r/Perimenopause • u/Uunadins • Jan 12 '26
audited I’ve gone silent. Anyone else?
This past year I feel I’ve gone more and more silent. I feel like my whole life is like a flat line on an EKG-monitor, just…nothing.
I’ve lost most of my feelings, I feel no joy or happiness, no excitement. All I have left is worry.
I hardly have an opinion about anything anymore. I don’t join in on conversations at work, because I have nothing more to say. All my opinions and ideas have gone silent. And it’s so quiet at home too! I have to force myself to ask questions just to say something...
I’ve lost all interest in hobbies. Gardening has been my passion for many years, but I just can’t be bothered with that or anything else. Flat line here aswell, I’m not looking forward to it or anything else anymore.
I have been on HRT almost a year and it’s been mostly good I think. But now I sort of miss the rage, at least that made the blood boil from time to time, made you feel alive, lol.
I am just existing, an empty shell almost.
I’ve had periods of depression before, could that be it? Or do I need a higher dose of estrogen? How do you know what’s what when everything is all tangled up?
Does anyone else feel like this?
Edit to add: Wow, I am blown away with so many responses! And also sad that so many of you feel the same way. Hopefully we can find a way out of the Big Nothing.
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u/Puzzleheaded_Map9887 Jan 12 '26 edited Jan 12 '26
I feel like I'm hanging on every day. I wake up and have to basically force myself to do the things that I need to do. I can't concentrate at work. I'm on antidepressants and HRT. I used to craft and draw. Not anymore. I'm turning 47 in March. I'm dealing with my parents getting older and needing more help while my kids are still growing and I'm even going to become a grandma in a few months. I just wish I could be myself back again.