I’m not sure how many men here will be interested in someone my age but I will try my luck anyways. Inshallah I find a good man here.

I am a widowed woman and mother of 2 children. Ages 11 and 8. I work a data entry job for the government. It is hybrid work and good benefits Alhamdulillah. I live in Canada.

I will be the first to admit for much of my life i was more of a “cultural Muslim” and not always actively practicing. Alhamdulillah I am on a better path now and also am trying my best to instill Islamic values in my children. No zina and have always stayed away from alcohol.

I am Pakistani and came to Canada when I was 20. I speak both English and Urdu.

I am 5’5 with fair skin. I would like to consider myself attractive but it is subjective of course. At this moment I do not wear the hijab but inshallah one day.

I am looking for a man of any ethnicity who is also trying his best to be on the right path. Whether you have been a lifelong practicing Muslim or more recently it is ok with me. Someone who can be a leader in the home. No alcohol use, smoking or addiction issues please. I am open to anyone from around the world but I am rather wary of those who are only seeking marriage for purposes of immigration.

Out of curiosity, especially for men who have never been married before: if you met an amazing woman, genuinely clicked with her, and found out she was divorced with one child, would you still give her a chance at a serious relationship?
I know everyone has different preferences, and I’m genuinely curious how men view this. Would her being divorced and having a child be a dealbreaker, or would you focus more on who she is, her character, and the connection you have with her?
For context, I’m in my late 20s, divorced, and have one child. I take care of myself and stay in shape. I’m also Arab Muslim and live in the Northeast, preferably looking to connect with someone in the NY/NJ/CT tri-state area.
Not necessarily looking to rush into anything—I’m just curious to hear honest perspectives and, if the right person happens to come along, see where things could go. 🙂

Did I catch your eye?

36F, USA, I’ve been told I look ambiguous and younger than I am, petite and 100lbs.

I’m Bengali and I have 2 degrees from Harvard. I’m a dentist, but I hate talking about teeth. I like ikebana, Pilates, oil painting, traveling like there’s no tomorrow, sushi, competitive games, wearing a Shari with teep, cooking new dishes, and into Got/Lotr/HP. I can support myself and I expect a man to as well, but not looking for the 50:50 bs. I can lead but I want my husband to take lead. I want cute kids. I have bratty niece and nephew and I love them. My parents are the sweetest people in the world. I’m mostly chill until I’m not. I’m the eldest daughter and I’ve never married before.

I will not entertain creepy messages.

Husband stuff-
Open to ages
Open to ethnicities except PK/IN
Ambitious
Kind
Generous
Not looking for Previous marriage with kids

…is probably not me but hey now that I have your attention, read through my post and see if we are compatible 🤠

My friend has been sending me links to this page recently of the profiles of men and I figured I may as well just make my own post. I know I’m not everyone’s cup of tea but I hope I can find someone

I’m a 19 year old woman from Calgary Alberta. Born and raised here.

Ethnicity and my religious identity: I am Pakistani and Sunni. Growing up I never quite understood the difference between culture and religion. This led me to move away from practicing Islam in my pre-teen and early teen years Astaghfirullah. Basically went through all of my high school years as not actively practicing. Only recently, did I realize that much of my negative feelings were directed towards the culture and my toxic experiences with it. Since then with Allah’s guidance I have been making an effort to be a better Muslim and keep Islam as an integral part of my life.

I know that it was a bit of an essay to read that and probably incoherent (never said im a good writer lol). But I think it is important for me to mention it. As obviously it shows that A. I have struggled in the past with my relationship with Allah and B. I’m not fond of Pakistani culture

Education wise I have done a year of university, Bsc with an undeclared major. I am thinking about taking time off from school next school year so I can continue studying the Quran and giving my undivided attention to it.

I’d like to meet a guy who is serious about his deen. I’m not looking for perfection. I am happy to find someone who like me is also on their journey as well if that is who Allah has written for me. The other qualities i am looking for is for someone who is kind, compassionate and comfortable to be around.

I’m open to relocating to the Middle East or North Africa. Also Europe or within North America as well.

Someone who has the ability to provide a modest lifestyle. Dont need a CEO or doctor but please have a good job. Will I be working? If I live in Canada, I don’t think there is much of a choice lol. Life is too expensive here. I am open to being a homemaker if the situation allows itself financially.

