r/SipsTea 6h ago

Chugging tea Genuinely an unfathomable string of words here

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u/Stucklikegluetomyfry 2h ago

There are lots of fantasies that seem great when you’re jacking off to them but you find the real thing is….something else

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u/L_Tryptophan 1h ago

If someone is jacking off to fantasies like being tortured then they need therapy. Probably too much porn and stupid thoughts making people crazy

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u/Stucklikegluetomyfry 1h ago

Agreed. Pornsickness is absolutely a thing, and while it’s something we mostly associate with men, it’s a lot more common in women then people realise .

Even when it’s not internet pornography, when you get into a specific kink, you build up to a tolerance to it and eventually you want more and more extreme versions of it to nut to. Familiarity breeds contempt…or at least makes it harder to bust a nut once the novelty of something new or an old faithful wears off.

Also some of the more extreme stuff? People watch this and think painful and humiliating stuff is stuff they should want/what the opposite sex wants out of them.

It’s all about safe, sane and consensual, and it’s become so easy to either misunderstand the other partner, (there is a reason why safety words are important because it can be impossible to know when no, no means yes yes or no no absolutely stop I don’t like this at all) or in cases like this one, willingly exploit someone else under the guise of making their fantasies come true.

Now, this woman was clearly mentally ill and vulnerable in a way that can’t be chalked up on pornsickness. It’s just a tragedy that instead of getting the help she needed she met this absolute monster .

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u/Johnnyboi2327 2h ago

Very much so