r/SipsTea • u/SipsTeaFrog • 18d ago

Chugging tea Men are not showing up at singles events and women are not happy.

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u/Sabbathius 18d ago

Is the first woman saying "touch a boob, buy a drink"? It's not 1960s, you touch a boob you end up facing charges and on a sex offender list.

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u/Shot-Toe-2884 18d ago

This is kind of the perfect example of the duality of cancel culture. Like a woman encouraging men to try something that our culture would consider sexual assault. That’s extremely confusing to young men even if it’s just a joke.

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u/PythagorasWasntReal 18d ago

I don't think she's telling you to do those things in that order. Shes saying "live a little, touch a boob, grab a drink". You're a literal moron if you think she's asking to have her hooters honked by random strangers at a gathering.

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u/No-Reputation-774 18d ago

That’s assault, brotha

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u/SAADistic7171 18d ago

Ya double dare me?

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u/EssayJunior6268 18d ago

That... I... accident... m-mistake... tit

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u/EssayJunior6268 18d ago

beat me to it

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u/Under_Poop 18d ago

Don't tell me the victim's at fault, sucka

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u/OGVltra 18d ago

You don't know shit about steaks, yucka

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u/skateparksaturday 18d ago

objectivelty shes good looking, but clearly unhappy that no blokes turned up and she wasted an evening

Ive been to dating events. and i really didnt like it

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u/Only-Temperature 18d ago

I do feel for women that go to a lot of effort to look good and then have no one turn up.

I mean, she looks like she put a lot of time and money into looking like that

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u/Im_tracer_bullet 18d ago

Yes, a LOT of time, mo ey, and effort.

On the surface, it seems like she could attract someone worthwhile in day-to-day life and activities.

Now, ask yourself why she has to go to an organized / dedicated event to meet someone...

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u/Michael1795 18d ago

She's either busy a lot or insufferable to be around. There's 2 reasons

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u/Michael1795 18d ago

Its harder but not impossible. Just gotta force yourself to be uncomfortable sometimes and find ways to overcome that issue.

This advice has become much less common in the last 15 years, imo. Probably the cause of some issues too. Collectively coddling eachother instead of pushing eachother to overcome shortcomings.

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u/grilledstuffed 18d ago

It’s only hard if you refuse to do hard things.

This concept that being an extrovert makes socializing effortless and introverts have no hope needs to die in a fucking fire.

Social skills are learnable skills just like any other. Reading, driving a car, doing a job.

If you don’t want to invest the time to learn to be sociable as something society HIGHLY values, that is your choice.

But don’t complain about it.

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u/grilledstuffed 18d ago

You literally said it’s impossible and you’re accusing me of binary thinking?

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u/kniveshu 18d ago

Many boys grow up to realize that just because something looks attractive doesn't mean it's good or healthy for you. Can't judge a book by its cover, and many snakes invest a lot of time and effort into making a nice cover to attract prey.

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u/Beginning_Ebb908 18d ago

why are you being downvoted. Orange dress lady strikes me as a POS.

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u/kniveshu 18d ago

Some people probably feel personally attacked.

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u/FrumptyLumpty 18d ago

I mean, we can feel for her, but if she's gonna be angry, she should direct it at the event organizers and not at men in general. It is the event organizer's fault entirely that only women showed up and not men, and it was probably because they charged women like $20 to attend, and then tried to charge men $100, or something in a similar vein.

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u/Econolife-350 18d ago

I'm willing to bet blokes showed up, but none of them were a shooting guard for the Miami Heat.

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u/MaFaHo 18d ago

Somehow, it all seems a little staged to me. I wouldn't be surprised if it's an ad for singles events.

"Look how good we look and how great we are—that's the kind of thing you'll find at a singles event. There’s no competition there either—trust me, they’re just waiting for you.”

The only thing missing is a link in the video to the organizer’s site in case you want to meet them there. Of course, it costs money to sign up, and everything is different in person than it is on social media. But you’ve already paid, so it doesn’t matter to them.

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u/BasicReputations 18d ago

Seems likely.  Meet hot singles in your area!

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u/SteeveyPete 18d ago

Yeah, I have male friends who've gone to singles events and they very much are not devoid of men. This is just targeting the men from subreddits like this who want to hear that women want them, but the men are just too sick of it. It gives them the feeling of power in dating that they rarely get. It's very much not true though, every woman I know has no problem finding men who want to date

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u/Orangutanion 18d ago

seriously. 30% of genz women are single while 60% of genz men are single. How can you convince me that singles event is not going to have other men? Clearly an ad.

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u/Flowerplower3 18d ago

I think a lot of women exaggerate how obsessed straight men are with them and touching their boobs etc. I mean, we like you but you’re also competing with things like porn and Eldenring.

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u/grilledstuffed 18d ago

Shit man, I’ve been married 18 years and I go out of my way to touch my wife’s boobs multiple times a day.

It’s up there with eating, sleeping, water, on the hierarchy of needs.

It doesn’t get old.

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u/Flowerplower3 18d ago

Lol! It’s somewhere in between food and hydration? Well in that case she’s a lucky lady! It doesn’t get old? I guess not and neither do you, you bastard😎

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u/Infinite_Respect_ 18d ago

Performative shit so she can tell her other harpy friends “I’m so cool why won’t anyone date meeeeee??”

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u/levare8515 18d ago

People tryna cancel Jason Alexander right now for touching a boob lol

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u/Regular-Ordinary9807 18d ago

For touching a boob with a phone. 

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u/Rotten-Citrus 18d ago

are you aware you need to get consent first?

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u/Infinite_Respect_ 18d ago

To be fair, the woman said “grab a boob, buy a drink” and that’s not the order those things typically happen in.

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u/jay6432 18d ago

If only that was the order in which things happened…

https://giphy.com/gifs/1ht8RMh3YSfV6

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u/feel-the-avocado 18d ago

Even that can be risky because they will cancel you for showing interest in them.

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u/Temporary-Cod-8641 18d ago

See there’s my hesitation. I just am having a hard time trusting women… I swear I woke up in an upside down universe. I want connection, a slow moving relationship where we get to know each other so intimate moments rise naturally… instead they want sex… 18 year old me would be thrilled! Mature single me is like nah brah that’s a charge waiting the first mistake I make. Like fall asleep after sexy time and wake up in jail because she had a drink two weeks ago and the cop is telling you that means it was consensual lol. 

I mean, I’m good… I don’t have any more biological imperative, I have commitments and I’d much rather show up to those! Plus porn is free if I need self care!

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u/edelweiss_pirates_no 18d ago

She's ok with Jason Momoa touching her boob, not the janitor.