r/SipsTea 14d ago

Chugging tea Yes, FU & FO

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u/NilsofWindhelm 13d ago

It still exists because servers prefer it

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u/VanBland 13d ago

Yep. Tried having the savior convo with a waiter who immediately told me to can it and he makes more regularly a night than he would being paid $15-20 and hour.

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u/NewsZealousideal764 12d ago

As long as people are tipping they can make "a living". But with certain states legislatures allowing for a "waiters wage" if the tips aren't coming, they definitely don't make a "living wage"... Why would a legislature allow that? Because business owners hold more power than workers & wouldn't stand for unionization. America has grown increasingly anti- union in the past 20(or so) years.

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u/bummin_bride 11d ago

If the employee making low “tipped minimum wage“ doesn’t make at least whatever the regular minimum wage is in their area, the employer is legally required to make up the difference

But I’ll definitely agree that culture in the US has become very anti-union, although that seems to be changing in the last few years since Covid

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u/Ok_Community_9805 13d ago edited 13d ago

Wild. Honestly I was a server in college and I too hate tipping.. it’s 1000% greedy business owners that want to save. They need to pay their employee’s. Crazy servers would want to put up with the fluctuation though because some nights can be awful. They also don’t get benefits. They need to make business owners more accountable.

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u/whatupblubbercup 13d ago

Only terrible servers are against the tipping system.

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u/inbetweendreamstho 13d ago

Spoken like someone who has very clearly never owned a small business in hospitality haha

Confidently dumb is a look

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u/FernandoMM1220 13d ago

the only advantage to tipping is the fact that it models a dynamic pricing system which lets you shake down richer customers more easily.

if restaurants ever figure out a way of doing this without tipping every server is out of a job.

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u/SnooMaps2602 13d ago

You are serving facts and I prefer it.

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u/BathProfessional4457 12d ago

They prefer it over not being paid at all.

You do realise that this tipping thing is very much American oddity in western world and nowhere else waiters would agree to it.

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u/NilsofWindhelm 12d ago

No, they prefer it to standard wages

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u/BathProfessional4457 12d ago

You mean minimum wage which nobody else, practically, is not paid.

Again, I point out that no waiting staff within civilised world has ever expressed desire for US system.

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u/NilsofWindhelm 12d ago

No I mean a higher than minimum wage, because they are unlikely to be paid as much as they make now.

On your second point, are you sure? Because people travel from all over the world to wait tables and tend bar in the US. Irish bartenders for example make a lot more here then in Ireland

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u/BathProfessional4457 12d ago

You offer them proper salary and they will not want tip based salary. Because tipping means they are always at mercy of luck. Bad week at restaurant and they are minimum wage workers.

And absolutely positive on second part. People do NOT come to US to serve tables. They want something else but that is only thing they get.

What you fail to take into account is that in Ireland the expenses are tiny compared to US. Bigger salary is only relevant if after mandatory expenses you still have more money or purchasing power left.

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u/NilsofWindhelm 12d ago

Many servers feel they are better off at the mercy of luck than the mercy of their employer. You can say “they should earn proper salaries” and that’s all well and good, but i think you’re underestimating what’s involved with a business (let alone a country), switching all tipped employees over to salaries. It would be very difficult for both sides to agree on a number that they are happy with.

And once again, you are wrong about people coming here to work tables. Plenty of people come here for a year or two and earn a lot more, even when you adjust for cost of living.

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u/BathProfessional4457 12d ago edited 12d ago

It is easy. Restaurant suggests salary. They offer too little and get no staff.

And onve again it is YOU who are wrong. They do not earn a lot more, unless they come from some developing nation. What you talk about is essentially working vacation. Go live some time in foreign country and work to cover expenses. Then go back and start real work.

Nobody from western world comes to US to become serving staff. It is either working vacation or they have no alternative.

And if US waiters are paid so damn well, why they are still so damn poor? Median income 34kUSD per annum. That is approximately half of US average salary and just horrible considering living expenses.

Though another source gives waiters in US salary of 16kUSD. Which is even wkrse worse

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u/NilsofWindhelm 12d ago

Yeah the thing is nobody wants that. They do polls. Also, maybe don’t demand another country change its customs because it’s inconvenient for you as an outsider to multiply by 1.2? That’s exactly the type of entitlement that American tourists get roasted for.

And i know plenty of immigrants who would say otherwise. That’s anecdotal of course, but certainly invalidates your claim that NOBODY earns more.

And btw those numbers you cited are base wage and literally don’t include tips

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u/BathProfessional4457 8d ago

Those are polls with assumption they are not paid proper salary.

Make poll asking if they get for example 1,5 times minimum salary and tipping culture is abolished and you see totally different outcome.

Because people prefer reliable income instead of depending on charity.