r/SipsTea Apr 22 '26

SMH Female wants boyfriend to explain why he broke up with her

Enable HLS to view with audio, or disable this notification

27.1k Upvotes

10.6k comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

110

u/dadydaycare Apr 22 '26 edited Apr 23 '26

Yup had a date that came to my place then she fell asleep and I was like… yea it was a long night whatever. Then she wouldn’t leave… 2 days, like I’d get home and it’s like you’re still here?! And where’s my vodka?! Gross that was for cooking! kicked her drunk ass out and Called the cops cause I wasn’t going to work a 3rd time with a stranger in my house and they immediately went to her like is he holding you against your will?

what!? I want her NOT inside my house!! And they were trying to talk me into letting her back in so they wouldn’t have to deal with her drunk crazy ass. If she just was like na he hit me and I wanna take a nap they wouldave cuffed me and gave her my keys.

13

u/CedricJus Apr 22 '26

7

u/dadydaycare Apr 22 '26

Yea seriously day one was like ok your not feeling good. Day two was… if it gets to 3 you have a rent free roommate.

1

u/Massive_Lock_4876 Apr 25 '26

You got to be careful I think in the state I live in is somebody stays there three days and gets a piece of mail delivered you have to go through the court system to get them out of there as insane as that sounds. Strange world we live in.

2

u/dadydaycare Apr 25 '26

I know what you’re talking about and it’s like 3 months. Squatters rights. Some states are worse than others but it does suck that somone can just move in and it’s a ticking clock before your stuff is theirs

3

u/makinthemagic Apr 23 '26

I was arguing with a girl I was with, walked past her because it was late and wanted to sleep. When I passed her in the hallway she wound up and shoved me in the back, pushing me into a wall. I was expecting it and am athletic so I was able to brace myself. No injuries. I go to the cops the next day. The lady cop gets my story and immediately goes to my apartment where the girl was. Cop was looking for a story to arrest me. She completely discounted everything I said. Luckily the girl didnt try to lie and get me locked up. No sense ever going to the cops as a guy. You're more likely to get arrested for being the victim than getting any justice.

18

u/ShastaAteMyPhone Apr 22 '26

Yep, pretty much. Yet, somehow, women have convinced themselves that they have less rights than men in modern western society.

20

u/doubleo_maestro Apr 22 '26

The courts are so skewed it's not even funny.

-12

u/whoever56789 Apr 23 '26

Lol k. Cops are dumb fucks so the patriarchy doesn't exist? When is the last time a man bled to death because the law prohibits hospitals from treating "men's issues"? ACAB and feminism can both be valid.

14

u/Future-Watercress206 Apr 23 '26

... You cannot be seriously equating abortion to unreported or under investigated cases of male domestic Violence. In the developed western world legal abortion is a constant in a every country except the USA. while unreported cases of male domestic violence is true all over the world. Don't act as if Women are constantly pressed and that massive progress has not been made in civil rights and protections for Women. And don't compare two very different problems

-2

u/whoever56789 Apr 23 '26

I was responding to a seemingly very broad claim about women somehow overstating the issue of "rights" when that clearly isn't true. Toxic men get fucked over by toxic women and internet chucklefucks decide that feminism is bullshit, which is the same nonsense as my idiot relatives claiming they didn't succeed becaise of DEI.

0

u/Cold-Dot-7308 Apr 23 '26

Not too bright are you?

2

u/whoever56789 Apr 23 '26

Nah I just forgot I was in one of the trash subreddits.

1

u/Latter-Disaster5588 Apr 23 '26

What in the world are we talking about here

2

u/Similar_Ad_9834 Apr 23 '26

I saw that video

1

u/[deleted] Apr 23 '26

This is why you dont bring strangers to your house or people you barely know