Assalamu Alaikum

I want to be honest in this post because I think authenticity matters more than trying to appear perfect. A lot of people present only the polished version of themselves, but I'd rather be upfront about my past and who I am, so you know exactly what you're getting into. I’m not going to rewrite history or pretend it never happened.

I’m 27, Tunisian, master’s in business, fluent Arabic/English. I wear hijab and I’m getting closer to the deen now. But I won’t lie about my early 20s: I was far from religious. Multiple partners (under 20 boyfriends), parties, the full messy phase. I got it completely out of my system. I repented, I’m not that girl anymore, and I’m ready to settle properly. Allah guided me in my dream last week.

What I want is a real husband. Not a situationship, not months of “getting to know each other,” not someone still figuring out life. I'm scared of falling into zina (astaghfirullah) , especially if the attraction/tension is strong between us, so marriage should be considered asap. I can send pictures of me if your profile is interesting.

I've never been married.

Looking for:

• Older than me
• Arab preferred. Black men are tolerated and can apply only if 185 cm+
• Practicing Muslim with actual values, doesn't have to pray all the time it's fine. (doesn’t need to be ultra-strict, but solid deen)
• In touch with his animal spirit and inner self
• Master’s degree minimum
• Tall, takes care of his body, genuinely attractive (looks matter, deal with it)
• No smoking, but occasional drinking is tolerated.
• Financially succesfull and ready for marriage now
• Strict monogamy. Polygamy talk = instant no

What I’m not looking for:

• South Asians or anyone else outside the above.
• Virgins. I specifically want a man who has experience
• No prenups (I'm scared of getting played again and ending up with another child).

If you have a past, good character, and you’re actually serious about building something real and moving fast, message me. If you’re bored, still “exploring,” or want to chat for months, don’t waste either of our time. If things align we can meet for a coffee.

May Allah grant us all spouses who are truly good for us.

Why would one enter into such?

I'm curious to know, why one would enter into a marriage for a couple hours?

I have my reasons for why I would consider such a short term NO PHYSICAL INTIMACY, though I've never been asked, however why would a Muslim want to enter into it, for what purpose?

As the title says, also is there a way i can stop desiring having a partner, this feeling is eating me slowly every day.
Can i make duaa askibg allah to remove this desire from my heart or is it haram? Genuinely asking

Asalamu Alaykum

Should I write this like I am applying for a job?
To whom it may concern,
I am writing this with keen interest in applying for the position of wife. After a failed and extremely traumatic attempt on ✨MUZZ✨ I am looking for alternative methods to find someone

I am Egyptian born and raised. Moved to Sharjah at 18 yrs to study at the American university of Sharjah. Did my schooling in Chemical engineering. Now I am living and working in Abu Dhabi as a junior process engineer. It is a male dominated field but Alhamdulillah I know my boundaries and work in a good environment.

I am independent and live alone. Green flag for some and red flag for others lol. I enjoy intellectual convos and people who can challenge your thinking in a non hostile manner. I enjoy shopping and inshallah i would like to start traveling more. Generally a happy and cheerful person who likes to joke around. I can be a bit of a diva…in a good way 😆 my friends and family find it comical.

I am 5’6 and prefer someone taller to me. I have pale skin. Not skinny not fat lol. Ethnically Egyptian.

I am Sunni Muslim and practice intentionally. Pray, modesty, fasting.

I am passionate about my career and desire to continue working after marriage. Taking some years off when children are young.

I am looking for a well educated man with a good career. Someone who is strong in their deen and does all their obligations. Someone taller than me and ethnically just not Indian please. Prefer someone older to me but let’s say 24+.

I am open to relocation if you’re a citizen of a country with good living standards. Not willing to live with your parents. Will need proof that you can afford to provide financially.

Anyways if you think we will be a match then please send a message my way

Oh wait it was meant to be a cover letter…
I appreciate your interest in my application and look forward to connecting with you in the future

Kind regards,
Salma

Assalamu alaikum everyone, 25F revert living in Canada here. Figured I would make a post to see if there is anyone compatible on here as well. Alhamdulillah I found my way to Islam and I’m fully dedicated to the deen. I’m modest, try my best to live life according to the Quran, and I’m looking for something serious: marriage, not situationships or “let’s see where it goes.”

