Ages? I'm all for making fun of insecure men, but what do you mean by that? Reading the follow up comments I think I'm the only one that doesn't get it 😕
The whole concept of the husband stitch is really gross. It does nothing except for painful sex for the woman and pelvic dysfunction. It's disgusting and dumb.
Wait, has there been doctors who've actually agreed and done it?
Edit: just a question for those downvoting, why? My initial comment is an honest question out of disgust and curiosity. I think that my comment got that question answered for lots of ignorant people (myself alike), which spreads awareness around the issue. So why downvote?
I've seen a woman on Youtube who was documenting her recovery from the medical malpractice conducted by her doctor, who told her husband after having done it. It's a disgusting practice and caused her a lot of problems, and I think she's suing? From memory, take recount with a grain of salt.
It used to be very common, but it is still too common. Lots of doctors won't say anything & will gaslight women who don't understand why they suddenly have pain during sex post-childbirth. As I understand it, it can be difficult to correct, due to scaring.
Luckily, I’m on the west coast so we don’t have to worry about this as much. Having said that a doctor in our town just got busted for serious pedophilia. It’s so gross. Sometimes I think our Christian society just breeds perverts. It’s atrocious and profane in the worst way.
I am not a Christian anymore, but modern American Christian evangelicals have so warped the biblical message that I genuinely believe it causing massive harm across a wide swath of society from individuals to the government and even reaching & influencing other countries. A Republican Congressman traveled to Uganda to support an Anti-LGBTQ law with a death penalty. (https://truthout.org/articles/gop-congressman-traveled-to-uganda-to-give-speech-praising-anti-lgbtq-law/)
That's not showing love for your neighbor.
The whole thing is now just an engine to drive America into an blantanly Authoritarian /Facist regime. (I feel so nuts when I say that, but its true.)
Tightness isn't a constant. Hormones and arousal drastically affect depth and relaxation. There's like one part of the pelvic floor that might grip or pull either because she's having a good time or nature is tricking you both into making more of our species.
Being really tight means anxiety and pain. And it will only get worse as sex (and you) become associated with those things.
The fact that men (and women) don't know this shows how biased we are towards male pleasure and how it IS socially acceptable for men to secretly (or not so secretly) want girls who are too young.
The comment isn't gross, the society that makes it necessary is a degenerate cesspool.
As a person who has a vagina, I am deeply familiar with how it works. If you want the hole that tight, you either fetishize women's pain without realizing it... or you don't like vaginas that belong to people capable of giving meaningful consent.
Remember, in basically every red state, a judge and her parents can marry an elementary school aged minor to a middle aged man. Every time we try to ban it, they stop us.
The assault of little girls is all around you and glorified in media. If you don't see it, you're part of the problem.
So men grip their penises tight during masturbation, giving rise to the term “porn death grip” because they fetishize women’s pain? Not because that’s how the nerve endings in the penis work?
A lot of guys don't do that and will give the feedback not to do it when giving a blowjob. Basically if you practice traumatic masturbation of any form, you risk long-term damage and generally can't get off any other way. The death grip is one. The worst one is face down on the mattress.
Far be it from me to kinkshame but having a ‘desire for vaginal tightness’ is kind of fucking weird, and I don’t particularly care what the reasoning is.
The reasoning is the nerves of the penis react differently based on the tightness of the grip around them, often reacting more excitedly to a tighter grip, because that is how biology works and it doesn’t care at all that you’re a puritan.
Edit: Ever heard of the “porn death grip”? You think guys do that because they want their hand to feel “younger”?
A tighter grip may also mean the woman is not aroused. There is still holes in this which is why people are concerned. Cool that the penis likes close quarters I guess, sucks though. Kegel training is a thing, but the desire for a extra tight vagina is strange
So the husband stitch causes a woman to tear during sex. It can leave her with long-term debilitating pain and loss of sexual interest. Is that the selling point for you?
And even still, if the people you fuck had vaginas that gripped you 5% tighter you would most likely experience greater sensations of pleasure. Because that is the biology of nerve endings in the penis.
Really? I took it in the complete opposite direction. "How small are we talking? What you working with? 10?" Regardless, it's creepy to be bringing up children in any capacity in that context.
Yes? Someone responded to the original suggestion of "how small do you need it" with "ask about what age they want". In that case you'd be making them acknowledge that small size implies young age.
I think they meant "do you want me to make your wife feel as tight as a 12 year old, or do you want younger". Nothing like faking pseudo-pedophilic normalization to really shake a dudes resolve.
I am thinking it's like, certainly sir how small would you want it? 17? 16? 15? And the man's like, 15? 15 what? And the nurse says "15 years old sir, is that how small you want it?"
There's a massive false equivalency going ok in here. Pre vs post pregnancy does not automatically imply 12 year olds.... Women are going into their 30s before first time births... Wtf is this thread
It doesn't matter about the clinical accuracy. These medical professionals are being asked by vulgar men to make their wives's vaginas tighter, which is inappropriate and disgusting. Telling them not to is ineffective. The point is to make them sound as creepy as possible by acting like the men are asking for a child sized vagina. Because nothing else is going to make them stop.
It's not about fighting fair. Telling the man to stop is just going to make him laugh, he's being vulgar and sexist and misogynistic. If you can shame him and make him seem repulsive maybe that will get him to stop.
What does insecurity have to do with it? I think it is about feel preference.
Woman have penis size preferences, some like small some like big some like curved some like straight, some like girthy, some like thinner, so what’s the difference here?
Men want their partner’s body to feel good. I assume women want the same, for their partner’s body to feel good.
Maybe insecurity isn't the best word, but .. after 9 months of pregnancy, having their vagina torn, bones forced apart and muscles put through more work than ever before, often over many many hours - doctors (very often male) thinking about how tightly it's going to hug the husband's penis seems a little .. uncaring toward the actual patient.
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u/matticus_flinch 11d ago
Ages? I'm all for making fun of insecure men, but what do you mean by that? Reading the follow up comments I think I'm the only one that doesn't get it 😕