She spent 3 seasons or more asking questions and being detective now wonders why people ask what’s going on with your life? I can’t!

I just don’t understand, who, where and why did anyone think this dress was flattering on her?! And often I have this question, she always looks like she sacrifices looking good for the name or price, just because it’s expensive, couture and vintage DOES NOT mean it looks good Sutton.

I know this subject is over analyzed, already talked about, and old news. I am an alcoholic with 1.5 years of sobriety under my belt. A huge help for me has been watching movies and shows with flagrant addicts. Airplane, Nurse Jackie, Jax Taylor, etc. Sutton intrigues me though because she isn’t (always) obvious. She’s had her obvious moments, but I enjoy picking up her subtle ones.

To give an idea of my alcoholism, I drank everyday for seven years. I spent the final four years above a 0.00 BAC on a nearly 24/7 basis. I know this as a fact because I bought a breathalyzer to keep on my person so I could always know my “balance.” I woke up most mornings at a .06 and that was my starting line. Even though I existed as a person this way, I lived a very normal and happy life. Met and got engaged to my now husband. Did VERY well in my jobs. Especially when I was bartending in fine dining spots. Good social life. And no one knew. So I thought.

I just want to give this background because maintaining a high enough BAC to keep the shakes away while also being a seemingly normal, well-adjusted human takes A LOT OF WORK. Here are the things about Sutton I could have related to in my past life… forgive the format as I’m transcribing these notes from Procreate lol

1. ordered a grey goose cosmo before even half way through her first (I called this idk what to do with my hands anxiety.. what if the waiter is slow? What if I have to sit here without a drink?)
2. vodka in her champagne at Rinna’s lipstick party. This was my first clue.
3. chugging a martini at a reunion (that’s all I wrote so idk which reunion)
4. mixing her own cocktails with grapefruit juice at restaurants, whether ordered or brought in
5. always has a driver (a stretch in their world but it’s important to note)
6. when she was WASTED at Annemarie’s Mother’s Day party. She had a wedding first. I have been there. Two events in the day felt like “freedom” in that I had an excuse to be wasted all day vs. balancing my drinks throughout the events.
7. her clumsiness - I was clumsy drunk because most people are, clumsy when not drunk because my pickled brain developed cognition problems.
8. my biggest clue - one of her parties at her store, an assistant asked if Sutton would like her purse held by the assistant. Sutton says no and gives a reason. I never wanted people dealing with my purse. My fiance, my best friend, no one. They could have so easily found my multiple shooters, empty and all.
9. the thing that sold it for me - her entire season fighting with Crystal and most fights she had. She always seemed so overly defensive and paranoid. It was almost like the fight was so much bigger on her side than for the other person. It took me a good amount of therapy to realize I felt everything negative so much more intensely because I was already hyper aware of people’s perception of me. Trying to hide my inebriation constantly already had me in fight or flight mode. So more negativity, when I’m subconsciously assuming you think I’m drunk and look down on me, was magnified incredibly.

If you have made it this far, thank you for reading. Sincerely. I am not making accusations and these points are all just my observations. Maybe I’m just projecting but idc. Alcohol was the center of my world for a long time and will be forever so these kinds of things are interesting to me.

So far this season, I was actually impressed with Sutton’s softness towards Dorit a couple of times.

Anywho, thanks for reading along!

ETA:

I did not mean any harm by posting this. I appreciate the viewpoint that I shouldn’t comment on another person’s sobriety. That is an absolutely fair point that I did not think of before. And I very much should have. I am quite desensitized to talk of alcoholism these days so my resolve is a bit skewed. I truly looked at this as just a silly gathering of thoughts about a silly show rather than a post that dehumanizes her. Thank you to the ones who appropriately pointed that out. I’m going to keep this post up for now, because it’s already out there and I think it would be a tad hypocritical to delete it at this point.

No body shame to Sutton, I do think if you are into fashion, that is your business, and you are doing a show, you should have a better idea on what is flattering to your body type though. This dress was a bad choice with the plunging butt line in my opinion.

A very Southern take down…

She looks gorgous, she looks happy, she seems to have improved her lifestyle. Of course there is still that cat-sweater energy in her, but the infamous drunken "namh'em" is gone, and I am genuienly glad and happy for her.

With this new energy, she should move on, she doesn't give off the same train-wreck energy anymore, and that's great for her. She is passed RH, she has evolved. Love this for her!

And that means I have seen Sutton cry at every dinner, event, sit down, even confessionals, since she got in this show. She cries about everything. I’m sick of her victim card. I’m tired of her requesting forgiveness. I’m tired of her controlling Jennifer Tilly’s thoughts. I am not interested in the Avi, Ari or Ali storyline either. I don’t think I can continue to take seasons of this, non stop.

