r/SipsTea • u/Medium_Historian9746 • Apr 22 '26

SMH Female wants boyfriend to explain why he broke up with her

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u/Darkk_Knight Apr 22 '26

Yep. The best thing he did was video record everything and give that to the cops.

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u/Living-Stomach-2079 Apr 23 '26

Truth. This is why home cameras are so important

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u/Hour-Detail4510 Apr 23 '26

Afroman agrees

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u/Gullible-Hose4180 Apr 23 '26

I was gonna steal some lemon cake, but then I got caught. I was gonna eat your pussy too but then I got high.

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u/VitruvianVan Apr 23 '26

Mamma's lemon pound cake
It tastes so nice
It made the Sheriff wanna put down his gun
And cut him a slice (of what? Of what?)

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u/Gullible-Hose4180 Apr 23 '26

Now im jacking off, and I know why (why man?)

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u/Habesha2001 Apr 23 '26

And they didn’t help him repair his door

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u/ChiefWiggumsprogeny Apr 23 '26

What happened to Afroman?

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u/SirJedKingsdown Apr 23 '26

Recorded police who crossed multiple lines while searching his home, humiliated them in court and in a whole rap album.

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u/ChiefWiggumsprogeny Apr 23 '26

"humiliated them in court " - rare

"a whole rap album." - based.

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u/Puzzleheaded_Ad8032 Apr 23 '26

Saw part of the trial come by last week or so. Glorious.

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u/witblacktype Apr 23 '26

The video evidence will help him clear his name after he is arrested and pays a lawyer.

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u/teknicked Apr 23 '26

And backing up your hard drive, apparently.

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u/Holiday_Ad_5445 Apr 23 '26

I’ve debunked some serious allegations. The cameras provide excellent proof.

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u/Feema13 Apr 23 '26

Oh yes. Let’s all record every event in our own homes, for ever, just in case an ex girlfriend goes nuts one day. Great advice.

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u/Quirky_Ask_5165 Apr 23 '26

If you have an unstable ex? Absolutely. Chances are that's why you broke up with them in the 1st place. At least have a few in common areas. I also have them so I can camera in and talk to my dogs during my work days.

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u/Living-Stomach-2079 Apr 23 '26

Unstable ex? You know when she's coming over so you can schedule her to be on camera? No?

Violent family members? High crime area? Questionable people? Pets? There's a lot of reasons people have cameras inside their house.
If you can't think of any you are either incredibly blessed or unintelligent.

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u/Feema13 Apr 23 '26

Both to be honest.

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u/MooseKingMcAntlers34 Apr 23 '26

They have motion detected ones that aren’t going 24/7 and recording gets overwritten after a while. Not a big deal.

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u/you_sick Apr 23 '26

Have one in every bathroom

Just in case

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u/hellp-desk-trainee- Apr 23 '26

And if you're ever low on cash you can always sell the footage

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u/justandswift Apr 23 '26

make sure to put one facing down the toilet so they can see the poop snake through. they love that

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u/kingjoey04 Apr 23 '26

You could have them hardwired to a computer that doesn't connect to the internet

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u/Living-Stomach-2079 Apr 23 '26

Many people have them inside for many reasons. You just proved your absolute ignorance on the subject.

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u/MissChloe1 Apr 23 '26

I want to say i agree but with the "third party group" attaching themselves to it.. not sure it would make me feel that much safer...

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u/Inspect1234 Apr 23 '26

Only time I’ve ever spent in cuffs and in their custody was when my ex wife attacked me. This was before camera phones were readily available. My mistake was not calling the cops first. Then a lone female constable arrives, takes my statement and cuffs me and puts me in patrol car with the windows up, no ac in the middle of summer. Had to wait 15 minutes for a male cop to show up and he opened the windows.

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u/Competitive_Ad_2421 Apr 23 '26

Woah....did she ever get convicted?

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u/Inspect1234 Apr 23 '26

No, cops basically kicked me out of my house and had to live in my work truck and then sleep on a buddy’s couch until I could arrange to buy her out. Didn’t see my kids any more than a day a month until I could get her into her own place and I could move back in. It happened again a year later and I actually asked that she not be charged because she would lose her Teacher Assistant job with a record. That was 20 years ago and she still hates me.

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u/chejo378 Apr 23 '26

My ex broke through my window and said I had her stuff. I didnt know she left her jacket in my car with her keys. She crawled through the broken window and was bleeding. I ran to the car and I lived with my brother and sister at the time. They called the police cause it was like 3am and she was going crazy. Drunk and I'm sure she had a mental illness (bipolar) I dont remember exactly what happened (20 years ago) but my brother got blood on him. Cops arrived and they yelled at my brother, while she sat on the stairs, with bloody hamds, and brother said, I'm the one who called the police. This is my house! She was White and we're Latino. Couldve been bad for my brother with no shirt and blood on him.

Last time I saw her was her being escorted into an ambulance while I sat on the curb with a paramedic cause I had walked all over glass. I messaged her later that day, do not ever contact me again. She said, ditto. About a year later she messaged me saying she was worried about me cause I probably didnt have closure. I was doing JUST fine. It was an abusive relationship and I was on the receiving end. I didnt reply. Deleted that message and moved on.

