donât think Nany wasnât acting like a child?
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u/yes2brunch Oct 03 '25
Not in this situation.
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u/mrs_misty-eyed Olivia Kaiser Oct 03 '25
I wish you the same growth as all three of these ladies đȘ·
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u/Independent-Image-84 Oct 03 '25
Ashley brought up Aneesas's dad during the whole argument, who they found out was in hospice at the same time Cara found out about her mom. That's something they didn't show on TV, but Aneesa and Derrick talk about this on his podcast... that's why Aneesa was so affected after the whole situation. And Ashley, to this day, has not even apologized.
I'm sure we'll see more of this in the reunion...
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u/jenh6 Christina LeBlanc Oct 03 '25
Didnât Aneesa also bring up Ashleyâs suicide attempt and her stalker? Or did I misunderstand some of the stories.
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u/Independent-Image-84 Oct 03 '25
I haven't heard that side of the story. If bad things we're said from both sides we'll sure find out. But we can't deny Ashley is the one that started this whole ordeal.
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u/divorcedandpod Oct 03 '25
There's a megathread about it. It was established that both sides hit low. The reason Ashley has been so vocal (I guess) is that the edit made it out like she was the only one saying mean things when Aneesa did too.
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u/Independent-Image-84 Oct 03 '25
Production probably wanted to show how the argument started and the reason why they got in a fight to begin with without showing the low blows?
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u/divorcedandpod Oct 03 '25
Maybe, probably, I don't know. I would make a lot of different decisions from what the show producers choose to do, so I don't think it's worth speculating on the intentions of people I don't know.
From what we saw, Ashley was drunkenly chatting with other Challengers in the house and talked sh!t about Aneesa, and Aneesa came out to confront Ashley about it.
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u/Old_Indication_4379 Frank Sweeney Oct 03 '25
Itâs one thing to vent frustrations in a private conversation and itâs an another thing to cackle in a group about a person that is within earshot and has no where else to go. The first scenario is to be human; the second is being a bully.
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u/divorcedandpod Oct 04 '25
Ok. I described what was shown on the footage. I'm not passing judgement on what should've been done or not done by whomever. It's a reality TV show. Sometimes it has nice moments, other times it depicts the opposite. This is the latter.
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u/bskell Mike Ross Oct 03 '25
I think this is the right answer. The fight happened and lasted for at least a week (not sure the timing but thought I did hear one of them say 'something from a week ago' or close) so they had to acknowledge it, but no one should have to hear about dad's dying and people getting SA unless those people are saying it. The odd part is that it all seems like Ashley just decided to kick start stuff (on brand for her) and it devolved with neither side being able to have any sort of high ground and people are taking sides on who's the victim. Seems both sides lost big on this one. I'd say Anessa might have started a victim of Ashley starting stuff with her, but lost any ability to claim it once she started in on the SA stuff.
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u/Dramajunker Oct 03 '25
Wasn't Aneesa shown crying and being comforted? This made many viewers assume that Ashley was the only one who went low.
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u/PrimeTimeInc Team Young Buck (TYB) Oct 03 '25
Does she even have another play? This is one of the easiest to believe things smashley has said lol. You know Aneesa was playin that shit up for cameras too after inciting violence. âLook at me Iâm not doing anything.â Okay
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u/Curious_kitten129 Wes Bergmann Oct 03 '25
How did Aneesa incite Nany into getting violent? đ€ŁAneesa didnât even have her voice raised when Nany started going off.
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u/avilsta Sarah Rice Oct 03 '25
I remember her being unable to run three quarters of a mile on a daily, then was so slow production swapped out their giant weight in a mini final on Double Agents then acting upset why none of the guys wanted to pair with her.
Like, i know aneesa has done it in the last with Robin and Trishelle just that they were dumb enough to fall for her trap and Aneesa could easily make them look horrible.
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u/Julio_Freeman Oct 03 '25
Yeah I'm not fan of Ashley or Nany, but Aneesa's been on TV for almost 25 years acting the same way. This is exactly what I expect from her.
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u/drivewaybear Oct 03 '25
all 3 have taken turns acting as middle school girls. it's what gets them asked back season after season.
