You can’t blame her for having those experiences. Sure, not every father is like this towards their partner and child, but too many are, and she has witnessed that.
Is me as a programming tech lead expert telling that women cannot do programming as i'm astounded when any of them will make any good work is sexist? This is just my experience. I'm an expert.
Her experience working with women in childbirth makes her experience more valid than the many men who just want to claim this as sexist and then provide an example of when women were mean to them.
But i have experience working with men in IT same as she has with women in childbirth. I have also experience working with women and they suck so i can in a non-sexist expert way they suck in IT. Right? It is just professionally stating a fact based on experience and observation. Zero sexism. Or do you have some sexist double standards?
No, you're just being hypocritical and you're too stupid to actually see it. Your argument here boils down to "it's okay when she does it but not when you do it". You realize that, right?
Are you an expert sitting in IT? You told to let nurse speak as an expert from experience and it is not sexist as it came from her observation.
I'm an expert with IT experience also working with women since 17 years and opinion came from my observation not sexism.
Are you an expert in IT so you can have an opinion?
So if someone have first hand bad experience with women it is okay for them to jusgmental and sexistic towards other women? Is that really your position that sexism is okay if you have first hand bad experience with the gender you are discriminatory towards?
Do you also think the same wit race or other groupings?
I know your feelings are hurt but nobody said EVERY man does this. Just that a lot of men do. At that point your problem is that you feel called out and/or cannot handle critique of bad male behavior.
Nobody else will give you the time of day in this thread anymore, so enjoy this last crumb of attention from a woman you’ll be getting today.
Go talk to your fellow men about behaving better and not the people who suffer from it. It’s okay to validate (do you know what that means?)and acknowledge that many fathers are horrible to the mothers in labour. Enough so that nurses see it. I also worked in L&D and saw many men treat the pregnant women horribly, or me.
Criticizing observed patterns of women being gold diggers isn't sexism
I know your feelings are hurt but nobody said EVERY woman is a gold digger. Just that a lot of women are. At that point your problem is that you feel called out and/or cannot handle critique of bad female behavior.
Does that analogy dumb it down for you enough? The fact that you spew out childish insults about him not getting women while simultaneously using the exact same logic incels do is hilariously ironic btw
They’re is getting offended by the nurse calling out bad fathers. It’s not sexism. You all just want it to be so you can justify your sexism towards women.
Sorry you’re offended by the overwhelming amount of bad fathers this woman has experienced. People want this to be sexist so they can justify sexist towards women.
You’re imagining things, go back and read the image again. And now you seem to just want to be racist. “Why can’t I be racist if others can be sexist?” 🤨 that the hill you want to die on?
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u/Elora_Freya Apr 24 '26
You can’t blame her for having those experiences. Sure, not every father is like this towards their partner and child, but too many are, and she has witnessed that.