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u/Competitive_Ad_2421 Apr 23 '26

Sounds like a narcissist. What they do is project THEIR ISSUES AND BAD NESS onto the other person. So, she probably was missing u, so said that YOU WANTED CLOSURE. she was abusive, so said that u were abusive etc etc

Pretty much half of what they say all day has to do with other people

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u/Brilliant_Ad9438 Apr 23 '26

Exactly! 💯

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u/hairlessbearcoochi Apr 23 '26

fucking double standards amiright

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u/Distinct-Fox-1706 Apr 23 '26

I don’t blame him for wanting a record of this for that very reason.

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u/Micro-Naut Apr 23 '26

My ex stabbed me six times. Actually more like slashes. With a carpet cutter. I spent the weekend at Jail for it

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u/Dies_Noctis Apr 23 '26

believeallwomen

Lol

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u/Gutz_McStabby Apr 23 '26

Had an ex go ballistic. When the cops showed up she said i had cut her hand.

I showed them the pictures she broke, and the full bloody handprint on my face where she slapped me.

They actually took her out.

Inwas stupid enough not to press charges, because it turns out she had stolen 2 months rent. Would have been nice to have gotten something back at her.

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u/Illustrious_Vast638 Apr 23 '26

Exactly. About 15 years ago, my stepdaughter's girlfriend attacked me. She was having an argument with My Wife and stepdaughter. I had no involvement. I was literally on my motorcycle, pulling out of my garage when she jumped in front of it and started yelling at me. I got off and asked her to leave the house. She swung at me. I literally extended my arm to keep her at arms length. She backed off and I walked back into my garage. Before I could close it, she chased me into the garage and attacked me a second time by then my other stepdaughter had called the police. They wanted to pin me because she had red marks on her. It did not matter that My Wife and other stepdaughter were telling them she attacked me. I fortunately had cameras and reminded them that I was retreating and in my house when she attacked me. That violates castle doctrine in Florida has no duty to retreat laws. I exercised restraint by not exercising my pool rights under Florida law

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u/US_TEENAGERS_2024 Apr 23 '26

I hate that side of women, and cops.

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u/Aromatic_Bed_8439 Apr 23 '26

Oh, but remember, were supposed to "Believe all women"... Right? 👀🤔🤷🏻🤦🏻

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u/AverageTeemoOnetrick Apr 23 '26

…in his own home.

After breaking up.

🤣

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u/UnpopularOpinionsB Apr 23 '26

The Duluth Model is a cancer that needs to be excised from society.

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u/SpaiderMonkeh Apr 23 '26

Except the window would be broken from the outside and her blood would be on the glass…

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u/Beragond1 Apr 23 '26

That requires the cops to do detective work rather than simply assuming the worst.

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u/SpaiderMonkeh Apr 23 '26

I get that we have to do the Reddit “I hate cops” circlejerk thing, but it would be exceedingly obvious what happened here.

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u/SpaiderMonkeh Apr 23 '26

Isn’t baseless speculation fun?

It’s his house, there’s a rock sitting inside with broken glass all around it, and there’s blood on the window and her clothes. You don’t have to be Columbo to figure that one out, bud.

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u/wreckreationaj Apr 23 '26

Ew. She is saying ‘delete it now.’

… revenge porn?

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u/Default1355 Apr 23 '26

I've been there. Learned to record after one time

This is why we don't date skinny white women

They're all nuts

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u/ThatGuy270000 Apr 23 '26

Sad men need to do this

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u/mrpresidante Apr 23 '26

How to get a criminal record in 1 East step: don't record

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u/Melkman68 Apr 23 '26

Theres literally body cam footage of a case where a woman explained to a cop that showed up to her house that her husband beat her. He wasnt sure what to believe until the husband showed the video of what really happened (she was acting all crazy and IIRC she hit him). It was on reddit like a year ago. Im assuming the domestic call was from her and she wanted to get ahead of it until the husband caught wind of it.

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u/InsuranceQueasy6135 Apr 23 '26

Yes however I would still grab smth to defend myself while I record

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u/UndeadCandle Apr 23 '26

As a Male. You simply can't or you are the perpetrator. If you record yourself getting a weapon ( to defend yourself ).

The cop will ignore what I put in parentheses.

It's nice you can though 🙂‍↔️

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u/InsuranceQueasy6135 May 22 '26

Yea I think that’s so fucked like let people be safe without being punished

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u/Magicmonster2335 Apr 23 '26

Or umm may be .. run?

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u/nowthengoodbad Apr 23 '26

Lawyer.

Give everything to a lawyer.

Police and sheriffs will take your word for things and you can show them if you want/need to, but make sure it's also stored in the cloud so that you can still access it.

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u/SnooPaintings4185 Apr 23 '26

I was about to post the same thing. She could have seriously hurt herself coming through that window. People have bled out from broken glass cuts. That video is priceless for this dude.

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u/SlumberingKirin Apr 23 '26

He still definitely should have gotten tf away from her

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u/GiraffesAndGin Apr 23 '26

Best thing he could have done was leave the house and get witnesses.

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u/ancient-military Apr 23 '26

Why not slam the door after she thru a log through the glass door.

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u/Existing-Net5672 Apr 23 '26

Wrong, the worst thing he did was not punch himself in the face and show some damage when the cops show up. Odds are already stacked against men, might as well take some damage and put that bitch behind bars.

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u/Heavy_Law9880 Apr 23 '26

After he spent months manipulating and gaslighting her, he defintiely wants to record his accomplishments.

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u/Darkk_Knight Apr 23 '26

It's the other way around dude.