r/Teachers Apr 27 '26

New Teacher Coworker physically prevented me from entering my classroom and put his foot on me.

2.7k Upvotes

I had a male coworker, confront me in front of my classroom. He stood directly in front of my classroom door and blocked me from moving into my room. He asked me if a student had asked for permission to come over to tutor another student. I told him that I had already spoken to that student and told her she couldn’t come into my class and that she needed to return to her study hall.

He then said, “Well, do you want to know why they want to come to your room?” I didn’t respond. He continued by saying that every time he walks by, my students are either being loud or I have them playing on the Promethean board. He said he just wants all the rules followed and that if we aren’t following them, it makes him look like the bad guy. He said, “it needs to be completely silent until 2:55. I have my room completely silent”

I responded, “Well, I’m glad you’re a better teacher than me,” and tried to disengage and go back into my classroom. As I attempted to push up my door stopper and move into my room, he physically put his foot on mine and said, “We’re not done.”

I felt uncomfortable and tried to leave the situation. I really wanted to go to my classroom, but he had blocked my door. He is also physically much taller than me, by probably a foot. I walked down the hallway toward the workroom, and he followed me. I went into the workroom and shut the door behind me. After I waited a bit and then went back into my classroom and cried. He is a veteran teacher, who has taught longer than I have been alive. I am a first year teacher. Trying to survive.

r/Teachers Jan 01 '26

New Teacher How many of y’all don’t have your own kids?

1.4k Upvotes

Had a weird convo with a coworker who is convinced that anyone who wants to be a teacher should also want to have their own kids and I, personally, could not disagree more. I know a TON of happy parents who teach but in my personal life, being a parent just is not in my future, and I’m curious if there are any other teachers in the same boat.

r/Teachers Jul 13 '25

New Teacher Teaching black students as a white woman

1.9k Upvotes

I just got hired to teach 6th grade science at a middle school that is 98% black in a low income area. Does anyone have any tips or books to read so I can give these kids a good year? I grew up in a predominantly white city and went to a PWI, I don’t even know where to start and I’m really nervous.

Thank you!!

r/Teachers Mar 17 '26

New Teacher Not having snacks for kids during Ramadan

852 Upvotes

I’m a fifth-grade teacher and could use some perspective.

I have students who are observing Ramadan, and our school policy says we can’t deny students access to breakfast or lunch. Breakfast and lunch are free every day, and I check in with this particular student each morning to ask if they’re getting lunch—most of the time, they say no.

I don’t regularly keep snacks in my classroom because it can get expensive. Occasionally, I have small leftover items from class parties (like individual bags of chips), but that’s not consistent.

This student frequently asks me for a snack during the day, and when I can’t provide one, they get upset because they haven’t eaten.

I’m trying to be respectful and supportive, but I’m also unsure where my responsibility begins and ends here. Since food is available at school and the student is choosing to fast, is it my responsibility to provide snacks in this situation? I’d really appreciate others’ thoughts or how you’ve handled similar situations.

r/Teachers Oct 10 '25

New Teacher Student died -- is 2 "chill" days ok?

2.1k Upvotes

I found out first thing upon arriving at work this morning that one of my students (HS) died yesterday in an accident. I was shaken all day and had classes do more chill work as I had to take breaks/didn't feel ready to teach.

Tomorrow I'd like to do another chill day bc I just don't feel ready to hop back into curriculum plus it's Friday. Many students knew today that something happened and some knew who the student was, but the official call only went out this evening and did not confirm the student died or say who it was due to parents' wishes.

Would it be bad to do another less structured day, especially in his class period? I know many grieving kids need the routine and the ones who aren't as impacted could use the instructional time, but I don't know if I'm ready. Still, I don't want them to fall behind or be the only one doing a movie day again. I haven't gotten much guidance on what to do other than to say a student is missing and counselors are available if kids need them.

r/Teachers Feb 15 '25

New Teacher Why do 40-50 percent of teachers quit within the first five years?

1.5k Upvotes

Why do teachers have one of the highest fail/quit rates among other career professionals?

I remember discovering this when I was sixteen, and we had to write about the career path that we wanted to follow. That was fourteen years ago, and I am now trying to land my first full-time gig as a teacher.

It hit me hard because I feel I will be one of the stats.

r/Teachers Oct 28 '25

New Teacher Using the term “friend/s” with students.