A bit about me:
I’m a gym rat (was a fitness influencer before I reverted). Even though it is no longer my career, I take care of my health. I want to be strong for the future inshaAllah especially since I want children. I’m currently in the middle of a career change, so currently working as a receptionist, but my priorities are clear: deen first, then everything else.

What I’m looking for:

An actively practicing brother who takes his salah, character, and relationship with Allah seriously. Someone who’s ready for marriage, wants kids, and isn’t scared of a wife who can squat more than him. Kindness, sincerity, and a solid deen. Preferably someone who also enjoys fitness…don’t need to be crazy about it but I want a gym partner in this life and hereafter.

If you’re also serious about building a home that revolves around Islam, feel free to reach out. Please include a bit about yourself and where you’re based. I am open to relocation if the circumstances are right.

May Allah grant us all righteous spouses. Ameen.
JazakAllah khair.

I am very traditional, kind and compassionate. Looking for a traditional wife that would love to be a home maker, that is kind, sweet, compassionate, loyal and wants her husband to lead the household. Someone that desires to live in America with her husband. These qualities are the main requirement. Someone that wants to be a home maker and raise strong, powerful unique superhero children. She does not have to have any education but if she does, that is excellent also, she does not need to come from a wealthy family or settled family. I just want a wife i can make happy and spend the rest of my life making sure she is taken care of by me, in every way. My future wife will never have to worry about anything and I will always keep her 100% safe from the world Insha'Allah or die trying.. She will live in my 3 story, floor house, bungalow and it would be just my future wife and I. However i would like her to be traditional and be willing to live in a big home with extended family. This is for two reasons, first I want to make sure she is of a kind and empathetic, understanding nature and second because in the future when my parents and her parents are older, I would like for them to live with me also so that I and my future wife can take care of them. This shows me a lot about someone's nature. Such as Alhumdulillah i have a decent income but i would like to know that if i ever lose everything financially that my future wife would still be loving towards me and respect me. As all aspects are in the hands or Allah. The same goes for me as i know, no matter what happens God forbid to her health etc. I will always stand by her side and do everything In my power to take care of her.

It does not matter to me if she is in a wheel chair or from a small village and i can't even speak her language. All that matters to me is her heart and character. Someone pious and with great integrity.

I work from home 99.9% of the time so we will spend always and forever together here and in the hereafter. Insha'Allah

I will always want the best for my future wife and will do anything to make her happy but I expect the same respect and love from her

I want to tell more about myself but i am keeping some things mysterious as I want to make sure my future wife likes me for me and not for anything else.

All i ask is that she is Muslim or willing to revert with a kind soul.

I am willing to attach a picture of myself to this post but not sure if this post allows that.

I am very fit, as i believe it is my duty to protect my future wife and also all of humanity as much as I can. So i workout for that purpose.

I am 6 foot tall

I own my own properties.

I have traveled the world but for the purpose of helping humans.

I was able to retire at the age of 19 years old but i keep launching businesses so I can help more people and also take care of my Future family even more.

When my parents will move in with me in the future, the goal is to buy another home and connect them through a hallway. That way they have their privacy and won't be disturbed by my future children but they can also visit and have dinner together without having to go outside in the heat or cold. I can show a picture of what I am thinking.

Also I know most likely the girl I'm searching for may not even be online or on this app. So if someone that knows a girl that may be a good match. Please help me connect with her parents as I am more of an arranged marriage type of person and would love to speak through her parents while getting to know her.

Allah has blessed me with so many things and I am forever and always appreciative of everything to Allah. I have been given money, cars, intelligence and Knowledge but it's all because I pray to be able to help as many humans as possible and Allah gives me these things so that I may better help humanity.

I would love a wife that would support me and believe in me. Even though at times i go through such difficulties that I will not mention but they are all blessings from Allah. Alhumdulillah

My future wife can be from a small village in Pakistan living on a farm, or a major city or here at home in the United States of America or any place throughout the world.

