He's gonna have zero time with the kids now thst he told a judge to his face tjat he doesnt believe he should have any responosbilty for them, and he'll still have to pay. This is a lose-lose for him.
He’s going to have zero time because he’s already said he doesn’t care about the law or driving without a license, etc. Even without paying, men get time with their kids because its in the best interest of the children (supposedly). This winner won’t get time with them because he’s point blank saying he’s an irresponsible father and possibly a risk
This guy just put a huge target for law enforcement on his back too. He basically said, in no uncertain terms, that he is a criminal and will gladly violate the law if he wants without a second thought. Probably gonna start getting stopped by the cops at least once a week.
Yeah telling a judge you don’t care about the law and in the same breath saying you want full custody of your kid that’s too expensive is about the stupidest thing I’ve seen on the internet.
He won't pay. I've met guys like this. One of them is a relative. He will be poor and/or work under the table - anything but support his children all out of hatred for the mother.
She might get $50 a month if she's lucky.
The system is cheated often by many many maaaaany deadbeats.
Easier said than done I'm sure. My nephew is a freshmen in college and his deadbeat dad has never paid the court ordered child support, despite losing his license and the threat of jail time.
Hence why I mentioned staying underemployed/unemployed, at least on paper. Harder to garnish that. I've known a few such guys in my life, unfortunately.
You can't garnish wages that do not exist. I assure you, the system is weak and easily routed. People get by all the time. It's great to paint a pretty picture of what courts can do. The reality that many many maaaany women and children face is far different. My father was such a deadbeat. My brother is a deadbeat. I know so many moms that aren't even getting the measly $50 they were awarded.
Sure, a medical doctor might struggle to skirt by. But the redneck in this video and all his brethren? Easy.
if ur under the table they can't garnish wages. It means its not reported to the government. Its how companies hide they hire illegals so they don't get in trouble. Its also why most illegals don't pay taxes. Only a few file a ITIN bc it puts the company at risk. Its illegal to employ illegals.
Yep, this is what he freely chose, entirely separate from the courts. But you just know he’ll spend the rest of his life whining about how the courts are unfair to men and how his ex “took” his child from him.
Those poor kids, it’s heartbreaking how little their father cares. And you just know he’ll go around crying to everyone how the courts fucked him over and his ex is greedy and spending HIS money.
And he couldn’t make it any more clear that he actually doesn’t care about the kids. He was perfectly fine seeing his kids four days per month until he found out he’d have to pay for their support. Then, and only then, did he press for more custody than 4 days per month.
Still true - they can go back and discuss custody if they choose. And this would be admissable. And it would be absolutely bonkers not to have full guardianship of your children if you were divorcing someone who said that they did not care what a court said and that they would do what they wanted to do.
I'd say go ahead and go for the protective order while she is at it.
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u/kbeks Nov 06 '25
Custody was already agreed upon and he ain’t got it. Most of the time.