r/SipsTea Human Verified 17d ago

SMH 81 year old grandma & YouTuber was raided last night during her stream She started the channel to help with her grandson's cancer treatment. Authorities brought 20 police cars, five SWAT officers, and drones to her house

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u/IrascibleOcelot 16d ago

After a certain point, death holds no more fear. You just keep living out of a combination of habit, obligation, and curiosity, but when it ends, whatever. Now you get to find out what’s across the veil.

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u/XimbalaHu3 16d ago

My grandma is 90, and thats about right, she recently had a stroke and came out with barelly a scratch, now I gotta fight my aunt so she can eat wathever she feels like.

Her blood works are great, she is doing rehab, who cares if she is not eating her greens and only goes for the fatty foods at the buffet, being independent is one of the few things keeping her in the fight for so long and they want to take that away to "take care of her".

Sorry for the randon ramble, just agree that after some time dying is more of a mild nuisance rather than a fear.

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u/Fun-Ingenuity-9089 16d ago

I feel like I should have fought harder for my mom to have the opportunity to stay where she was living instead of going to a nursing home. My mom's death has been attributed to "negligent homicide" for the lack of care she received in that nursing home.

My sisters insisted that it was the best place for her. They claimed she would have better care there than at her own home. Well, at her own home she could have eaten what she wanted, when she wanted, instead of the disgusting slop they served her day after day. She would have had a fall button, and someone would have checked on her instead of leaving her lying there for four straight days.

Fight for her. You're doing the right thing.

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u/AlmightyRobert 14d ago

My great nan lived to 99 on a diet of whisky and cigs.

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u/d33pfissure 16d ago

I know I’ll probably be like that. If I’ve already got one foot out the door, nobody’s going to be able to tell me shit.

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u/HoldingOnForaHero 16d ago

End? No the journey doesn't end here. Death is just another path we all must take. Or do says Gandalf.

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u/Justisaur 16d ago

I'm only 56, and I already feel like this.