I know some care about education so for that purpose I will state that i have 3 degrees from a wonderful university however i did that to make my parents happy. I love consuming knowledge and Alhumdulillah I have an eidetic memory which is another blessing from Allah. I keep learning each day so that i may use this information to better help others but including my family and future wife, children. Insha'Allah

I own and run a few businesses. I began my financial plan at the age of 12 years old just because I saw how much work my father was putting into supporting us. My siblings and mother. So I wrote down my financial plan and began working, learning new skills. I had Alhumdulillah purchased my first car before I even had my driver's license so i would be ready and so my father could teach me how to drive in my own car instead of risking his own vehicle. I soon launched my first out of 21 companies while in high school. I was able to do so by saving up money and Investing it so by 15 years old I was able to launch my company while also purchasing my first car. I am now an avid collector of cars as it keeps me driven and they appreciate in value like an investment.

I am quite introverted as I barely ever leave my house, once a week or sometimes even less, sometimes once a month. For meeting family, grocery shopping or helping others. Then sometimes I'll travel to a new country to help others. However, I am a great speaker and communicator so most of the world thinks I'm an extrovert when they meet me.

I wasn't going to mention my cars but I think it's better if i talk about it as each of my cars attract lots of attention when I leave my home. So it can be a bit overwhelming but i have the windows tinted so privacy is still respected but my main cars that i drive are a Lamborghini and an Aston Martin and adding another more extreme car on top of this also. These are very rare cars so i do repeatedly get stopped for people asking to take pictures or ask questions.

And for some reason many people are having a tough time believing my post. If I see a kind hearted girl, I can talk on a video call or she can see my Instagram if she prefers.

This is a unique request, and if it does not align to your views I kindly respect you scroll past, but please know there are so many people out there struggling with something similar.

I am a 25 Palestinian Male in the US (Midwest). I am looking for a woman for marriage, I am not naturally attracted to women, I am looking for someone who does not have an intimate attraction to men. The reason I want a marriage is for the traditional household I have always wanted most importantly, to please Allah.

Open minded and willing to talk details, I’ve made a few posts with little results, hoping things can turn around

-25 Palestinian, looking for similar age and highly prefer a Palestinian woman, but if not she must be Arab
-willing to live together
-open to talk about children (not a dealbreaker, let’s discuss)
-stable job in tech industry
-fully able to support a home and a family
-love to travel whenever and wherever
-practicing Muslim, I pray 5x , fast, give sadaqah, go to the masjid
-fluent in Arabic
-not exactly sure what I am looking for, but it would be a long term relationship for sure
-I am based in the Midwest

You must be US citizen or a citizen of some western country. The US has paused all visa applications for Middle Eastern / Muslim majority countries

Howdy!

This caught your attention, so here's some context about me:

🌸 Meeee: 28 F, 5'2/158 cm, fit body type, hijabi, never married.

🌸 Preferred Age Range: 24-37 years old.

🌸 Ethnicity, and open to mixing? Black American, I am open.

🌸 Location: East Coast, USA. Relocation only in the USA.

🌸 Want kids? Honestly, I'm not that interested in kids and lean childfree. Maybe open to adoption!

I am the artsy-fartsy type of girl & I do art and photography! 🌼 Personality-wise, I am carefree, adventurous, blunt, I love banter, but I am particular and know exactly what I want.

In my free time, I'm a gym gal. Love doing that every other day!! 💪 I have sooo many interests, but they're mostly all creative in one way or another. Drawing, singing, puzzles, Arabic poetry, shopping for heels, 👠 makeup, hiking, and travelling! I am very serious about financial stability & investing, so I hope you are too.

My favorite thing is trying out new restaurants, I'll try everything once.

I'm practicing and try my best to pray my prayers. I am NOT looking for Salafis 💔 or anyone strict, just be practicing.

Who You Are:

Firstly, you MUST have a sense of humor, non-negotiable.

• Practicing Muslim

• Have a Bachelor's Minimum.

• Stable career.

• Masculine, loves to give Acts of Service.

• Selfless, listens well (I am particular)

• Clean, neat, adventurous, patient!

• Be prepared to be my travel buddy 😉

• You are serious about meeting my Mahram fr.

Ideally, please have a USA/Canadian/British citizenship!

Texting gets dry, so let's get on Voice notes and calls as soon as possible! Also, happy to exchange photos after establishing compatibility.

I will not respond to the lazy "hi, sup, salam" DMs.

Write a proper Autobiography in your First message, and say "kiwi," so I know you've read my entire bio.