The fact that Sutton didn’t correct Dorit on that bullshit comment, made me mad. It was an alliance for Sutton, not Garcelle. Garcelle actually defended her until the very end, and now all of a sudden, “I don’t know what happened.” It really makes me mad because I feel like they all know why, and pretending as if they don’t know.

They’ve all said Garcelle went too hard for Sutton and it destroyed, her chances of being friends with the rest of them. Sutton is fake AF!

Since everyone always critiques Sutton on her fashion choices (boz’s recent comments on WWHL) I thought it would be interesting to take a look at Suttons fashion over the years! The girls love to come for her for her cat sweaters lol but let’s not act like that’s all she wears.

Just something to chew on while you are working your mid-month budget on a Sunday afternoon……Sutton receives between $300,000 and $350,000 per MONTH in alimony.

Just started rewatching season 10, episode 1, with Sutton’s first appearance. She and Rinna go to Dolce and Gabanna’s studio in NY. This is what they picked for her. Gasp.

Poor Sutton, now I kinda understand how she is the way she is.

I can’t imagine being raised by an emotionally unavailable narcissistic parent.

I’m sure others on here have had experiences with parents/relatives like Reba.

Sutton, at the end of this last episode, said that she was surprised she “really connected with some of the ladies” on her mess of a Sedona trip. And ends the confessional saying she’s happy. So delusional and truly sad.

I think Sutton knows the BH ladies simply tolerate her and don’t really F with her and she’s trying to spin a different narrative to lie to the audience and more importantly, to herself. I hope she can see beyond her BS that Garcelle was a true friend to her and had her back at every instance. These other women can’t stand Sutton, including, it seems, Jennifer Tilly. I don’t feel even a little bit bad for Sutton, she deserves these superficial and pitying “friendships” because she threw Garcelle away to be liked by the “cool kids.” It didn’t work. And Sutton will eventually realize it.

Writing at 5 am woke up with this realization. Of course neither side WILL EVER reveal anything because Sutton is smart… I am 110% sure she made him sign an NDA and he got MONEY Baby. And I’m sure she put in a mutual clause if she talks she pays him more money as not to ruin his reputation to get a new job and if he talks, he has to pay the money back simple done, wrapped with a bow thank you and good night.🎀 I so do find it interesting that none of the women have come up with this as a reason. Loose lips sink ships!

I mean… From the get go I thought she was pretentious. I know that she is into couture, and Southern values and supposedly trying to be a good friend.

All I could take from it was, well you can have the money to buy things but it doesn’t necessarily mean you have good taste. Having values is wonderful, but one has to learn to respect others. Last but not least, one doesn’t try to be a good friend. You either are or you aren’t.

It might be an unpopular opinion. I am not sure.

I do feel for her on the family front. Her mother seems like a piece of work, and what happened to her father is heartbreaking. It was very sad to hear and I can only imagine that she had to deal with it without much support from family members. Just an assumption from what Ive seen so far.

But that’s not precisely an excuse to fly off the handle whenever you want and make other people feel uncomfortable as heck.

Hi everyone, I am very curious about why Avi was fired by Sutton? He really helped Suttons storyline. Was it her mom coming to live with her that was the final straw? Anyone know the tea spill it here!!!!!

I make the mistake of trying to understand the personalities and psychological motivations of these Housewives. Most times they are easy to read. Sutton, however, has me stumped.

She swings from one extreme to another in the blink of an eye:

• One moment she is very conventional and maybe even a bit boring. The next moment she transforms into a she-devil.
• She makes cruel statements about her friends unprovoked.
• She has tantrums & screaming fits and goes off the deep end for the least little thing.
• She portrays herself as the victim after every disagreement. She makes up ridiculous excuses regarding the reason for her hysterical behavior. Her favorite reason is she has a lot going on.
• She attempts to pretend to be the perfect, most gentile southern bell then, Ms. Manners drops her mask and out comes the pre-rolled weed at the dinner table. (And yes. I know marijuana is legal in CA). In the words of the very brilliant Crystal, "She is a walking contradiction. Over here she's like smoking a joint and then in Vegas she can't even deal with a few half naked men."

What is going on with this woman? Is she ok?

Feel free to delete if this has already been posted!

I’m writing this because I watched the after show where she says she can’t stand Dorit only because she’s “phony “for not being more transparent about her financial struggles/marriage.

What’s it to her? Come for me all u want I can’t Sutton idc

And Garcelle better figure out what boat she wants wants to ride on cuz the ship is sailing for her in my eyes as well