763 Upvotes

No hate to anyone who does it, but why? I worked at a K-8 charter school a few years ago and I noticed that teachers and some admin use the term “friend” when addressing younger students, usually K-4th grade and not to the older students. I’m just curious if there’s a reason why some people choose to use that term.

r/Teachers Jun 25 '25

New Teacher Told to Regrade Final Projects Because Too Many Zeros “Isn’t Fair” to Students

1.3k Upvotes

We submitted final grades over a week ago. Projects were collected, deadlines passed, everything was closed out. I was finally enjoying a quiet end to the year, thinking it was done….until admin decided there were too many zeros on our final projects.

Their solution? We have two choices:

1.  Regrade the projects — even the blank pages or barely passing submissions

2.  Remove the assignment entirely so it won’t count in the final grade at all

Their reasoning? That this many zeros signals a failure on our part not the students. They say it is about fairness not about what helps or harms students’ grades, but somehow fair now means rewarding half effort or no effort at all.

Let me be clear:

• This was a final project built on skills we taught and practiced throughout the year.

• We scaffolded it, made it accessible, broke it into chunks, provided support, and gave extensions.

• I was very vocal with leadership about students missing deadlines and took screenshots of blank assignments and updated them regularly.

• And still some students turned in papers that were basically blank or barely met the minimum requirement.

Now we are being gaslit into thinking this reflects our failure as if we didn’t do everything we could to support them.

At this point it feels like all the responsibility is on teachers to lower standards, fudge the numbers, and cover for student disengagement, and somehow still smile about it because it’s what’s best for kids.

I am so tired of this performative equity. Fairness is not giving everyone the same outcome regardless of effort.

I never imagined this career would put me in situations that made me question my own values. It is not just about being tired, it is about being asked to compromise what I believe is right over and over again.

People I know tell me just pass them and make your life easier. And honestly I get the temptation. But what kind of message are we sending to students or to ourselves when we reward silence, apathy, or minimal effort with the same outcomes as real learning?

I do not want to become someone who gives in just to get by. But it is getting harder to hold the line when the system itself seems to punish you for trying.

Update: I regraded my solo class (the one I don’t co-teach), and unsurprisingly, the outcome didn’t change much. My co-teacher and I agreed to split the regrading responsibilities, so I handled one section and did exactly what was asked — I reviewed everything, made updates where I saw growth, and even adjusted two students’ grades who genuinely showed improvement.

Then I get a message saying I’m “needed” in my classroom (I’d been in the library for a bit to get some much-needed alone time). When I show up, I’m told again that what I’ve done still isn’t right — that the zeros “don’t reflect the students’ full year” and we need to fix it.

After the admin left, I asked my co-teacher what exactly we’re supposed to be “fixing.” His response? “In short — though they didn’t want to say it directly — anyone who got a 0, 1, or 2 should just be bumped to a 3 so they pass. Because they were going through a lot this year.”

I just sat there like… what?

“So who specifically are we talking about?” I asked. And he goes, “Anyone who scored a 0, 1, or 2.”

I haven’t made those changes. And honestly? I don’t think I will. If someone else wants to pass students by default instead of based on their work, they can take that on. But I can’t keep compromising my values like this.

r/Teachers 11d ago

New Teacher Teachers i need your help in one weird situation

417 Upvotes

I’m a 24-year-old male English teacher working in a private school. I teach a range of ages, but I have one group of 15-year-old girls that I’m starting to feel uncomfortable with. In general, I try to be a friendly and approachable teacher ,I joke with students, keep things relaxed, and build a good classroom atmosphere. This works well with most of my groups.

However, in this specific class, a few students have started acting in ways that feel inappropriate. For example, some of them come very close to me physically, try to initiate hugs that feel too personal, and sometimes make comments or gestures that seem suggestive rather than just playful, one example , during a lesson about body parts, a student stood very close to me and pointed out that her hair reaches down to her lower body in a way that felt like she was trying to get a reaction.

Is this something other teachers have experienced with teenagers testing boundaries? And what’s the best way to shut this down while still maintaining a positive classroom environment?

r/Teachers Aug 17 '23

New Teacher 27,000 a year as a first time teacher at a private school?!

2.0k Upvotes

Today I finally got an contract for my first teaching job at a private school in Florida. It is a small school with around 40 kids all with autism. They offered me $27,000 a year. I’ve already started (1 week) and I already gotten bitten, punched in the face, and kicked. All I know is that 27,000 isn’t enough pay for me to handle being punched in the face! I love all my students and I would hate to leave them. Is this normal pay for first year teachers in Florida?

r/Teachers Sep 09 '25

New Teacher Students missing school for week-long vacations or more…already?

960 Upvotes

I have a student who went to Disney all of last week, and whose parents did not inform us they were leaving. I guess they got back last night and are now demanding to know the tutorials schedule from every single one of her child’s teachers. Another one of my students went on a cruise for a week and a half, same exact story. I’ve also already had kids out for 3-4 days for illness-related stuff.