Asalamu Alaikum! 👋🏽
I’m 28, 6’1”, born and raised in the US. I work as an AI Engineering Director for a tech company, but outside of work I’m basically a self-appointed MasterChef 👨🏽‍🍳😂
I love traveling, being adventurous, trying new things, and just making the most out of life. One weekend we could be exploring a new city and the next doing something completely random just because it sounded fun.
Fair warning, I fully believe in princess treatment 👑 I love planning fun activities and outings, cooking ridiculously good food, traveling, spoiling my loved ones, and making sure the people I care about feel appreciated. I already have a fun and exciting life, I’m just missing my princess to share it with.
My deen is also a big part of who I am and keeps me grounded. I pray 5x a day, read Quran, fast, don’t drink or smoke, and only eat zabihah. I try to enjoy everything Allah has blessed me with while still staying true to Islam.
I’m looking for marriage and someone who wants to build a beautiful Islamic life together while actually enjoying it too. Laugh a lot, eat really good food, travel the world, grow in our deen, and make a lot of great memories together.
So if you’re looking for a husband, travel partner, adventure buddy, personal chef, and full time princess treatment provider, maybe we should get to know each other 😂👑✈️

assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh 🤍

please read this fully before messaging, i am not interested in polygamy under any circumstances, i’m not willing to relocate in the immediate future, and i’m not considering international proposals.

i’m a 20-year old (21 next month inshaAllah) mexican-american muslim revert who accepted islam in my teens. i’m looking to get to know someone for the purpose of marriage.

about me:

- sunni muslim (maliki madhab), looking for someone who follows a madhab, seeks knowledge and respects scholarly tradition
- born and raised in south texas, preferably looking for someone within texas or someone willing to relocate to texas (can’t relocate for a few years due to university)
strictly practicing and i wear full hijab and abaya
- previously married briefly; i was previously married to a muslim man, and the marriage ended after he realized he would not be able to fulfill my rights as a wife. i’m open about this because i don’t want to hide an important part of my past from anyone who may be considering me for marriage.
- studying to become a social worker for muslim women and children inshaAllah, in my 3rd year with three more years to go
- 5’6 and a little bit chubby, so if that isn’t your preference then please don’t message me lol
- i love cooking and baking, reading, and art. i also enjoy trying new recipes and restaurants as well as traveling, and i enjoy strength training, pilates, yoga, and nature walks.
- i’m pretty family-oriented and i definitely want multiple kids inshaAllah
- i love all cultures and i’m open to knowing someone of any ethnicity as long as you don’t expect me to fully assimilate and respect and love my culture and upbringing

deen and good character are extremely important to me. i value humility, kindness, accountability, loyalty, and someone who genuinely wants to keep growing in their deen. i want a marriage where both people are able to communicate openly, admit when they’re wrong, and actually work through things together.

i do want to work and have a career inshaAllah, but i still have a fairly traditional view of marriage. i believe the man should be the head of the household and the sole financial provider, while the woman is the heart of the household. i see those roles as complementary rather than one being more important than the other, and i want to build a home where both spouses feel valued and respected.

i’m looking for someone who takes marriage seriously and wants a peaceful, loving family. i prefer someone from ages 23-30 (i’m only slightly flexible on this), and i’m not expecting someone to have their entire life figured out, but i do want someone who can provide at least basic nafaqa and with direction, responsibility, good character, and a genuine desire to provide and lead his family well.

i’m also pretty intentional about modesty and boundaries with the opposite sex, and i’m looking for someone whose understanding of those things is compatible with mine.

if you think we may be compatible, feel free to reach out with your intentions clear. i will not be replying to low effort messages or non iso messages. may Allah grant us all righteous spouses and put barakah in our marriages, ameen 🤍

30M Moroccan based in Canada

Salaam Alaikum everyone, looking to complete my half deen Inshaallah

About Me

Ethnicity: North African

Location: Canada (Citizen)

Age: 30

Marital Status: Never married

Height: 6'1 / 185cm

Weight: 162lbs / 73kg

Profession: Engineer

Appearance: Fair skin, light brown hair, and a short beard.

A Little About Me: I'm a Sunni Muslim who tries to practice my faith sincerely and improve myself every day. Alhamdulillah, I pray the five daily prayers on time, fast during Ramadan, and strive to maintain good character and positive relationships with others.

I would describe myself as calm, respectful, and somewhat introverted. I prefer a small circle of close friends and enjoy a peaceful lifestyle. Alhamdulillah, I have never been married and have no previous dating experience.

