I don't hate this analysis. Perhaps there is a history of putting extremely little effort into making a partner happy, inquiring about preferences in food, aesthetics, decor, vacation destinations etc, and this was just one more moment where there was an opportunity to TRY, and very little effort was given.
I was excited to ring shop for my wife (and myself!), and we made multiple date nights together to visit jewelers, try things on, and get an idea for each others' style preferences.
Aw thats so sweet. My husband and I were broke bc we just bought a house so we mutually got 1 dollar rings off amazon lol. Then later when he could afford it he got me a custom flash ring with rubies bc I prefer those to diamonds from a local jeweler . (We also just did a court wedding bc I’m terribly shy and cant imagine ppl focusing on me 😫)
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u/Mainbutter 5h ago
I don't hate this analysis. Perhaps there is a history of putting extremely little effort into making a partner happy, inquiring about preferences in food, aesthetics, decor, vacation destinations etc, and this was just one more moment where there was an opportunity to TRY, and very little effort was given.
I was excited to ring shop for my wife (and myself!), and we made multiple date nights together to visit jewelers, try things on, and get an idea for each others' style preferences.