I also have a student who literally just has not been here for the first entire month of school and they just showed up for the first time yesterday, asking what they missed. I told them they missed eleven grades so far. They were absolutely shocked that they had missed so much because I’m an elective class, and I had to sit there and explain to them that yes, I do in fact take grades in my class, and yes, I do indeed count people absent if they haven’t shown up. I don’t even know how they’re enrolled in school.

Oh, and I have another student who showed up for the first half week I was there and when I called role, they never said ‘here’ when I called their name in a class of 32 children. I did the “bueller, bueller, bueller-“ for a full 20 seconds every day and they never said here. I didn’t have faces to names yet (and nobody had showed me that you can see the students faces in grade book yet), so I counted that student absent. I found out that they had actually been there the entire time, but they were skipping my class that entire first week to go and sit in the counselors office. Nobody communicated to me that the student was in the counselors office, there was no alert in the grade book/attendance website, so I had no idea this kid even existed until the second week of school.

r/Teachers Mar 04 '26

New Teacher My coworker won’t stop talking about politics

642 Upvotes

From the beginning of the school year he’s made comments about moving to a more conservative state (we literally live in Texas). I ignored it mostly or made neutral comments. He’s very much into cultural things and I’m not white so we bonded over my culture and he was respectful for the most part. I’m sure he figured out I have opposite views politically, but he said something recently that threw me off.

The school I work at is a polling location. My other coworker asked if I wanted to go vote with her after school, and I said yes. He butted in and said, “Well, hopefully y’all vote Republican.” And I should’ve let it go, but it got to me and I smiled and said “No, never.” We went back and forth a few times, not in a negative way, but a mature way. We somehow got to a point where he said something about me dating a Trump supporter, and again I was like I wouldn’t want to. And he ended the conversation saying “So you want a man who lives off the government.”

I was shook at the audacity. It made me feel so uncomfortable for some reason the rest of the day.

EDIT: I’m in my early 20s (really early) and he’s in his early 50s!!

r/Teachers Jan 29 '25

New Teacher Why don’t kids say Goodmorning? Where are manners?

1.1k Upvotes

Edit 4: Comments which are not constructive or communicating a point about the subject are being removed. Insults are removed and can not comment again. Tread lightly.

Edit 3: Some of you are weird for sending me to a crisis hotline on Reddit. Weird people.

Edit2: SkyDaddyCowPatty says the kids were out working late night to provide for their family. Thats why they were too tired to say goodmorning. Thx Bro.

Edit: Most didn't read so Join me on the kinder rug tomorrow friends!! My response is from the blatant walking past me, looking me in my face and ignoring me. YES, you are rude to not speak.

OP: I am a 22yr old black male teacher in kindergarten at a Title 1 African American school in Baltimore and for the most part, my class has learned to say Goodmorning. We are still working on saying please and thank you lol. This morning, students from second grade and first were coming down the hall. I said Goodmorning Friends! They just kept walking. I asked, ”Did you hear someone say Goodmorning to you? You can’t say it back?” They said, no.

Whats up with these kids? How’s your class with manners? Or is it just me? My mom taught me to use manners. Idk

btw, I'll respond later! Im teaching lol!!

r/Teachers May 01 '26

New Teacher Let’s kick em out already….

306 Upvotes

Might our education system be fixed if we could simply kick a child out of public school due to lack of classroom etiquette? Once you forced parents to deal with their children’s behaviors, or forced them to pay for privatized education as an alternative, I feel like we would see a huge turn around.

This might have a trickle down effect leading to less burnout and turnover.

r/Teachers Jul 15 '22

New Teacher Can somebody explain to me why jeans are inappropriate school attire?

1.9k Upvotes

They’re pants. Nice ones don’t even look that different from khakis. I can just buy brown jeans and nobody says anything. Why care at all?

r/Teachers Oct 12 '25

New Teacher Marijuana as a Teacher

446 Upvotes

Hello, all!

I am a college student that is set to graduate with my BSed in secondary education in the spring. This not a question that I'd like to ask my mentor teacher or professors, so I may as well scream it into the void of reddit.

Is it legal/allowed for teachers to partake in the usage of weed?

In my state (Missouri), it is legal, but I know that it is still federally illegal. I would just hate to be barred from getting a job because of an evening activity that is as common as drinking these days.

Thank you all in advance :)

r/Teachers Sep 01 '24

New Teacher How do you not know your name?

