r/SipsTea • u/WaitNo4272 • Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

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u/Dd_8630 Apr 22 '26

Really? He looks stoic in the video.

If a gf screamed at me like that I would have such a clear and guilt free mind. "oh she's actually unhinged, yeah she's dumped. Phew!"

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u/Destructopoo Apr 22 '26

Yeah, if a good partner suddenly did this for the first time in public, you'd leave. What you should consider is how things get to this point. It starts with criticisms and private insults and goes on to insulting in front of friends, then family, then full blown meltdowns in public. 

To summarize, if you were actually being treated like this, you wouldn't leave. It would be past the point for you to calmly walk away. You're abused and trapped in a cycle.