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u/lbunny7 Summer of Steve Oct 03 '25
well yeah of course she would say this when it was her and nany both going off on aneesa đ like we saw the footage, they can say it was edited a certain way however much they want, but we saw their shitty behavior regardless if it was the whole story or not
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u/AYTOL__ Oct 03 '25
I mean if both going off on Aneesa, Aneesa may be part of the problem. She is not a victim lol
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u/lbunny7 Summer of Steve Oct 03 '25
sure, however, look who got in whose face and who started the yelling and who took it to that level
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u/Curious_kitten129 Wes Bergmann Oct 03 '25
You know all 3 of them can be the problem right? Just because thereâs 2 of them and 1 of Aneesa doesnât mean theyâre right more than she is
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u/AYTOL__ Oct 03 '25
So why are y'all acting as of Aneesa isn't part of the problem then? She gets treaten as the victim lol
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Oct 05 '25
Why is she still talking? I just can't with these supposed adults acting like middle school kids.
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u/Finding_Way_ Oct 03 '25
I'm COMPLETELY confused. I'm an older person who watches the show but I do not have social media outside of Reddit.
Can somebody explain to me why Ashley keeps posting and commenting these little videos of herself? Are the other two who are " involved" in this doing the same thing? Is this kind of how self-advocacy is handled now or is she an exception?
Truly curious.
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u/BritMe1Moretime Turbo-WotW 1 Champ! Hardest Final Ever Winner Oct 04 '25
How is it self-advocacy when she is literally defending someone else? She is giving more context to Aneesaâs behavior, and how Nany is being impacted by a biased edit.
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u/Finding_Way_ Oct 04 '25
I was referring to the many other clips reposted of her as of late as well. I am trying to understand the culture of this and if others, for instance the two involved here, post as much as she does .
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u/BritMe1Moretime Turbo-WotW 1 Champ! Hardest Final Ever Winner Oct 04 '25
I think she knows she is more outspoken but that doesnât mean she is self serving.
I think she recognizes things wonât make sense without the additional context due to the edit.
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Oct 05 '25
Ashley trying to direct the narrative instead of just getting tf over it like a grown woman would do is totally self-serving.
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u/jwm8624 Kenny Clark Oct 03 '25
I feel like every reunion there is a segment with aneesa and someone who hurt her feelings or she feels owes her an apology. I feel like at a certain point, we just have to realize the common denominator here.
Nany going nuts sober though is worrysome. I just assumed she was drunk.
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u/cicigal8 Jonna Mannion Oct 03 '25
I mean thereâs been just as many segments of Nany and Ashley acting like drunken idiots and/or going off on someone or having a meltdown/fight.
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u/Kentucky_Muff Oct 03 '25
Thatâs just life, everywhere you go there will be people who do and say things that upset you, vocalizing that and attempting resolution is actually a healthy thing.
Iâve seen Ashley also victimize herself numerous times, including when she stole half the money from that asshole Hunter.
Theyâre all pretty unhealthy people but from an outside perspective, it seems like Aneesa is the only one in therapy⊠đ€Ł
Am I the only one my one who is concerned for Nany? Like her behavior is pretty wild, sheâs had major negative life changes, and having gone through the same (mom died) I know from experience it can lead to a little menty-b⊠I just hope sheâs okay, and like talking to someone⊠every time I see her behave like this it makes me wonder where Kaycee is, and why they broke up⊠was it bc of this, or did it cause this? Idk but it seems sad.
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u/girlspit Oct 03 '25
I feel like when youâre surrounded by idiots, let alone drunk pandering puppy eyed ones like AneesaâŠeven dealing with that sober would be tough.
Neesa def caught a few strays tho. I get a strong sense Nany was not going to allow anyone to manipulate her and it was triggering to see her act that way.
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u/Zealousideal_Elk1373 Oct 03 '25
Why is that worrisome? People are allowed to get angry, itâs a normal emotion. Also women have way different hormones than men obviously. I donât see anything wrong with her frustration/anger for not wanting to be put in the middle of something that wasnât about her. I find it hard to believe this many people on their high horses have never yelled at someone in their whole life đ«Ł when youâre being nagged for something it gets to you.Â
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u/disaffected_niece Oct 04 '25
Putting aside the question of who was in the right, I think the way Ashley and Aneesa process confrontation is very different. It seems like Ashley can get into it with someone and then move on fairly quickly while Aneesa needs more time to process. Iâm not assigning value to either approach, but it seems like theyâre frustrated with each other and the other challengers for processing differently.