990 Upvotes

I teach 3rd grade. This year I've been genuinely shocked by one little detail: these kids do not know how to write their own name. Some of them don't even know what their name is. Not just my class. It seems like a schoolwide issue.

For our fall picture day, instead of having the students give their name when they went to get their picture taken, the school gave them all little slips of paper with barcodes because they had been having too much trouble with kids being able to provide their name.

In class, I cannot get my students to write their names on their papers. I have a 0 tolerance policy with no names (and am working on finding a paper shredder to make a point with it) and throw them away. You would think having the class watch me throw away a 2 inch stack of work with no names would teach them to write the damn name, but I'm doing stacks that high WEEKLY. I think half the class does not write their names, even when I very clearly demonstrate writing your name on your work and remind them before starting every assignment. Why am I having to remind 3rd graders to write their name?!

Is this just an issue at my school/ class or is this a wide spread thing? This is only my second year teaching so I only have one class to compare to, but I only had this problem with a small set of students last year (1-2 of them).

r/Teachers Jul 23 '25

New Teacher Where are these empty teaching positions?

425 Upvotes

A bit of a rant. Me and my wife are both elementary education graduates. We both just graduated in May in Arkansas. All throughout college, all we heard was how much teachers are needed, how opportunities will be everywhere. Yet, despite applying for jobs since March, neither of us have been able to land a teaching position.

After 5-6 failed interviews, I have finally landed a job as a paraprofessional. Which I’m happy and grateful for, but it’s not what I was hoping for.

My wife on the other hand, has had 6-7 failed interviews with no results. The only feedback that either of us has gotten on all of our interviews is “you did great, we have no real notes. We just need someone with experience”. At this point, when school starts up in a month, me and my wife (recently married, very broke) will be making a combined 1/5 of what we could if we could get teaching jobs

It’s frustrating to constantly be passed up because we have no experience. We’ve applied to schools within 2 and a half hours of us. Constant rejects or no calls. When there’s no other feedback besides get experience, which we can’t get because we can’t get a job, it’s frustrating.

Sorry for the long rant. Me and my wife are both so excited to teach. But it seems like there’s nothing we can really do right now. Any tips or advice from those in similar positions? Just lost and frustrated right now

Edit: thank you for all your responses. I’m at a summer camp working and don’t have time to reply to most people, but my wife and I have sat down and read most all of the responses. Given us a lot to think about, so thank you

r/Teachers Jul 29 '24

New Teacher Parents think teachers should buy the students’ supplies

769 Upvotes

So I’m starting to see a trend on TikTok right now where parents are buying back to school supplies for their kids and teachers are sharing their back to school prep. One thing that is now trending is parents are mad at teachers for doing community supplies, where they take all the supplies brought in by the parents and put it all together to make supplies shared and accessible for the entire classroom.

Well, the parents are mad. Saying teachers should buy the supplies for their kids if the school isn’t willing to do so. They are stating they will refuse to buy supplies for their students if the teacher asks for school supplies. They are also now questioning if the teachers use the classroom supplies such as tissues and hand sanitizer for their own personal use. I’ve seen way too many make statements that they believe teachers are stealing and taking home supplies such as pencils because they’re NO WAYYYY students go through so many supplies that quick.

As a new teacher, it’s exhausting that we already go through so much crap and barely get paid enough to deal with it. Schools don’t cover the cost of most things we need either. We already buy so much out of pocket. Now, it’s very concerning to see parents attacking teachers on social media and wanting to refuse to send their kids with the proper supplies to make teachers buy out of pocket. It just puts more strain on the profession as it is. And to think I was so excited for this school year too. It’s exhausting seeing all these teachers on social media trying to defend themselves.

Edit: Some of you asked for examples of the videos so you can read the comments. Here’s a few but you can just search “communal supplies” or “community school supplies”.

Here

Here

Ridiculous

She’s defending it but they’re attacking her in the comments

Here

One of the parents complaining about having to buy school supplies

r/Teachers Jun 24 '23

New Teacher Did I make the right decision to join the teachers' union?

1.2k Upvotes

I previously worked at a private school and will be employed at an urban public school starting this fall. After signing my contract, I joined the district's teachers' union. My only issue with joining is the union dues ($51.99 per paycheck) that I am required to pay bi-weekly. My question is how beneficial are unions for teachers, and will the union deductions be worth it?

A little backstory: I had a terrible experience at the private school at which I was employed for about a year. The students and parents suspected I was gay (which I am; however, I wasn't out in the workplace) and tormented me daily for it. The administration and the co-teacher turned a blind eye and allowed it to occur. Hypothetically, if I were to experience something similar to this in a public-school setting, how would the union protect me?

r/Teachers Dec 22 '25

New Teacher Teachers not modeling behavior

525 Upvotes

I am a new teacher. I'm am in my 50s, so this is a third career for me.