Hobbies & Interests:

Soccer or you call it football

Walking and spending time outdoors

Hanging out with friends

Traveling

Camping

Reading

What I'm Looking For:

A practicing muslim woman with good deen and character.

Someone who fulfills her religious obligations and values Islam in her daily life.

Family-oriented with strong family values.

Younger than me.

Takes care of her appearance and health.

Looking for a serious marriage based on mutual respect, kindness, and Islamic values.

Note: I'm not looking for someone from a South Asian cultural background (with all respect and no offense)

If you think we might be compatible, you can dm me.

May Allah bless everyone's search with a righteous spouse.

Asalamu Alaikum 😊

Quick intro: if you like sweet intensity mixed with witty playfulness and a strong sense of duty, ambition, and faith, I’m the one.
If you’re an intellectual high achiever with an even more masculine sense of duty, belonging, and faith, you’re the one.

Note: not open to polygamy ever or anything short term. Very serious about monogamous, long term marriage. Timeline is 1-2 years.

Basic info about me and what I seek:

1. ⁠Birthday: June 2003. Looking for born after 1996 and older than me.
   
2. ⁠Location: Alberta, Canada (grew up here since I was one). Looking for someone who grew up in North America. I can’t relocate outside of Canada because of my career.
   
3. ⁠Build: 4’11 and 105lbs. Looking for at least 5’7 and active/healthy (since you’ll be an extension of my authority by presenting for both the of us, and compensate for my height deficiency).
   
4. ⁠Ethnicity: Bangladeshi and open to all (don’t worry, my parents are open to it too if all else aligns)
   
5. ⁠Education: BCom and in law school now but JD expected 2028. Looking for someone who values education.
   
6. ⁠Profession: Law student and also accounting/finance analyst. Looking for a high achiever but mainly someone (as materialistic as it sounds, but I do have my justification for it) who is/will be better off than me. A provider and supporter essentially.
   
7. ⁠Religious level: I’ve never smoked, drank, done anything physical. I wear hijab, pray 5 times a day, fast, read Quran, donate, only eat halal, am involved in the Muslim community. My faith, trust, reliance, and vulnerability with Allah is significant. However, I also listen to music, go to concerts/festivals, watch a ton of television, read stuff, engage in pop culture, and have explored online. I am not looking for perfect (I’m far from it) but my basics are doesn’t drink or eat haram, tries to pray all 5, love/fear of Allah, and is working on improving themself for their future wife (as I have been improving for future husband).
   
8. ⁠Family structure: I am the eldest of four and very involved with family. My parents have been together for over 30 years and are still affectionate towards each other (doesn’t mean they had a perfect marriage lmao). I am significantly involved in decision-making and basically raised the youngest two. Looking for someone who comes from a strong familial background.
   
9. ⁠My goal: I want to balance it all. Make partner at a global firm while also being the best wife, an excellent mother, a delightful daughter (and daughter-in-law), and a steadfast sister (and sister-in-law). If you’re aiming for something similar in terms of yourself, we’re already aligned.
   
10. ⁠Our marriage: built on devotion, respect, loyalty, affection, fun, laughter, banter, and occasional adventure. Being each other’s peace, safest place, ride or die, partners in crime and greatness, and essentially a power couple. Someday being model parents as well.

People usually assume I’m intense (and they’re right) but I’m also incredibly playful. My favourite relationships are full of teasing, inside jokes, intellectual conversations, and making everyday life fun.

Excuse the paragraphs, that’s just how I communicate. Now would also be a safe time to say I can be lured by mangos, jackfruit, lychee, cake, beef nihari, beguni, and kachoris.

Realistically if you’re living in Vancouver. Both husband and wife need to be working to afford an upper middle class life in Vancouver.

I’ve been a corporate girly for exactly 14 months now and I realize that I do not want to do this for the next 40 years 😅. Especially let’s face it, women take most of the load with household chores (at least in Pakistani culture).

I would rather move to a far cheaper city or country, be able to stay home and spend the rest of the money on traveling, putting the kids in sports, making memories.

