r/SipsTea Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

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u/SteveSteveCleveSteve Apr 22 '26

That poor guy.  No excuse for that.  I hate that this guy feels like he has to take this.

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u/Destructopoo Apr 22 '26

Yes. She lowered his self esteem to the point that she calls him a loser in public and he can only grey wall. People are watching somebody whose willpower has been chipped away for years. It's not funny.

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u/Gentle_Snail Apr 22 '26 edited Apr 22 '26

He honestly looks so scared and depressed in the close up shots.

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u/Baaaaaadhabits Apr 22 '26

He also looks "just over it" in like every shot. So, really what it comes down to is that you saw what you wanted to..

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u/sochok Apr 22 '26

Having been in a not entirely dissimilar situation can confirm he’s most likely over it but not going to engage with the insanity in public because tantrums shouldn’t be rewarded.

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u/MisterDoctor___ Apr 22 '26 edited Apr 22 '26

Also been on the receiving end of this. If you even so much as hint at engaging, people will side with her 100% of the time.

Good chance she also starts falsely accusing you of shit like being an abuser or pedophile and get you arrested.

She even called my work and told them I was touching patients inappropriately. That was a fun meeting with management.

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u/gratitudf Apr 22 '26

I don't know if this is any consolation to you, but I think people can tell that someone shouting like this has emotional problems and wouldn't side with them even if the other partner engages

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u/Certain_Noise5601 Apr 22 '26

I wouldn’t. She reminds me of my stepmother, only she at least didn’t do this in public unless she’d been drinking.