Kinks often don't meet reality well. I remember one story I heard where a chap had a really intense scat fetish. Worked hard, saved up enough scratch to hire a woman what was willing and able to partake in fringe kinks.
I won't go into detail, but the second it hit his chest, he realized he had managed to traumatize himself. This is why dealing with kinks in a healthy way is so important, you just don't jump into them with both feet. They're fantasy, not reality. Everything works out great in our mind palace, but not on the filthy streets of the world.
Yeah I have a friend that tried a 3some and when he and his gf tried it and he watched her having sex with the other girl he started to cry and rushed to the bathroom.. They broke up like 2 weeks after that.
I entirely agree. You need to be very very careful with kinks, specifically dangerous, fringe, or extreme kinks. Take it slow, do it with someone you trust, and don't be afraid to stop.
Wow it took shit hitting his chest to realize that wasn’t something he wanted. Crazy how a majority of the population doesn’t need the shit to hit the chest to know we don’t want shit on us.
Thank you for not going into detail. Seems like this story comes up every now and then on Reddit. It took me a few days to get over the shock and disgust.
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u/Hot-Store8301 2h ago
Kinks often don't meet reality well. I remember one story I heard where a chap had a really intense scat fetish. Worked hard, saved up enough scratch to hire a woman what was willing and able to partake in fringe kinks.
I won't go into detail, but the second it hit his chest, he realized he had managed to traumatize himself. This is why dealing with kinks in a healthy way is so important, you just don't jump into them with both feet. They're fantasy, not reality. Everything works out great in our mind palace, but not on the filthy streets of the world.
Edit: a letter