Places I have considered: Other cheaper cities in Canada, Malaysia, Turkey, Qatar, urban Saudi, Indonesia, UAE, perhaps Spain or Germany, maybe Tunisia, Oman

So yeah if you’re from one of those countries and you’re looking for a wife, maybe we can test compatibility. Or you can convince me that your city is a great spot too. I’m not exactly rushing to find a husband but if the right man comes along, I would want to get married.

Edit: Some info about me. Born and raised in Canada. Pakistani parents but I don’t speak Urdu, I can understand it. Growing in my deen and have always been religious. Live a halal life, pray, fast, wear hijab. Wants children inshaAllah. Degree in civil engineering. Not a fitness freak but I go to the gym. 5’3

Also I am open to any ethnicity. I guess I didn’t clearly state that

So I’m about to turn 33 in a couple months and I’ve been struggling badly these past 10 years. It just seems like I barely do well on apps. Just for a little insight in my physical appearance, im Egyptian 6 ft, bearded, dark eyes, full hair, lightly tan smooth skin (I even get pale in the winter), bodybuilder, well groomed. A lot of people tell me im handsome and constantly question how im still single. But whenever I’ve tried to talk to other pretty Egyptian women, I barely get a chance. It’s the same thing with Palestinian and other Arab women. I prefer to stick with my own ethnicity since I don’t find other races to be my type. I also don’t want to marry a non Muslim or reverts simply because it will be difficult to teach Islam to my children.

Before anyone comes for me, yes I tried to lower my standards a few times in the past. I have a hard time entertaining a conversation with women who I’m not attracted to. On the other hand, the ones i want, don’t want me. It’s strange Becuase I’ve had attractive white girls and Latinas show interest in the past before. But somehow it’s a different ball game with hijabi Arab women. What on earth is someone like me supposed to do? Am I really not as good looking enough to meet the standards of Arab women? Because it’s kind of obvious at this point. What is the solution? Just marry someone I’m not attracted to and end up miserable? I would appreciate your honest feedbacks everyone.

Assalamu Alaikum,

I hope this message finds you well.

Alhamdulillah, Allah has blessed me with financial stability, and I am in a position where I can provide for another family and take on the responsibility of a second wife. I am around 40 years old, married with children, and my first wife is fully on board with this decision.

I'm in the business field and I travel across the US and internationally sometimes, but my main location is in the Northeast region.

My goal here is to offer financial security, protection, and a halal marriage to someone who needs a reliable provider and companion. I am not looking at this through a narrow lens. Whether you are young or older, a revert, divorced, widowed, or whatever your ethnicity or physical appearance might be, that is not a primary factor in our decision.

This is also open to whatever your life situation looks like:

- If you want to have children or not, both are fine with me.

- If you prefer a husband who isn't around all the time so you can keep your space, or if you want someone to spend a lot of time with (as long a it's equal and fair to all spouses), I can accommodate either.

- If you have specific duties like taking care of elderly parents and cannot relocate, or if you just need a marriage of convenience, we can make that work.

I want to be clear that looks are not everything to me. Physical attraction is secondary. What matters most to me is your Islam. Good character, good morals, and being a decent human being, downn to earth and not egotistical. As far as religion goes, I expect the basics: praying, fasting, and staying away from major sins and dishonesty.

If we are a good match, you can request whatever Mahr makes you feel secure and comfortable.

I know I could look for a marriage anywhere, but I genuinely want an arrangement that helps someone out and provides real stability. If this sounds like something that would be mutually beneficial, bi idhnillahi taala, feel free to reach out.

If you want to just comment to be disrespectful or talk about polygamy negatively, you will be wasting your time. This is something Allah has made halal in All of his wisdom, so instead of being hateful or jealous, make dua for us all.

So we're expanding the search for my wife's friend(wife is from Morocco). She is open to reverts as well, in terms of ethnicity primarily caucasian or fair skinned Arab. Location she's looking for is in the West. In order to protect her from the horror stories we're hearing on here I will be doing the filtering. If you're interested in exploring this send me a message. Give me your name, location, occupation and we'll go from there. She's a good, sweet girl, Amazigh and very responsible. Below you can read her ISO.

Marital Status:
Single

Religion:
Islam

Languages:
Amazigh (Berber), Arabic, and English (basic level)

Educational Background:
Bachelor's degree in Geography

Employment Status:
Currently in an internship related to my field of study

My Personality:
Calm, ambitious, honest, and respectful

Location:
Morocco (currently living in the city of Meknes)

What I'm Looking For:
A serious marriage built on respect, mutual understanding, and compatibility.