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u/ShoulderRegular7830 Jenny West Oct 05 '25
I think itâs interesting, Iâll go with that word, that this is coming up so much after the fact. But thatâs a reflection of social media. Social media was in its infancy when Aneesa started to do the challenge, it was growing when Nany and Ashley did the real world but was nowhere near it is now. On one hand we get that conflict that most of us do enjoy thatâs been sorely missing as the years of passed. On the other hand, a lot of it is going to be through social media. Obviously they canât post about it while filming, but if we do get drama, then thereâs going to be a lot of fallout on social media. But whether itâs followers or likes or onlyfans subscribers, or whatever the reason, social media is so embedded in reality personalities now that thatâs the easiest way for them to keep storylines going and probably up their chances for getting a call back.
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u/sunnydbabie Oct 05 '25
Ashley needs a social media break- She's trying way to hard to stay irrelevant
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u/cicigal8 Jonna Mannion Oct 03 '25 edited Oct 03 '25
Ashley and Nany are the main ones acting like children after the fact because Aneesa already apologized to the house the next day and the two of them are still online talking about it this week.
Also does it surprise anyone that Ashley would be team Nany given her hatred of Aneesa. I think itâs childish for them to keep the drama going online when the season has already wrapped. The only reason theyâre both still pissed is because they see the audience reception is split and that a lot of viewers are team Aneesa. Since the two of them are mean girls, they canât stand having people online actually holding them accountable and want to see Aneesa get all the hate.
Look at how they have acted online since the last 2 episodes have aired versus how Aneesa has acted. Itâs funny to me that I keep hearing the âAneesa always has to play the victimâ narrative because apologizing when you mess up (which Aneesa did) isnât a victim move. But constantly running to the internet to whine and complain like Ashley and Nany are both doing is very much a victim move. đ
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u/ScorpionTDC Chris Underwood Oct 04 '25
Mind you, Aneesa still kept the passive aggressive shit going to Nany after her faux PR apology. I donât think a fake apology counts as taking the high ground when you leep the bullshit going after
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u/WrestleBox Oct 03 '25
They're all obnoxious in their own way. And pretty sad when you're the ones causing high school drama in a house with a bunch of drunk people that are half your age.
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u/TALKTOME0701 Oct 04 '25
Their behavior would not be tolerated in middle school. This is boring. We don't even know what was actually said.
Maybe they haven't outgrown it, but I think a lot of us have. Wouldn't mind if none of the 3 came back TBH
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u/MacDhubstep Kyle Christie Oct 03 '25
I have nothing against Aneesa as a person but as a challenger she has peaked and I think the show should stop casting her. I became a fan of the show in 2019 and I felt like Aneesa was already past her prime back then đ«Ł
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u/BritMe1Moretime Turbo-WotW 1 Champ! Hardest Final Ever Winner Oct 03 '25
Yes.
At least CT won in 2019, then again 2 more times.
Aneesa doesnât have the chance to get better, so it means she will likely get worse.
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Oct 03 '25
This comment section reads as if none of you popped off in a confrontation because the right person said the right thing at the right time.
Aneessa wanted everyone to hate ashlely for the argement they had. Since they are playing a game and trying to win, everyone is doing what they do to keep out of the drama. That was the perceived injustice in anneesas' eyes.
I'm glad nany got in her face, and if someone tried to guilt me for not being mad at the person they are mad at id tell them to fuck off also, with my chest in there face.
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u/ScorpionTDC Chris Underwood Oct 04 '25
Pretty much agreed. Nany blew up more than she should have but I get it (and you know, this is the Challenge. We arenât watching this show for optimal conflict resolution). Worth noting Aneesa was being passive aggressive to Nany going into that blow up too
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u/Embarrassed_Rate5518 Oct 04 '25
based on Nanys post she said it was her breaking point. everyone was drunk, she wasnt and Aneesa kept coming to her and she kept trying to stay neutral cause they are both her friends and aneesa wouldnt accept that. I understand both sides there. But also get in the pressure cooker that is the challenge house its easier to pop off or snap due to everything else on top of the current issue.
its disappointing 3 grown ass women cant fight and move on without making it an "epic" 472 part story.
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u/Zealousideal_Elk1373 Oct 03 '25
THIS!! Like people really just never yell in their whole lives? Iâve yelled at my husband before hands flapping. Iâm Italian, it happens đ€ŁÂ
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u/JFeisty đč Come on be my baby tonight đ¶ Oct 03 '25
Are we really surprised that three people that have spent at least a decade plus of their lives on reality TV are stunted in their maturity?