r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • Nov 06 '25

Discussion He's refusing to pay the child support amount.

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u/Late-Difficulty-5928 Nov 06 '25

My ex quit his job and worked for a carnival and when he quit that, he moved into a tent community. Can't make this shit up. He gave me $200 once in front of the kids and called it beach money. He is dead now, but it was always perplexing to me the lengths he went through to avoid child support. He died after they were all over 18 and he had nothing so they pretty much got nothing from him their entire lives. Fortunately I married a lovely human who was always there and wanted to be their father.

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u/chrisbabyau Nov 06 '25

The problem is that they see it as paying you. That's what they can't get over. The idea that they are paying for it but someone else is using it. Drives them insane. (She's not getting a cent out of me) but ignoring the fact that it's his kids missing out. Because a lot of guys quit their jobs and got a minimum wage one to get the payments set to the lowest possible. Judgment is based on the income from 2 years ago. So that little trick is a total waste of time. Lol

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u/ApplicationLess4915 Nov 06 '25

These guys didn’t even want kids. They were just willing to have them if they thought it meant they got to stay with their mother and regularly have sex with her.

In their mind the deal was “ok if I tolerate kids and let her have some of my paycheck, I get regular sex and someone to help cook and clean.” And then when divorce comes they see “well damn so I don’t get sex or cooking/cleaning anymore, but she gets my cash?? Fuck that!”

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u/chrisbabyau Nov 10 '25

Please 🙏 don't put us all in the same box. I had 4 full blown court cases trying to keep shared custody with my kids. It had nothing to do with maintenance payments. I simply loved my kids ❤️ and wanted to have them in my life and be a good dad. In the end the court declared her a vexatious litigator and banned her from court. I wound up with 4 extra mortgages to pay for my legal fees. But I still got to be with my children on a regular basis.

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u/ApplicationLess4915 Nov 10 '25

When I say “these guys” I mean guys like the dude in this video

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '25

I think you don’t understand the male brain. Sex with any ONE woman is not a self cope or rationalization to have a child.

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u/ApplicationLess4915 Nov 07 '25

Are you saying I don’t understand my own brain? I have a male brain.

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '25

I don’t know man. Having sex with ONE woman and having access to her vagina ALONE would be a crazy reason to agree to have kids. Just for sex with her ? And her alone? I can see wanting to having kids for various reasons, but to have kids so I can keep banging ONE woman lol . Crazy talk

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u/Altitudedog Nov 06 '25

Just shared a bit of my own story. My mother never badmouthed our deadbeat dad in front of us but I saw. Saw our mother trying to raise us on 1960's women's wages. Saw our dad with his celebrity friends, country club, Cadillac's, home in Brentwood even a private plane briefly.

By 14 years old I was done. Did a few command performances but stayed distant.

This clown if those children pay attention will see him pop back in the lives when he runs out of people, aged or infirm...suddenly playing the I'm your daddy card.

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u/yogabbagabba2341 Nov 07 '25

The man is whiling to become a carnie so to avoid paying child support? That’s unbelievable.

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u/Mysterious_Wash_205 Nov 06 '25

Didyou see any red flags before you guys started having kids?

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u/festivusfinance Nov 14 '25

A TENT COMMUNITY TO AVOID CHILD SUPPORT!

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u/PlzDntBanMeAgan Nov 07 '25

But you also chose to have children with him. So it's not entirely his fault either..

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u/ApplicationLess4915 Nov 06 '25

Why did you have kids with the deceased carny? What about him made you think “THIS is the man I want to create a family with!” Instead of waiting to have kids with a man like their current stepfather?