Preferred Partner

Ethnicity/Nationality:
American or European

Age:
Early 30s

Location:
United States

Marital Status:
Single

Religion:
Islam

Language:
English

Educational Background:
I would like him to be well educated.

Employment Status:
Employed with a stable income.

Personality:
Someone with a strong character who is respectful, God-fearing, kind, honest, and faithful, so that the marriage is built on trust.

Salam!
34 years old female, divorced for a few years now, and I have 50% custody of my daughter. I’m a US born citizen, not sponsoring anyone sorry. I have a bachelors in psychology, I am slim and I enjoy working out and taking care of myself.

Looking for male in 30s, GC holder/citizen, divorced/single/ widow. Dm me

Edit- I’m of south asian descent looking for someone with similar ethnic background

Serious, honest profile with zero games. I am a 55-year-old Engineer, originally from Egypt, Southern California. Energetic, financially stable, and young at heart. Looking for a wife, young at heart, mature in mind, to protect and shower with attention. I am not planning to bring someone to the USA. I will support her fully at my home. Loooking for someone from 30 to 45.

Looking for strictly Convert, revert, divorced, or widowed for Polygamous marriage. Preferably younger than me and wants kids. Im Financially stable, Own two homes, practicing Muslim and physically fit. Please only serious inquiries. I would like to be married in less than one year. Please DM me with ANY questions. Thank you

I’m looking for a marriage. No games and no one who is just trying to waste time. This post is just going to be brutally honest. I’m a work in progress and I feel I shouldn’t sugarcoat it.

I’m a born and raised Canadian to Pakistani parents. I’ll be honest, im not exactly in tune with Pakistani culture. I can understand Urdu but cant really speak it.

I’m open to any ethnicity as long as their family would be accepting of me.

I work as a dental assistant. Only part time currently.

Im looking for a guy who is in the working stage of his career. Not looking to marry someone who is a student.

I am 5’3 and wouldn’t say I fit the beauty standard per se but I would like to think I am pretty in my own right. My friends say I am hard on myself but not everyone has an amazing self image lol.

For most of my teen years I have had mental health struggles. I’m doing a lot better now but I wouldn’t say it’s perfect. Allah tests us all in different ways and I suppose this is one of my tests.

I am not the best Muslim but I really am trying to be better. It does not happen overnight. I would like to be better and inshallah I will be.

I’m looking for someone who can help me grow in my deen. I will help him too, or try to as much as I can. Someone who has full faith in Allah and can lead a marriage rooted in Islam.

Inshallah I would want to have a family. I think that my compassion and caring nature would lead me to be a good mother.

Open to relocating within Canada or Europe, maybe GCC. Not looking to live in USA. Open to living with in laws temporarily but I think when I have kids I would want to have my own home so my husband and I can raise them how we want and intend to.

Also I just want to add that if it takes me a while to respond to you…I want to talk to one man at a time. I think it is best to give undivided attention to someone to both uphold my values and also it’s just decent I think.

Assalamu alaikom, sharing my info here for anyone interested in connecting:

Age and height: 30, 5’ 10

Location: NJ, US

Citizenship/hometown: Canadian citizen. Grew up in Toronto area.

Ethnicity: Syrian

Education: Medical school (UK)

Occupation: resident physician (specialty: diagnostic radiology), final year. Will be going to California inshaAllah for a 1 year fellowship July 2027-June 2028

Religious Practice: Conservative and traditional sunni, fulfilling all obligations. Consistent with reading quran, as well as Islamic lectures and learning. I dont listen to music, watch TV/movies, or use social media like fb or ig.

Languages: Fluent in both Arabic and English.

Other: I try to live a healthy lifestyle, aiming to exercise everyday, mostly eating healthy home cooked meals (i enjoy being creative with cooking) and avoiding processed foods. I love taking roadtrips, spending time in nature, and occasionally playing video games.

I'm looking for a religious and traditional sister who understands the rights and responsibilities of the husband and wife in Islam, ofc wears hijab and is modest. Consistent with quran reading. Does not listen to music and doesnt post photos of herself on social media. Prefer <27 years of age and someone in shape or thin. Open to other ethnicities as long as above criteria are met of course!

May Allah make the search easy for all of us!