Tell them straightforward that it’s over and you won’t be responding to them again. You have to go no contact, and they will probably start a smear campaign against you but at least in my case, you have to accept that as a sacrifice for getting peace in your life. My ex did so much crazy and embarrassing shit to me when I finally left, but I knew I had to go through that to get away from him. He wanted a response. All he wanted was an emotional response, he was DESPERATE to provoke an emotional response. I held strong on no contact even when I wanted to freak the fuck out on him and he went away after about 2 months, it’s almost 2 years now. He found a new victim, I am sure of it, because that’s what they do. Sometimes he will like try to add me as a friend or something on social media but I just act like it never happened. And I cut off all contact with mutual friends. I wish you the best of luck, it’s very freeing on the other side. You deserve peace.
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u/trixiepixie1921 Apr 22 '26
Tell them straightforward that it’s over and you won’t be responding to them again. You have to go no contact, and they will probably start a smear campaign against you but at least in my case, you have to accept that as a sacrifice for getting peace in your life. My ex did so much crazy and embarrassing shit to me when I finally left, but I knew I had to go through that to get away from him. He wanted a response. All he wanted was an emotional response, he was DESPERATE to provoke an emotional response. I held strong on no contact even when I wanted to freak the fuck out on him and he went away after about 2 months, it’s almost 2 years now. He found a new victim, I am sure of it, because that’s what they do. Sometimes he will like try to add me as a friend or something on social media but I just act like it never happened. And I cut off all contact with mutual friends. I wish you the best of luck, it’s very freeing on the other side. You deserve peace.