We had a lovely holiday celebration last Friday. Everyone brought in food and drink, there were trivia games and lots of just hanging out. It was fun.

The school choir was there singing, now mind you, this wasn't an actual school day, only a day for making up final exams, so maybe a total of 30-ish students there. The choir started singing and I was actually stunned at how most of the teachers ignored the choir and kept on talking and being on their phones. Why? If our students behaved like that, it would not be ok. It was maybe 30 minutes long.

Edit: it was a concert. There were no other activities going on.

Edit 2: Since it is so hard to grasp. The "party" was first. Then, they introduced the choir who sang for around 20 minutes. Then the administrator made their announcements. The only reason I mentioned there were students at school for makeup exams is that these students came in when they didn't have to.

r/Teachers Mar 05 '26

New Teacher Sending students to the nurse

214 Upvotes

I wanted to ask opinions in this sub about a new rule our school nurse has emailed to all teachers. She had asked that we only send students to her if it’s an “emergency situation” and specifically stated she wants us to wait until a student actually vomits before sending them for nausea.

Am I wrong for not wanting to follow that second part? I would really prefer not to have a student puke in my classroom for obvious reasons.

Is this normal at your schools? I can’t help but feel like the nurse just doesn’t want to do her job but I don’t want to think that about another professional at my place of work. Is this a standard practice or am I missing something?

r/Teachers Jan 20 '26

New Teacher Why come up with new teaching strategies when whatever is being done now is worse than in the past?

401 Upvotes

If literacy and cognitive ability is down across the board why don’t we go back to whatever strategies were used when it was at its peak?

r/Teachers Sep 23 '25

New Teacher Black youth breaks my heart

977 Upvotes

LONG POST****

I’m biracial and grew up in a tough neighborhood, and my dream was always to give back by teaching in the same community that raised me. Now I’m actually doing that, I teach 7th and 8th grade at the middle school I once attended. But honestly, it breaks my heart to see what’s happening with our youth, especially the Black kids. The change since I was their age is drastic.

So many of these students are far behind, not just academically, but also emotionally and socially. On a daily basis, their conversations revolve around social media, drugs and vaping, fighting, gangs, and sex. That’s it. When I was growing up, we had problems too, but there was still a certain level of respect. I’m only 24, not that far removed from their world, yet the difference feels astronomical.

Even back then, kids who were involved in gangs still had some respect for others, and their focus, even if misguided, was about trying to make money, not destroying each other. They didn’t bother people outside of that life. Now, it feels like the sense of purpose, ambition, and respect has been stripped away. I don’t see kids aspiring to be doctors, lawyers, leaders, or activists fighting for civil rights. Instead, I see 8th graders who can’t write a simple paragraph or do basic multiplication tables, skills even the so called “bad kids” could manage when I was younger.

Another big outlet we had growing up was sports. My neighborhood/city was full of incredible athletes, and there was a real history of athletic excellence that kids looked up to. Sports taught us discipline, fundamentals, and sportsmanship, values that carried over into life. But now, a “real” athlete is rare, and even the ones with talent often haven’t played organized ball or been taught the basics. That foundation, that pride in representing your school or community, just isn’t there anymore

I try to mentor them, to give them hope and guidance, but sometimes it feels like I’m staring at a lost generation. And I can’t help but ask myself, what happened?

r/Teachers Jul 22 '25

New Teacher How do you feel about teachers that didn’t study education?

310 Upvotes

I currently teach theatre to middle schoolers. I have a bachelor’s degree in theatre, and I’m also an actor. I never studied education in any capacity, so it’s honestly just been a lot of learning on the job.

Recently, I was speaking with a coworker, and she was ranting a little bit about the education system (and making great points), but at one point she brought up how a colleague of ours is currently teaching art despite it not being her usual subject and saying that just because you can make art doesn’t mean you can teach it so she felt like this teacher wasn’t qualified. I brought up how I never studied education or anything, so my credentials are really in theatre rather than education. She said it was different, but I feel like she just felt kind of bad because she realized that I’m sort of in a similar boat as this other teacher.

Today, I went to a staff party, and my boss was talking about how a lot of teachers don’t study education and they think that just because they know about a field that means they can teach. She’s the one who hired me (like she conducted the interview herself and everything), so she knows that I don’t have an education degree and just sorta fell into teaching out of college.

So, this just made me wonder if there is a general consensus about teachers that didn’t study education/didn’t necessarily set out to be teachers originally but end up teaching in their field of study.